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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

1161 replies

Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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nutcackle · 04/10/2005 11:10

Oh god Maddy sorry to hear you are being messed about again.

Will be around later if you want me so just shout.

maddyd · 04/10/2005 11:08

Right you are never in a million years gonna believe this
But
im just off back to epu why you ask

BECAUSE THEY MISALID BY BLOODY BLOOD.
IF I WASNT SO DUSTRAUGHT AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME THEN I WOULD BE F***G ANGERY

Back soon

Coathanger · 04/10/2005 11:05

Maddyd - I agree, try ringing hospital now. If the results aren't resdy they can only say ring again later. Your still in my thoughts Maddy XXXX

HK - Goodluck to you, too, for testing. Got everything crossed XXXX

HC - Aww, poor DD. I hope she is feeling better soon. I hate seeing children poorly And , yes atleast AF turning up mean DH won't think I'm playing away! XXXX

Diddle - hows the pain? Has it gone? XXXX

Peepee - Hope ur okay and thing are soting themselves out. Have you done another test? XXXX

Right well, I'll be off again in a mo, goingto see HV for a bit of counselling. She is fab and I usually feel much better after letting it all out to her.

Speak to you all later XXXX

mumswish · 04/10/2005 10:03

Morning Diddle.
Glad to hear the pains gone now. I get that sometimes (i just put it down to one of those things of a stitch) Its not nice.

I normally bleed by the Tuesday after I've finished the pill on a friday so I've got till tommorow. I'm just soooo impatient and want to get started straight away.

DP nearly put a stop to it last night saying how he wants "us" to go on holiday first before baby comes. How long can you still fly for when you're up the duff? Is it till your 6months gone? I've managed to explain to him that it wont happen straight away and even if it does we can go together cos I'm sure g-parents will want to look after baby. (I hope)

I'm sooooo bored at work again. Plus I've got a cold. so not feeling all together good today.

Going to be interviewed to get a house (rent) on Friday. I'm sooooo excited.

Diddle · 04/10/2005 09:58

HC - I'm good thanks, had a weird pain in my side today that concerned me a little, by my ribs, made me short of breath and feel sick, very strange. gone for now though, seems our bodies are playing us all up. I think my pain was my body begging me for more chocolate i wish!

HK - good luck, good luck, good luck, let us know how you get on.

Maddyd - hope you get good news this afternoon, lets hope the bleeding is just leftovers.

mumswish - i wouldn't think you will bleed straight away, do you normally start bleeding right on time when you have your breaks from the pill? i'd give it time, your hormones will be all over the place from the pill.

Coathanger - Hope all goes well with the HV, you know where i am if you need me i'm the one glued to my pc all day, naughty me.

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mumswish · 04/10/2005 09:53

HC - Hope your DD gets better soon.

Didnt think about infections. To be honest I do sometimes get some clotty stuff when I have my week off the pill. I wasnt worrying bout that I was worrying about the fact of not bleeding yet. I havent got any more gunk now so thats about right, I'm just waiting for the blood to start (TMI sorry)

Hmmm now I'm worried

munz · 04/10/2005 09:50

madds (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))) oh honney, but didn't the hosp say ur cervix was closed? is it possible this is just tail end spotting or is it too heavy? sorry honney (((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))

HellKat · 04/10/2005 09:49

Morning Hc.
Aww hope dd gets well soon, poor love.

HumphreysCorner · 04/10/2005 09:48

Oh maddyd-don't know what to say hun. Sending you virtual hugs (((((((((((((((((((((((XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

HellKat-sounds horrible. Can't anything be done to help? See what result you get from the test-good luck! (((xxx)))

Coathanger-sorry the witch has turned up-at least DH won't suspect you have a bit on the side.((xx))

mumswish-your body is playing lots of tricks on you-are you sure you don't have an infection as stopping the pill doesn't usually cause gunge. Perhaps you should see you GP. ((xx))

peepee-hope you get things sorted to-it must be really confusing having +ive & -ive's. ((xx))

How is Diddle this morning. Infact hello and how is everyone else.((xx))

DD is really poorly so have rung work and said I couldn't go in-they'll hate me for it as I was only going in as they were short-whoops!

I'll be back later to check on everyone's progress.

xxx

HellKat · 04/10/2005 09:48

Maddy- {{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}} aww babes. Have you tried ringing them now? You never know, the results might be in. Worth a try hun. x

mumswish · 04/10/2005 09:24

Oh Maddyd.

Dont worry it may mean nothing. Keep positive. Try ringing the docs now and tell them you're bleeding again and what should you do?

maddyd · 04/10/2005 09:19

Strike that last message.. Still bleeding

mumswish · 04/10/2005 09:12

Good luck with your tests HK.

