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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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HumphreysCorner · 05/10/2005 08:50

Morning ladies

HellKat-I really do hope you are not in too much paint-lol at Diddle's message. My smear was 2 years ago so hopefully not due one yet. Lie back and think of England. At my old Drs they had posters of hunky men on the ceiling to look at. ((xx))

CHOCOLATEPEANUT-hell, 40 days is a long cycle-bit like being on Noah's Ark! Sorry about AF but you are probably relieved as I was when mine arrived 9 days late last month. Have a lovely holiday. ((xx))

You lot and your "ring of fire" PMSL-even a korma is too hot for me so I just don't go there.

Maddyd-thinking of you. ((xx))

Hello to everyone else, gotta go as I can hear DD crying again, she is still poorly. Think I'm getting it as I have to keep running to the loo.

Back later
xx

Carameli · 05/10/2005 08:49

Hello thought I would say a quick hi before I dash off again.
I had my second scan yesterday to check that nothing was left after the m/c. THankfully it wasn't and all looks ok.

Can I ask how long people waited before trying again. We were told just to wait one cycle but I thought I read somewhere that if you try too soon it can increase the risk of another m/c?

Any ideas???

My dd and I are off to see Granny this morn, she is 2 today and very excited. Had a fabulous party on Sunday for her and she has even more toys to play with now. But also got one of those baby drivers with parent hadnle so we can go for walks in the park:-)

HellKat · 05/10/2005 08:39

P.s Ch- Wahooooooooooo no ring of fire!

HellKat · 05/10/2005 08:36

Awwww. Little ds2 is running around, dragging a length of string and the cats chasing him lol. he's cracking up. Guess he found a great new toy!

HellKat · 05/10/2005 08:32

even my dp was so gutted for her. That can so easily be us again.

HellKat · 05/10/2005 08:27

Why thankyou hun!
Lol comes from taking Politics at uni .

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Diddle · 05/10/2005 08:23

Hellkat - thats just how i feel too, you're so good with words. Its so sad that we are watching our friends go through this, its heartbreaking

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HellKat · 05/10/2005 08:13

Morning Diddle!
Thanks hun. pain's alot better. Just mainly in my back now. Looks like I'll have to get that lovely smear done in the morning .
Yep, this thread is a godsend. We've all become so close, when one hurts, we all do.

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Diddle · 05/10/2005 08:09

thanks for the update hellkat - Hope you're not in too much paint today, did you get a good nigths sleep?

morning to everyone else.

bless maddyd- she's always thinking of us, even in her time of crisis. This thread has just proved how many friends she has behind her. i hope she has a good break.

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Xena · 05/10/2005 07:40

Maddy I'm so sorry, thinking of youxxxx

HellKat · 05/10/2005 06:17

Morning all.
Cp- So sorry af showed. Wonder where the little madam had been hiding?
Ch- You cow lol. I'd forgotton about that then then what do I see? Cheers me dear!

Well had an email from Maddy. Bless her, strong as ever. She's doing ok, had a good cry, especially when she read the messages here. She's so grateful for the support here as we're the only one's who know what it's like.
She's taking time out for a few days to recharge her batteries and get her head together but she'll be back soon. She also says a big thankyou and good luck to any testers!

{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} Stay strong hun we're here. x

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Diddle · 05/10/2005 00:52

right finally finished, my fingers are numb, i'm off to bed, speak to you all tomorrow, sweet dreams.

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Diddle · 05/10/2005 00:26

slinkstah - yes i am doing an Open University Course - Working with children in Early Years, it is the first module towards a foundation degree. i'm so last minute though, i always do this, i have to post it tomorrow. luckily i've just finished hte main part just need to do my references and ready ti all then its ready. what have you signed up for

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slinkstah · 04/10/2005 23:20

diddle did you say uni project? what are you studying? i have crazily had a last minute decision today to go back to uni so enrolled this morning. if i am pg things will be hard. but so far my only symptom is a hot face! which i reckon is the central heating

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Diddle · 04/10/2005 23:10

CP - so sorry to hear AF has appeared, i was getting my hopes up for you, next time will be yours.

Well i'm nowhere near ready for bed i have my Uni project to finish for tomorrow and i'm 3/4 of the way through, but my brain keep stopping working, how annoying. better get on, loads to do, i really want my bed

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Coathanger · 04/10/2005 22:03

Right, well, I'm off to bed now. KNackered coz I was up at 5am!

Hope you all get a good nights sleep. Speak to you all tomorrow

Oh, and HK - I'll be thinking about you with ya "ring of fire"....

"and it burns, burns, burns......"!!!

Coathanger · 04/10/2005 22:01

Aww CP - I'm sorry to hear AF has turned up - the mean old cow!! Chin up and look on to next month keep smiling

Don't know whats goingon with mine. Thought it was really here this morning - now its stopped completely! What is she playing at! I'm not a B&B that she can keep popping in and out of as she pleases! If she's going to be here then its full board and all inclusive!!!

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 04/10/2005 21:20

Really thought that AF arriving on day 27 last month meant that things were returning to normal

Guess not as AF just arrived after 40 days

Wont be here for a while now as off on 2 week hols and then back to work

Hope everyone keeps well (maddyd espesh)and that by the time I check in again theres lots of well deserved BFPs to greet me
x

Mojomummy · 04/10/2005 21:03

Really sorry to hear your sad news Maddyd

Take good care of yourselfxx

peepee · 04/10/2005 20:40

Maddyd,
I am so sorry. Why does this keep happening to us. Take time out and relax. My heart really goes out to you. I know what you are going through.

slinkstah · 04/10/2005 20:12

hi everyone first time ive popped in today and have not been able to catch up on all.
i am so sad for you maddyd this is so awful. please take care of yourself. xxxxxxxxx

cori · 04/10/2005 19:51

So sorry Maddyd, am thinking of you.

Lottielou · 04/10/2005 19:50

A quick message as heard bout Maddyd. Sad
So sorry huni! Big huge hugs to you xxxx Thinking bout you! xxxx

babybloos · 04/10/2005 19:48

loads of hugs to maddyd....all thinking about you and hoping you are ok

Coathanger · 04/10/2005 19:28

Maddyd, all I can say is how so,so sorry I am hunni. I could say all sorts of things but I know they will be of little consequence right now. But I really do mean it when I say I am thinking of you and your DH, my tears are flowing with yours and I'm sending all the love in the world your way. Take care of yourself, sweetheart and allow yourself time. Lots of love and {{{{BIG HUGS}}}}. XXXXX

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