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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 12:26

babybloos - sorry must ahve missed your earlier post, right i don't knwo loads about implantation bleeds, but i thought they were about a week after ovulation. its worht looking it up on a baby site online. i will ahve a look for you after lunch, or check a book i have won't be long

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babybloos · 03/10/2005 12:22

Hi Girls
Sorry CH, hope things get better soon 4 u. Good luck everyone else.

This seems to be mad that everyone is having spotting or light bleeding? I posted a message earlier in the day, I don't know if anyone can help me, maybe not as there was no reply!!

I am calculating from my first af since mc that i am on day 16/17 of cycle and bd around the 13-15 days. I never imagined that my af would go back to regular 28 cycle but maybe it has. I have had very light spotting yesterday and I thought that the implantation happened a couple of days after ov and maybe this was the first sign we may have conceived? Wishful thinking probably?? Help.....

mumswish · 03/10/2005 12:01

ok, that sounds as though it may be about right. Having a clear out! Thanks Diddle.

I'll check with docs tonight seeing as I'm going anyway!

Thanks girls. Off for lunch now. See you in about an hour!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 11:55

mumswish - i had this sort of weird discharge and all i can think it was, is that my body is having a clear out. it came to nothing, my period came as normal a few wks later. it could be ecause you've come off the pill it wouldn't surprise me at all.

spotting is a very light bleed, nothing like a normal bleed, it is when you lose small amounts at once, and often don't need a towel or tampon.

CH hope you're ok, will be online for the rets of the day now, sorry had to visit the supermarket, no food for the kiddies.

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:47

ok now I'm confused. Been wee-wee () and got nothing now. Stopped completely. I'm soooo confused.

Got docs appointment tonight to ask them about vitamins etc so will ask while I'm there.

HellKat · 03/10/2005 10:37

LOl Ch.
Not sure what it is! Hope it dies down so I can get my smear out of the way though.

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:30

Good Luck at dentists. Dont let him squeeze your hand too tight!!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:28

Speak to you all later

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:28

Well, I'm off again now. Got to take DH back to dentist again! He's having a rotten time of it withhis teeth.

Hee-hee! "rotten" time like his rotten teeth!!!

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:22

Yeh not had my end of pack bleed but that normally happens 3/4 days after finishing pack. Always has (docs dont know why) So was expecting it today or tommorow or something. thought it was going to happen yesterday with cramps and everything then this. All strange!

slinkstah · 03/10/2005 10:21

i think spotting is a small bleed

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:19

STUPID QUESTION ALERT

Whats the difference between spotting and bleeding?

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:19

Mumswish - I know its highly unlikely but it only takes once . Just wondering why you haven't had a proper "end of pack normal bleed" if you get me!

slinkstah · 03/10/2005 10:16

how come everyone is having spotting!! bit weird huh.

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:16

HK, do you think its endo thats causing your "yuck"?

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:15

But there is no hope of me being pg. For starters we've only had sex twice and 1 of which didnt end with anything. Plus I'm on the pill (not been ill, not missed one which is what caught me last time) I just dont know what it is. I have a test in car from last scare but I dont want to use it as we havent been ttc yet as such and I dont want bp to think I have without him knowing. ARGH! Plus it wouldnt be clotty if I was would it?

Sorry guys, I'm always freaked out when that part of me does something different. Am prob just panicking over nothing.

HellKat · 03/10/2005 10:15

Awww Ch {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}x
Mumswish- Join the club! We've got the brown icky stuff too. Mines just now started clotting. Lovely!

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:13

Mumswish do you think you should do a test to make sure all is well? You stopped talking the pill 2 days ago is that right? So, you should be having a bleed now, as you normally would when you finish a pack of pills. Maybe you have fallen PG and your bady wants to have a bleed but can't.

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:11

Thanks Diddle.

BEWARE VERY TMI!!

I had really bad cramps yesterday and had very brown clotty discharge but no bleeding. Its been like that since... Very very Light tho, No point in even wearing towel kinda thing (although I am cos yuk!) I'm so confused. I've Always had VERY heavy bleeding for days at a time. I just dont know what this is as I've NEVER had it before.

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:08

CH - Sorry to hear that. Its always better when you've BOTH planned tho. I'm sure he will come around. Just remind him of the times when the other kids were little. I hope you acn sort things out. Hugs***

slinkstah · 03/10/2005 10:08

aw sorry coathanger that its not +
maybe you should chat with dh and let hime know how important this is to you- maybe he will reconsider.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 10:07

oh CH - don't forget there is still hope, you still haven't come on. stay positive.

mumswish - feel free to stay anything strange to us, we don't mind, we're just nosy really

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Coathanger · 03/10/2005 10:06

Thank you for all your messages Its nice to know you all care so much.

Well, I've done it...

BFN

Actually I'm not too sad. Whilst waiting for result to show, I had flash backs to when I had to tell DH last time. I think I'd rather be PG with his say so (not that I'm under the thumb, well, you know what I mean!).

Never mind, next month perhaps

mumswish · 03/10/2005 10:05

Goodmorning everybody,

PeePee - I'm sure you r pg and fingers crossed I'm right?

CH - Good luck with your testing I hope you get what you want.

Maydd - I hope its not a mc, good luck and docs I'll b thinking of you.

I think I'm on CD 2 today although not convinced as my body is being very strange. Wanted to tell you all and see what you think but it is very TMI! so will have to wait it out and see I think.

Hope you're all having a brill day.

slinkstah · 03/10/2005 10:03

hi everyone
good luck coathanger i have my fingers crossed for you
maddy thinking of you today i really hope things are alright.

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