Maddyd - I hope everything turns out all right for you. I really do. If the docs havent got your results bollock them there and then. It'll ease any tension you've got

mumswish · 04/10/2005 09:10

I dont know whats going on?! Do you think it could be to do with my cold? But I've never had 3 hours worth of bleeding before. I've had 3 weeks of bleeding so I've had the other extreme. SO CONFUSED! Just wish it would hurry up and start so I can get on with ttc.

Does anyone know how pg you have 2 b before they stop you flying?

maddyd · 04/10/2005 09:10

Hellkat that sounds awfull. You have to get it investigated. Get your self up the docs today.

Think bleeding has stopped, i feel fine whcih is a bugger cos id rather be puking my guts up.

Am waiting on another test to come from tescos which is absolutlypathetic seen as this will be the 8th test ive done and i swore once i had my digital posotive i would do no more. If its strong then i know all is well but if weak then hormone levels must be dropping.

Only 3 hrs till i can ring hospital. They best have my results or i will make myself bankrupt on tests

HellKat · 04/10/2005 09:08

Right got paid so I'll grab a double pack of digitals soon. Do one when i get it and another first thing.

HellKat · 04/10/2005 09:05

Mums- Lol mine stopped to funnily enough. Some weird things afoot with the female system me thinks

HellKat · 04/10/2005 09:01

Thanks all!
Diddle- Nope no medication. I've had laser surgery before and may need it again if it carries on. Does'nt feel like endo pain though.
Ch- Awwww hunny! At least it's not as painful! Here's to next time! x
Yep my dp is a sweetheart! I'm a lucky gal. x

mumswish · 04/10/2005 08:53

Maddyd - I Hope your get your results today. It is HORRIBLE having to wait for any kind of results but especially that kind.

HK - You have a lovely DH, I hope you feel better that must be horrible pain.

CP - I hope your AF is late for a good reason.

Morning Diddle and CH, Hope your all well.

Well I am totally confused by my body now!!

I started getting all this gunky stuff yesterday, which turned into a full flow for about 3 hours then gunky stuff now nothing!! I still havent had my proper end of pill pack bleed. I'm sooooo confused! Strange!

Coathanger · 04/10/2005 08:37

Morning all!

Maddyd - what a bunch of monkeys in that path lab!! How do they get away with it! I really hope you get your news today - good preferably! I won't be on much today but I am thinking of you and I will try and get on as soon as possible to see how things are. Lots of love and {{{HUGS}}} Maddy XXXX

CP - Wierd about your AF being so late. I would deffo do an early morning test! Ooo, could be good news XXXX
HK - You poor Hunni You are so lucky to have such a wonderful DH. I hope you are feeling a bit better today. Lots of love to you too Sweetheart! XXX

Morning Diddle!!! XXX

Well, as sure as night follows day and christmas falls in December, my AF turned up this morning - right on time I was hoping that the test could be wrong but theres no doubting it now. Mind you one good thing, I haven't had the awful pain I have been getting in recent months so perhaps things are settling down.

As i said, I won't be on much today, so will pop along later to catch up XXXXX

Diddle · 04/10/2005 08:18

maddyd - how you feeling this morning, hope you get some good news today, will be thinking of you

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Diddle · 04/10/2005 07:51

Morning Hellkat - you did write an essay, sounds like you're having a rough time of it. I can't imagine the pain you're in, i don't know how you managed to sleep at all. Sounds like you're dp is being an absolute star, you lucky thing.
I hope it starts to settle down, are you on medication for it, or do they just leave you too it, sorry know very little about endo.

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HellKat · 04/10/2005 05:01

Morning all.
Maddy- Still can't believe how they acted yesterday. Thought about registering a complaint? You should. Especially when you start citing undue stress, emotional pressure all happening at an extremely difficult time. {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} for today hun. Wishing you all the best xxx

Had a rough night here. My womb pains got that bad, I nearly took myself off to casualty. Dp made up a hot water bottle for me, which helpe, and as soon as the pain went to my back, I went to bed. Took ages to sleep though. I truly have the most thoughtful dp in the world. I woke when he came to bed and bless him, he'd filled the bottle again, put it on my tum and cuddled me until I fell asleep! Awwww. Never felt anything like it though. It was like sharp stabbing pains shooting through my cervix,womb and ovary region all at the same time. Yuck. It's alot better this morning (thank goodness) but still got underlying back pain and dull ache in tum. If it gets like that again, I will go to the hosp. And here was me hoping for a relaxing night in front of the tv .
Ohhhh I wrote an essay! . x

Diddle · 03/10/2005 22:14

well i'm signing off for tonight my eyes keep closing, need my bed. sweet dreams

diddle
xxx

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petunia · 03/10/2005 20:21

Oh maddyd, I can't believe they've treated you like this. They've really messed up big time.

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