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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 09:45

coathanger - lots of luck for you today, hope your DH doesn't read mumsnet too. we don't want to spoil the surprise for him

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 09:43

oh humphreys - i'm sure your dd will be fine, they always are ater you leave them. Our playgroup has a coffee shop right next door and a lot of the parents wait in there and get an update ten minutes later. very good idea.

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HellKat · 03/10/2005 09:27

Hc- yep it is. I used to get it years ago when endo first kicked in. So glad poor dp does'nt do the washing!

HumphreysCorner · 03/10/2005 09:10

Morning ladies

maddyd-(((((((XXXXXXXX)))))))

peepee-really hope you are PG (((xxx)))

Coathanger me old mucker, if it is +ive are you sure you are not having some extra marital nudge, nudge, GOOD LUCK!! ((xx))

HellKat-I have shares in panty liners-never had discharge until I had my MC-it's yuk yuk isn't it? ((xx))

I bath or shower every morning and if I'm going out at night I will have another. DH is lucky to bath once a week-it is the only thing that I hate about him. I blame his mother as she has an aversion to getting wet so won't shower or swim but manages a weekly bath-GRRRRRRRRRHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

Dropped DD at nursery this morning and she clung to me for dear life crying her eyes out. I have had to leave her though as she needs to get used to it especially when I'm at work on a Monday.

Hope everyone else is OK and good luck to all you testers. Must go as the ironing calls!

Back later to check up on maddyd and Coathanger.

xxx

babybloos · 03/10/2005 09:06

Hey Maddyd, sorry I didn't see your posts either and want to send lots of best wishes to you too, we will be thinking of you and here if you need anyone to talk to. Keeping fingers and toes crossed 4 u.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 03/10/2005 09:00

Maddyd

Hope all goes well todayx

babybloos · 03/10/2005 09:00

CH!! I haven't read all the messages over weekend but just noticed you may be pg? Everything crossed for you and best of luck....let us know asap please.

I am looking for advice re: spotting just after ov, is it the implanting of egg? If this happens what is it like, and what do you feel like? After mc I would be surprised if af went back to regular 28 days but we did try around the 14 day time and
I am now about 16/17 so what do you think? I don't think this happened with either last 2 pg's.

Thanks for any advice you have girls....

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:52

Well, I'm off now to but a test. As soon as I know the outcome I will let you know. Although I'm sure I'm not PG could I ask you all to keep something crossed for me? Miracles do happen!

HellKat · 03/10/2005 08:45

Lol!! Good luck hun!!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:40

Will be going to into town at about 9 ish. Will be home about 10 am I imgine. Will probably do test in cafe toilets coz DH knows nothing about this and he is at home today. Will come on here as soon as I know!

Would be great if I am, although DH will probably think i'm having an affair!!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:38

Just the sound of "that" word makes me cringe now Errrgghhhhh!

HellKat · 03/10/2005 08:38

I agree Ch. Always a good idea to rule it out. be fantastic if you were though. What time will you be testing, so I can make sure I'm here.

HellKat · 03/10/2005 08:37

11am Thursday, smear yuck!!!!! lol.

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:32

Aw, HK, sorry there'll be no BDing for you Perhaps this is just a last big clean out ready for next month when a little bean will be snuggling up inside!

No idea what my "stuff" was but I need to do this test to rule out pregnancy being the cause. I'm certain it will be bfn coz DH would have to have supersperm to get me up the duff this month, bu I need to do it for my own piece of mind - me being PG is a possibility but not a certainty!

HellKat · 03/10/2005 08:29

Morning Ch hun!
Best of luck!
My bleeding/dc still there and getting heavier. hurts like hell too. No bd for me!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:26

Where did everybody go....?

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:18

My funny bleeding has stopped now. AF is due my way tomorrow and I still have no signs. I am geting pains but not the usual dragging pains low down, but sharp split second stabbing pains much higher up around my belly button! Not sure what that is. Well, once the boys are off to school I will pop into town and get a test - we'll see what that says although i'm sure its a bfn.

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:16

Peepee - I hope your right about DH forgetting what he said. I really want a baby, just like everyone else here! Can't believe its still 5 months til the deadline why is time going so slowly!! Arrgghh!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 08:08

Maddy, I hope it all goes okay today. I know what you mean about the glimmer of hope , I was the same right up until I was laying on the couch on the scanning room. Stay positive , Hunni. I know thats hard but you must keep that glimmer of hope. I'm thinking of youtoday, as is everyone. I will give you an extra big thought at 1.30pm. Lots of love maddy, {{{{XXXX}}}}

HellKat · 03/10/2005 07:56

Maddy- You're very welcome hun. Please let us know when you get home. Fingers crossed for you. xxx

Diddle · 03/10/2005 07:43

maddyd - make sure they tell you something, don't let them send you home with no news. you NEED to know whats happening today. You know they're going to say it doesn't sound good, but that doesn't mean baby has died, all could be ok. stay positive we're here for you

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maddyd · 03/10/2005 07:31

Thanks for my email Hellkat and for everyones good wishes. Its gonna be a long day. Bleeding is no worse but no better either. I expected to wake up to a mess but was fine, think i was subconciensly(sp) clenching my pelvic floor muscles in my sleep.

Im off for a bath then off for my first scan so will catch up with you later. Not sure if i feel posotive or just resigned to the fact that the foetus has died again.But i feel quite calm. Once i get i the scan room though it will be a different matter. At the moment i have a glimmer of hope, once i get in there its the facts i have to deal with. Anyway what will be will be. xxxx

HellKat · 03/10/2005 07:27

Diddle- Very weird. Been having pain for a few months but pretty sure that's down to endo. At a loss what this is though. Can't book my smear until it stops.
Peepee- Good luck today!

Diddle · 03/10/2005 07:22

morning - HK very strange that you're all having discharge at weird times in your cycle wonder what it is, mabe your system is just flushing out a bit.

peepee - hope the docs are brilliant with you, if they don't send you to epu i'd ask them why.

Maddyd - thinking of you today x x x

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HellKat · 03/10/2005 07:14

P.s Just sent Maddy a good luck email from us. x

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