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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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Coathanger · 02/10/2005 17:20

Keep a positive look on it! {{{{hugs}}}} Peepee!

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 17:19

Peepee- i am praying hard that this good news. I'm sure it is and I'm sure the "smear" you saw this mornig was things just settling in. I am thinking of you hun and hoping that this is a true BFP! XXXX

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 17:13

HK - often suspected you were addicted, you're always bathing and napping! you don't have to nap when the baby sleeps when your baby is a toddler i think you can stop now.

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 17:11

peepee - Right, it is possible that the positive result could be retained "stuff" after the miscarriage, did you do any tests after you lost the baby, to see if you got a negative?
It is also possible that you are pregnant, I got a pregnant straight away after my first miscarriage. Have you been trying? is there a chance you are?

remind me of your miscarriage circumstances. did you have a d&c of lose naturally? ahve you had any confirmation sicne fo your hcg levels dropping, or dropped?

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peepee · 02/10/2005 17:07

Am in a bit of shock today...........

I did a p/g test this morning and it was positive.

Some answers for the following would be appreciated.......

  1. Is this really possible?
  2. Could it b that my HCG levels are still high after the m/c which was a month ago? My last bleed ended 21days ago.
  3. At what stage could u have an implantation bleed. I am positive I saw some red (though faint) on wiping this afternoon.

Are you all over the shock. I am not holding my breath. So be as honest as u wish with your answers. I have a GP appointment on Monday it was just to get a medical certificate for work. They are going to give some of my leave back as I was m/c and not off galavanting for the first week of my hols. Should I ask to go to the EPU or just wait and see?

I can't beleive this ............

HellKat · 02/10/2005 17:04

I have a bath every night! I'm obsessed.

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 16:59

Can't believe we're up to over 500 messages on here already!! Don't we like to talk!!!

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:53

lottielou - I see that Villa lost oh dear, hope "Fred" isn't too mad.

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:52

HK - good plan may as well do it as much as poss, did you have a bath yesterday and dry it up for yesterday?

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HellKat · 02/10/2005 16:47

Using good all cm! Very odd as had ewcm friday so bd (that was cd14) nothing yesterday but back again today. So bd as and when needed.

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:42

HK - have you tested or are you relying on CM to give you a clue as to when you're OV? is that why you think it migth be today?

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HellKat · 02/10/2005 16:41

Well we bd Thursday and Friday but not entirely sure if I'm ov now or I did then. Will have to wait until a lot later though when both ds's are in bed.

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 16:38

SOOOO, we won't be seeing much of you tonight then HK !!!

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:33

i'm good thanks, i wonder what you will be doing later lucky you, My DH has just started his 3 hours journey to his mums, so i'm all alone.

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HellKat · 02/10/2005 16:32

I'm great ta and you?
Think I ov late this month. Instead of Friday looks like today. So wonder what I'll be up to tonight?

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:28

Hi HK - Hows you?

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 16:28

CH - hope my willpower can last until saturday, you MUST let us know how you get on tomorrow and remember a bfn doesn't mean you're not pregnant

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HellKat · 02/10/2005 16:23

Ohhhhhh Exciting Ch!!

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 16:22

Lottie - meant to add, it could be cervical erosion like Hellkat said

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 16:21

Hi Diddle! Did you go to Alton Towers today??

Lottie - funny we were both "at it" last night and both had bleeding as a result! wierd!!

Maddy - hope you are okay, hunni. Remember to shout if you need us XXXX

I was thinking of testing with Slinkie, Didle and Lottie, but have decided to do it sooner. I am 99.9999% sure I'm not PG but will get a cheap test and make sure. Will probably do it tomorrow - AF is due Tuesday so might do test tomorrow (have always had bfp on or near AF date). Will let you know as soon as I do it

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Diddle · 02/10/2005 15:55

maddyd - thinking of you, if you need a chat feel free to CAT me, i know its eays for us all to say but we all know people who have had bleeding in pregnancy and gone on to have healthy babies, stay positive and rested and look after yourself.

CH - how are you doing today? is the blood definitly yours? Dh and i once BD and he had caught a tiny bit of skin that ripped and it was him bleeding not me.
Could be nothing hun, but i would keep an eye on it

Lottielou - Stay calm, discharge could be nothing at all, glad your pains have gone, could be anything, your cycles are all over the place, could be bedding in, you never know. Make sure you relax and enjoy your holidays, I will be on here all evening because DH is going to his mums this evening for the ight, so i'm home alone

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Lottielou · 02/10/2005 14:33

Maddyd - Big Hugs to you huni! Try not to worry too much, i´m sure you will be fine! Relax and get some of Aunty CH´s prescribes bed rest! xxxx

DP is watching the football on the tele, bless him he just cant get away from the damn thing. Then agina he is a season ticket holder for the Villa and he is missing a home game today so will let him off!

I´m a little down in the dumps today... After doing the deed last night, i woke up this morning and have had a slight brown discharge. I really hope and pray that it´s not AF preparing to pay a visit. I really want to test on the 8th! No AF pains now, but last week was having those unexplained pains, AF not due for a while yet so who knows!!! Guess will have to wait and see.

Take care all xx

slinkstah · 02/10/2005 13:48

hi everyone, just popping in to say hi ;)

Maddyd - i bled with every pg, and things were fine each time. please try not to worry and think positive. drink alot of water and keep really hydrated as being dehydrated can act as an irritant to your uterus and cause cramping etc will be thinking of you.

coathanger- that would be fantastic news if you are, when are you gona test, on the 8th with me lottie and diddle?

i pretty much know that i am not pg as i would be feeling a few symptoms by now but i feel nothing so am dissapointed but hey theres next month - i wil still test though n 8th to make sure but i am not holding out much hope.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 02/10/2005 12:32

Maddyd xxxx
I was reading the mumsnet pregnacy book last night and there are loads of women that bleed and go on to have healthy babies.

Please let this be the case for you.I am thinking of you as I know you must be worried.

Let us know how you go on tomorrow
x

Coathanger · 02/10/2005 12:19

I'm off too, got to do a few things.

Maddy, I will be back in a bit. If you need anything post and I will check it later. Hope you are relaxing and thinking positive thoughts. Take care hunni. Will be back soon XXXX

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