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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:58

I'm just looking forward to going home tonight and telling him we have to jump on the good foot. I'm pretty sure its over this time anyway as just went p (again. It never rains but it pours) and its a little red this time so maybe my bits have finished clearing out and now we're having the af to get rid of the last bit.

Prettybird · 03/10/2005 14:57

Quick note to say that dh seems much - I wouldn't say "happier" - more "comfortable" about my pregnancy We've had some chats about money and options etc - and still need to have some more. Have realsied that if this goes to term, then he porbably wouldn't be able to sit his Master of Wine exams next June - as they are in London and at exactly the same time as I owuld be due!

He has complained though that my cutting back on my alchol intake is going to casue him problmes with practicing his wine tasting - he doesn't want to have to drink all that wine on his own!

Still don't feel pregnant though!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:57

peepee - i think its totally normal to feel the way you do, i would be the same, answering such personal questions, but to be honest you shouldn't be worried about telling them you may be pg, because its a good thing.
Hope you don't mind me asking but how many m/c have you had in a row? and where is the recurrent clinic, not sure we even have one by me.

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:56

PeePee - Sod what the docs think. Youre old enough to sort out your own life. And if you're trying it's not like your a silly girl who forgot to use a condom this time. Do they know youre trying?

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:55

that would explain the achiness and poss sick feeling, colds do that to me, and there are plenty of bugs going round at the moment. Sounds like your wee was strong enough then if you haven't been all day. we'll have to see what happens, still early days, and your pill may have a lot to do with everything.

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peepee · 03/10/2005 14:54

Hiya,

I am feeling fine. Just a bit nervous about the appointment. This is gonna sound stupid, but I feel sort of embarassed about telling GP that I may be p/g again. God nows what he thinks. He probably thinks we are it all the time.
I felt like a naughty little girl when I first went to the recuurent m/c clinic and the the consultant asked if we had had unprotected sex. It all felt a bit too personal. I wanted to say NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.. and so what, we are married. How stupid..
Never mind, i will get on with because I have too.

Diddle i was just like u with the tests. I have now made a point of only having a pack of two in the cupboard. I did go and buy some of the cheap ones but when they showed positive I couldn't bring myself to trust them and bought Clearblue to test again. Mad......

mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:46

My body just being mean. I think i've got a cold coming so that might explain the tiredness and the sick feeling (keep sniffing) Didnt know about the peeing thing I havent peed all day (since this morning) so I'm sure it was strong. Never mind! If its something I'll know in a week when I not got af

I'm sure Maddyd is fine. I hope she is anyway.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:46

no news yet peepee, how are you feeling?

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:46

i remember having 20 tests in the cupboard and i used to spend a fortune on them, but not anymore, if i buy them i use them even if i;m nto de to test, they are too addictive

coathanger - you still on here, sorry have been really busy today not sure why.

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peepee · 03/10/2005 14:43

I have my doctors appointment at 5pm. Am quite nervous. I hope he doesn't have a go for starting to take my heparin without consulting anyone.
How is everyone else today? Has anyone heard from Maddyd?

peepee · 03/10/2005 14:40

Maddyd,

Are you there?

Thinking off you.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:40

oops i see my message was a little late sorry mumswish, wonder whats going on then. I had pg symtoms my first one after my m/c and the 2nd and it was nothing, af came anyway, our bodies are just playing tricks on us.

hope maddyd is ok

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babybloos · 03/10/2005 14:40

you are so cheery, sounds like you have it all worked out and it makes me think again about my view that since mc it has taken the fun out of ttc. we need to enjoy life while this is all going on!!

I have just sent away for an early pg test so that i can test on 10th instead of 17th.....not obsessed.....much!!!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 14:39

mumswish - it is worth waiting 4 hours before testing so that your wee is strong

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:36

didnt sound insencire (sp?) at all babyloos. I'm going docs at 4.50 but got loads of biscuits & Chocs at home so loads to console myself with.

I'm so excited about actually ttc. Last time with the mc it just happened (kinda unwanted for the first 2/3 hours) this time I get to plan it all and tell BP when I want sex this time, instead of going on his "wants and needs" HA HA HA EVERY DAY

babybloos · 03/10/2005 14:33

sorry, that sounded so insincere and i didn't mean it to....hard to get across the emotion sometimes but I am thinking of you...take care.

babybloos · 03/10/2005 14:32

oh well, you have a very positive outlook and i am sure it will happen for you really soon, console yourself with a treat if you can

mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:30

As expected BFN but we werent even trying so I'm not upset or anything. Just looking forward to trying in the next week or so!

babybloos · 03/10/2005 14:26

we are wishing you all the best....

mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:24

ok. I gotta p so I'll let u know what I get in about 5 mins. Its a clear blue so should be acurate.

Not holding out any prayers tho!

mumswish · 03/10/2005 14:06

NO

Im getting frustrated now cos i've normally got to p every bloody 5 mins and now I want to p I cant

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 14:02

Do you need a pee yet Mumswish?

mumswish · 03/10/2005 13:54

I'm hoping she hasnt come on cos she so excited that everything is okay and not for the other reason. I'm sure she'll let us know as soon as she can. Fingers & legs crossed for her

babybloos · 03/10/2005 13:52

I too am worried about maddyd, it seems so fresh in my mind all the worry and i hope that we get good news from her soon....big hugs maddyd

mumswish · 03/10/2005 13:48

CH - I think its for comical value! I keep thinking theres a hidden camera and someone laughing at me when I do it!

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