TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

Think I might get some tests and do one tonight. Suspense is killing me lol

Maddy- thanx hun. But it lasted 8 days. First 2/3 days heavy and red then on/off dark brown/pink (sorry tmi ) for 4/5 days.

And I spose when you've got the baby in front of you all pain dissapears (all well worth it)

I'm getting so excited about all this. I've waited a year to try and I know I will be so dissapointed if it doesnt happen first time. I dont know how you girls do it. I dont know if I'll cope with loads of negatives.

Still I want my baby so if I have to try for years i will.

Good planning Mumswish. That's the best attitude to have.
Personally, I did'nt feel my tear at all but it was only diddy (too busy pushing to notice )

Hellkat my friend had what she thought was her short period, lasted 3 days and was light. Thought she was 5 weeks pg and then doc told her yesterday she was at least 8 weeks so was an implantation. Fingers crossed xxxx

Morning everybody,

Hope your all okay.

CH - Never worry about upsetting me I'd rather you gave it to me straight rather than sugar-coating stuff. Dont worry I understand we may not get our sept baby (its DB thats wants that not me) I just want my baby. We were talking last night (after seeing mates baby again and him holding her) and we've decided that as from Friday we're trying (well after the af part anyway) if we get our sept baby great before is even better and after just as good so we're settled more now.

We're not going to be TTCing as such, just see if nature will do it's thing. Will be doing the TTC thing after a couple of months (give me body time to rest)

Sounds really painful to have tears inside you. I'm surprised you still want more. he he

HK - I hope it was an implantation but you're right it does sound like a short af. I'm still keeping things crossed for you though.

Morning Diddle. Hope everything is snazzy for you today.

Good luck to anyone and everyone who is testing this week.

Lol typical eh?

Hasn't put me off though! I had more gas and air and more pain whilst having the stitches than whilst I was having DS3! My labour was 39 minutes but it took an hour to do my stitches!!

Ow Ch!!!! I got off so lightly with ds1. They were going to do an episiostomy (sp?) but I pushed regardless and came out with only 4 stitches up insede where his shoulder caught me.
Poor you!!

Ha-HA!! I did say I would log on whilst having my brekkie!! Anyway, boys still here so couldn't possibly do HW withthem here !!!! They create mess in the hoovers wake!!

Morning!!

Bubble - sorry to here AF has arrived. Perhaps next month is your month, hun

HK - as Diddle says, don't give up hope yet, be positive And that thread was ouch. I thought I had a bad time of it with DS3 - I had 30 stitches inside and out after he was born. The midwives told me that he hadn't turned after his head was born so his shoulders came out width-ways rather than lond-ways IYSWIM! OUCH!

Told you.
Bless her though, saying at the end it was all worth it and she'd go through it all again.

Morning all.
Were'nt those threads fab? Did you all see the one about the poor love who tore in childbirth? Ouch.
Slink- Got all my normal pg symptoms and suppose it could be implantation bleeding but really think it was just an easy af. Tmi: Bled really heavily for the first 3 days then eased off. More like a period.
Diddle- Thanks hun. I'm now starting to think it's endo playing tricks instead but still will test anyway tomorrow.
Bubble- Sorry about your bfn!
How's everyone?

Not lucky for me, yet, Diddle. AF turned up this evening. Oh well. CD1. Heave ho and off we go again.

I'm going to buy some OPK's and give them a go this month. My cycles are becoming erratic (certainly not erotic , BD'ing without much dancing)

Last month was 27 days and this month was 30. My last pregnancy was a twin Pg, which means that my ovulation is becoming hit, miss and double hit. I just hope I've got some eggs left.

Right, enough of my whinging. I'll try and check in during the day tomorrow to see how you're all doing.

XX

how long have you been ttc diddle? i reckon i am going to give it all i got energy wise this month and if it doesn't work i am going to try and chill out on the whole thing and start thinking it will happen when/if it happens- although maybe easier said than done lol but on the bright side if it doesn't happen straight away at least we don't need to think about contraception :O

HellKat - so what do you mean everythings pointing in the pg direction???? i am intriged sore boobs? sick? - really hope you are, you know about implantation bleeds right? maybe your af was not a real af.

i am with mumswish on the impatient thing - i will be dissapointed if i do not get pg this month but i guess thats because this is the first month of trying, i suppose its a bit of a emotional roller coaster for the people who have already been ttc for a while. i am desperate for it to be next week so i can test and i keep checking to see if my boobs hurt but nothing yet also though all the bding i reckon has given me thrush! anyone had that experience? sorry if tmi lol

Thanks Diddle! that was gross!