TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

Back little bit later. Going to grab a nap then clean the upstairs. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Pmsl!
I'd give it until the weekend. Then you can test with Diddle and Lottie. They're testing on the 8th. Fingers crossed af does'nt show! Bet it feels great to be not ttc again

So, AF is due on Tuesday then... Wonder if I should do test later??.....

What you mean like I did last time! LOL!!! " Um, oh dear, I appear to be PG!!" cue big puppy dog eyes, slightly fluttering, and a sweet,sweet smile!!!!

I'd say from the light bleed. Technically it was an af. lol when you get pg earlier than the 6 mths he allocated you, are you going to look at him with big puppy eyes and say Opps? lol.

I know I shouldn't really have to count my CDs but there is always the hope I could seduce DH!! Hee-hee!! And I need to know the best time to seduce him!!

Do you think I should have counted my CDs from the day I got the light bleed last month? If I do that makes Af due Tuesday, if not it will be Thursday.

Morning Hc!
Ch- Wow that long to wait. god it feels like ages ago you said 6 mths!

Hi HC! How are you??

HK - I've just trawled the old threads and found the post where I told you all I was taking a break! 3rd of September so 5 months to go!!! This is going to feel like forever, I can tell!!

Morning ladies

maddyd-thinking of you hun (((xxx)))

Hope you all try and have a relaxing day.

xxxxxx

Lol it's got to be about that now! Hoorrah you don't have to wait too long! If you carry on bleeding after nookie, pop to your dr and tell them. They'll prolly send you to the hospital to get it checked or your dr might look personally.

HK - Thank you for putting my mnd at rest And as for how long it will be til we may be able to tts it must be about 4.5 months!! Can't remember exactly when me and DH had our "chat" might have to trawl old threads!!

maddy (((((((((huge hugs)))))))) take care of yourself and i do hope everything will be ok for you.

Maddy- If you need me cat me. I'm back and forth on the net all day. Ch and I are here if you need us.

Morning all.
Maddy- {{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Try and chill. Hard I know but not a lot else you can do my love. As Ch said, relax with some tunes, anything you take your mind off of what's happening. If you need us we're here. xx
Ch- You may have a cervical erosion. I had it until it was cauterised. Painless and causes slight bleeds after sex. Basically it means that some cells inside your cevix have turned to face the outside, hence any "Friction" either through sex or using tampax, can irritate them causing them to bleed. If it is that, it's so easy to treat. You also bleed after sex when you have endometriosis but you'd be having major pain with it (trust me it kills).
How exciting that you might be testing too!!! Wahhooooo. You do realise that it's no longer 6mths you have to wait now. Got to be around 4 lol.

Maddy are you there? I hope you have gone for a lay down.

I'll pop on and off all day, so just shout if you need to chat. You don't have to do this alone. I know you have your DH, but you nnow you have us as well. BIG {{{{{HUGS}}}}} XXXX

mads (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) fingers crossed for you honney. hope everything works out - is there no chance of u being seen today?

Foe example, stating with your head. Think of your head, heavy and relaxed, and as it becomes more relaxed feel how it seems to be sinkin ginto the pillow. Then move onto your neck and shoulders etc...

Nope aorry can't find any free downloads! no wonder psyciatrists are loaded!!

Trying putting on some relaxing music, laying on your back, with you limbs loose and floppy, and starting from you head work your way down your body, making yourself aware of that part. Think of it relaxing and sinking deeper into the matress. Work yourway right down to your toes and when you get there you should be chilled and calm. You will probably fall asleep, which would be fantastic.

Do you have an MP3 player?

Okay, Aunty Coathanger prescribes a day of rest and sleep in bed, lots of TLC from DH, and positive vibes.

I know its really hard but try to stay positive. It is so easy for me to say that but you must try. Try some relaxation techniques if you know any. Focus on your baby. I'll see if I can find any relaxation links for you...

Keep smiling sweetheart, be positive XXXX

Thankyou ch yes i am. As soon as dp gets back from swimming with dd. In truth id rather sleep away the day then have to think about it. Im sure im loosing it. Its all too similar. I dont have any pain but then again i didnt with the last one not untill id been bleeding a couple of days. I dont have any symtoms either apart from the headaches.

I know its a bit of an old fashioned view but are you able to get some bed rest today?

Oh, Maddy, I wish I could be there with you. I don't know what to do or say. I know just how you feel. If the worst happens then you know I'm here - we're here for you. I will be on and off all day today so if you need to chat you must. Or find me on MSN or CAT me. I just wish I could do something. Please don't be scared by yourself. XXX

im so scared ch, i cant go through this again i just cant