TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

Maddyd, I'm sorry. I didnt mean to upset you by saying complain. Sorry... I understand what you are saying, I've been there, EPU treted me terribly when I had my MC and all and sundry were telling me to complain, and my response was exactly the same. But I think you should mention it to someone to stop it happening to other women. I'm really sorry Maddyd, i really didn't mean to upset you.

oh madds (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))) still not giving up hope for you to have some positive news. ((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

Maddyd I hope that things become brighter and that the hosp has some good news for you later today

xx

Maddy- So sorry hunny!! Fingers crossed for later xxx
Ch- Thanks babe. I was on citalopram for 2yrs. I found them very good. I had severe depression and was self-harming. Been off them now for over 2 yrs and not had any "Down" days since, just normal ups and downs. Hope they help hun. x
Back soon, got to nip to the town x

Oh Maddy. I really dont know what to say to love I really wish I could come and give you a great big hug!

CH - Never heard of that stuff I'm afraid so cant help you. In regards to baby-making front I think he's just nervous esp seeing as my mate had her baby last week and he couldnt stop her crying when he held her so I think that did something to him as he was so excited and up for bding before he saw her.

Diddle - Asterix is the one. I love disney and want to go to florida some point I just didnt enjoy the paris experience.

Complaining wont bring my baby back will it. They have taken some more bllod. They were really nice and apologetic which made me cry even harder. They didnt loose my blood, the lab techs couldnt read the docs handwriting and do instead of bloody phoning they just didnt do it.

Anyway new results in at 5.45, but i dont hold out much hope. My wee only gave a very faint pos today and it was much stronger before.

Im off to hibernate, back later. Im trying to be strong but im so exhausted that im finding it hard to hold it togteher at the moment

Maddyd - {{{{{{XXXXX}}}}}} - what sods at your hospital. Sounds like my local hosp - totally useless! V for you hun. You must complain. The hospital I had DS3 at lost his cord blood when I had him (very important for me coz I'm RH neg) so when he was 2 days old I had to cart him back to the hospital 20 miles away and in blistering heat to have our bloods taken again. How do these hospital get away with treating people like this. How do they get their "stars"? It beyond me! I hope it all turns out for the best Maddy and and I'm sending you lots of love {{{HUGS}}} XXX

Mumswish - I think you and you DB have to talk this out. Find out where you stand on the "making babies" front. And as far as planning things around when you'll have a baby, you just have to go withthe flow. make arrangements and only worry about having to change plans if you have to. You can't put your life on hold just incase something changes.

HK - I'm so sorry it was a BFN. I wish I could change that for you

Peepee - I'm glad you got another BFP. I think you are proper pregnant, y'know! Take things easy and relax now

Well, I saw my HV. She was great as ever. I had a good talk and told her how I'm feeling. Anyway to cut a long story short, she popped into see my GP (lovely lady GP) and I've been given a prescription for anti-depressants Bit dubious about taking them but I'll give it a go. Got nothing to lose. Does anyone here know anything about citalpram hydrobromide?

Did you enjoy Disneyland Paris? I thought it was really crap when we went. Prefered the other theme park we went to (cant remember the name. Based on a cartoon of a viking with yellow hair, french I think)

I hated the queing and the rides weren't that good anyway,

Thanks Diddle,

We dont want to book one yet anyway. Prefer last minute deals. Cos were cheapskates

Feel much better now. Got some halls for my cold and brought my toilet roll from home cos its soft on my nose

Hope everybody is ok.

Maddyd,
I would complain. How inconsiderate. If I had got hold of u earlier I wld have told u to kick off at the hospital as the can do HCG as an emergency. They had my results back in 3hrs at Queen Charlottes. Have they taken two sets of blood a day apart? They should do otherwise they have nothing to compare it to.

I went to GP this morning and tested positive. I asked him again if this could b because of the m/c. He seems to think this is unlikly. I am not convinced. He tried to get me into the recurrent m/c clinic this morning but my consultant was not available. The clinic is only open on tuesdays so I have to wait a week.
I am not going to bother worrying about it as I must b max 4 weeks p/g. GP will give me the drugs I need.

Anyway ranting over. I'm going for some lunch now.

See you in an hour ladies !

See thats the bit I dont get.

He's 30 and keeps telling me he wants kids soon as he wants to be able to get p**d with them on their 18th. He keeps saying how hes looking forward to playing footie with them etc. Then when it all comes down to it he thinks up new excuses.

EG: I want us to decide when. (with the last one I had that mc'd) Then we actually decide when so I get the excuse of

Not got a house (living in a flat) we're moving to a house in the next couple of weeks. so then its:-

not enough money so I find him a job where he earns more doing less hours and can see kid more often. Now its holiday!!

I mean AARGH!!!

I love him to pieces and stuff but he annoys me so much sometimes.

Sorry about the BFN HK. I'm sure BFP will turn up eventually.

I had a wierd dream last night. I dreamt that me and DB had sex and then tested and the digital test actually said BFP on it. How strange.

Back all.
Bfn but expected it. Ohhh I like those digitals! .
Maddy- {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}} Oh god hun don't know what to say apart from get a letter of complaint off them a.s.a.p. That is out of order and totally unacceptable! I've never heard of anything so disgusting in my life! be strong hunny. We're here.

He wants to go to Spain but I've explained that this baby means more to me than a holiday and I've waited a year with him so we could have more together time so now hes said we can go ahead he cant keep changing his mind (keep getting me happy and then dashing hopes) We can go to France next year (I can go there whenever) so stop winging and get used to the fact that we are having this baby! Sorry he just annoyed me sooo much last night. I came back all happy about having gone to the docs and them basically saying all is well go for it, then he says he doesnt want to "go for it" yet as he wants to go on a summer holiday to spain just the two of us before baby.

Summer holiday means June which means no bd for at least 4/5 months which is a definate no-no. He keeps saying he wants a kid but if he keeps doing stuff like this maybe he doesnt really.

Am I over-reacting? Is he being silly? O I dont know I'm soooo naggy with him tho.

oh mads - get angry honney demand answers there and then and priorty. how awful for u. did ur test come? can they scan u/give u a once over again as u're bleeding?

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Maddyd. I cant believe they've done this. Just give em what for when you get there. Its not on them messing you about this much. Tell them you're bleeding again while you're there see if they'll do anything for you this time?