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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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slinkstah · 03/10/2005 17:06

talk about chatting alot lol i can barely keep up. hope everyones ok, i hope maddyd is ok - i guess we will hear tommorrow now.

i have crazily decided to go and do my final year at uni. i am woreied about it and if i am pg this month i will have to give it up as soon as i started. but am sure i am not as have no symptoms. i am still testing on the 8th though to make sure - although may well have to do 7th as 8th is saturday and id rather test without dp there- i don't want to get his hopes up for nothing.

cd-18

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 17:04

yes hellkat - glad i'm on every day i hate catching up

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HellKat · 03/10/2005 16:57

We love a good ol' goss don't we?

cd17

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 16:45

can't believe we have so many messages on here, we only started it a few days ago, its sooo long.

cd 32

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Coathanger · 03/10/2005 16:34

Bye Mumswish. Good luck at doctors !

mumswish · 03/10/2005 16:32

See you tomorrow girls.

Fingers crossed maddyd is ok.

and Good luck to anyone testing or trying

mumswish · 03/10/2005 16:27

I've been bored out of my mind. WHich is why I've been able to fill in 3 months worth of fertility friend stuff () I'm going home soon tho cos I've got docs at 4.50 and have to drive for 10 mins to get there. I'm so looking forward to going home.

BTW, Full works with AF now. No missing whats happening now!!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 16:23

hows work today, is it boring again, nothing to do?

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 16:22

no they don't do they, maybe they should, but it is for people who are trying to conceive so its not the obvious thing to put on it. That would explain it. Hopefully once the pill has left your system you will start to regulate, hope so.

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 16:20

It could be to do with a couple of months ago having a wierd session cos I forgot to take my pill for a couple of days so I had 2 bleeds that month.

They dont have a place for you to put contraception pill in. So I'll have to make do!

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 16:14

i used to take those. But they made me really depressed so i changed to another one, forgot the name and i took it all the time no breaks. Well how can fertility friend say that you are OV when you have put in the box that you are bleeding? thats weird, plus when taking the pill you are regular, because in the week off you bleed. how strange

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 16:12

yeh microgynon. Take 4 3 weeks then week off and start again.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 16:11

doesn't sound right mumswish, that has confused me. Have you been on a pill where you have a break for a period then start again?

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 16:02

Just added my details to fertility friend to get an idea of when ov etc. According to the data I've put in from the past few months. I'm oving at the same time as bleeding. That cant be good surely?

Coathanger · 03/10/2005 15:56

Peepee - good luck at the doctors tonight. I hope they treat you well.

Prettybird - I'm glad to hear your DH is coming round to the idea. It's such a horrible time isn't it? You want to jump with joy and be happy but yu just can't because of what DH thinks - I've been there and it was the worst feeling in the world. Anyway, I hope things continue to look up for you XX

Diddle - I'm always here, you know that now! Had to do school run and a few things so have been on and off today.

HK - as soon as you hear from Maddyd, let us know. I just hope its a case of no news is good news.

maddyd - where ever you are, I hope all is okay, Hunni XXX

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 15:48

prettybird couldn't he book the flight early in the hope and just pay the cheap amount and possibly lose that, rather than paying a fortune.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 15:43

good luck tonight peepee, hope all goes well later. didn't realise it was as many as 5 miscarriages, so sorry. Maybe the only problem was the sticjy blood, i hae heard of people with the same and are on the same drugs as you and they have gone on to have healthy babies, so everything is crossed for you.

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Diddle · 03/10/2005 15:42

prettybird - glad to hear your DH has come roudn tot he idea, i guess it is understandable for him to worry, at least now you can enjoy your pregnancy, if he can't sit the exams can he retake them at any time?

HK - hope maddyd is ok, and i agree hopefully no news is good news, she must be celebrating

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mumswish · 03/10/2005 15:35

O crap thats a hell a lot of money. You'll just have to keep your legs closed. Or eat really hot curries and do it like rabbits a couple of weeks before!

Prettybird · 03/10/2005 15:33

If you need to fly on particular flights, then the cheap flights go quickly. Glasgow - London is a popular communter route, so tends to get booked up early.

Easyjet for example is £12.99 per leg plus taxes if yuo book in advacne - but can be well over £100 if you book close to the date (ie well over £200 return! )

HellKat · 03/10/2005 15:17

Hiya all.
Mailed Maddy. Not heard anything yet. Ohhhhhhh I'm really hoping no news is good news.

mumswish · 03/10/2005 15:09

Sounds good enough for him. Tell him to sit in the cockpit (no-one will notice him)

I thought last minute flights were cheaper? www.lastminute.com ?

Prettybird · 03/10/2005 15:05

mumswish.

I'm due on the 4th and dh's exams are on the 8th, in London (we're in Glasgow) .... so he may or may not be able to get to them! Suspect that if he does, he'll have to pay a fortune in airfares, as he won't be able to book well in advacne

peepee · 03/10/2005 15:05

I have had 5 m/c in a row. NO viable pregnancies at all. The clinic I go to is at Queen Charlottes in W.London. It's not asif they do anything special there. They did the blood tests for me and DH. They didn't find anything wrong apart from me having slightly sticky blood. That's why I am on Heparin and baby aspirin. I was attending every week for scans and that's it. Nothing special was done. I don't think there is anything more they can do.

mumswish · 03/10/2005 15:01

oh PB-Thats brilliant. I'm so glad you're sorted out. I wouldnt worry about his exams as kids are never ontime. (i was always grounded for being late & I was born 2 weeks overdue anyway)

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