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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 9)

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DachshundAntlersRule · 30/11/2010 19:10

Had an mc and need some wine, chocolate and somewhere to moan and cry? This is the place to be! We chat a LOT so it can be hard to keep up, but everyone on here is great and will hold your hand until you get your BFP.

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orestyemerrywombat · 06/12/2010 09:14

Quick one from the train to say GOOD LUCK to Dachs and Inbetweener today!

FAB news mummya! So thrilled for you!

mamac argh about the business! What a nightmare. Hope you find a replacement and better pub soon x

Hello to everyone else!

The old witch got me on saturday so I'm now on cd3 again. Ho hum. Had a lovely weekend so not feeling too down in the dumps about it today. Thanks for all your support last week x

DachshingThroTheSnow · 06/12/2010 08:31

inbetweener Hope the scan goes well and that you see a nice little heartbeat.

DachshingThroTheSnow · 06/12/2010 08:29

Thanks for all the good wishes people! Appointment is at 10.30, so hopefully I will be back later to post that I can have another go on my next cycle. Otherwise I'll be crushingly disappointed because I'm far too busy at work in Feb - April to have a go then so I wouldn't be able to have another gor for about 6 months if I can do it Dec/Jan...

Good luck for all you people on the 2ww. FX for all of you.

great news mummy

mamac FX you find a lovely new pub that is even better than the one you were going to buy.

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 06/12/2010 07:32

dachs good luck for today, hope goes well and the hospital play ball x

lady ooh resembles mine a little..so you never know!!

mamc* never rains but it pours... its usually the other way round! Buyer pulls out! You have done the hard bit in terms of selling house and getting full ap, which is incredible Xmas Grin but how disappointing Xmas Sad...oh i do hope you find something even better xxxxxx could you move into rented for a short while whilst you search? Sorry its not gone to plan lovely x

I am very tired today... spots!! Hes ok, just night times he struggles with. On a plus DH and I went to see War of the Worlds stage/musical production last night and its not really my thing, but it was INCREDIBLE! Totally! I bought the tickets for DH christmas last year, and went to see in Manchester last night. WOW is all i can say Xmas Grin Xmas Grin Xmas Grin

Have a good day folks xxxx

MummyBellsAllTheWay · 06/12/2010 01:25

thanks for all your support ladies Xmas Smile

LadyB my word, that is a white knuckle ride LP! I dont envy your 2WW at all. Mind you, if you want the glass half full spin, day 20 looks like a classic implantation dip...probably should have whispered that, but I feel like maybe if I say it blankly I might make it be true Xmas Grin

I still have one more cycle of "practice" before I can get back in the game, I have to leave the coil in and take HRT for 4 more weeks. I think I will probably book an HSG as well just for added piece of mind, then after that I will put myself on the list. In the meantime there is christmas drinking to be done Xmas Grin

Dach and Inbetweener will be thinking of you too tommorrow, very best of luck for your appointments xxx

cheers!

LadybeenKissingSantaClaus · 05/12/2010 22:21

MummyBackAbroad if there is any justice in this world you will get one round of disappointment and then a nice fat BFP. You need one cycle to make sure everything is back in working order. Otherwise you'll worry again, but just one please. Grin Really pleased for you.

Can I just say I hate my chart. It drives me nuts. I like the ovulation confirmation it gives me, but the tww is hard enough without being thrust into the pit of despair with every temp dip. I wish I had a nice steady LP. But I don't, I go up and down like a yoyo. Here:

LadyBee's Chart

I have the usual symptoms, sore-ish boobs, can manage to convince myself I feel rubbish in the mornings. So frustrating to know that none of this means a tin of beans. Oh well, FF is counting me down already, clearly she/he/it has no faith.

MrsB33 · 05/12/2010 22:16

ahhhh mummy thats fab news!!! All that effort will be worth it all in a few months when u get your bfp.

Well ladies, i tested tonight and i got my first ever ov line!!! Whoop whoop....
Hopefully all the humping this weekend and the next few days will be worth it, im bloody knackered!!!!

Dach and inbetweener good luck for tomorrow, looking forward to hearing some good news on this thread very soon ladies. X

dAncerandRudolfsMum · 05/12/2010 21:28

So much happening!!! Yipeeeeeeee MummyAbroadAgain. What a fab Christmas present!

MamaC bummer re sale falling through - good news you sold quickly.

Good luck at your appointments tomorrow Dachs and Inbetweener

Well done Orange for timing your ov so conveniently for your dh work schedule!

Nix I never have any real symptoms before 6 weeks. Hope Ds is feeling better. My DMum always put camomile lotion in the bath which I did with my DDs as they weren't buying the whole dab it on thing ESP DD2 who had them all up her bits Xmas Sad

Nothing much happening here!

mousebacon · 05/12/2010 20:37

Good luck inbetweener and dachs hope tomorrow goes really well for you both.

Pleased you like the poem, think it will always bring a tear to my eye.

Still haven't told DH [proud] Still no amazon delivery Angry

But, did fall asleep at 4pm for two hours! Possible symptom?!

Happy Sunday - x factor for me Xmas Smile

DontEatOrangeSnow · 05/12/2010 19:38

mamaC what bad timing, have you seen anywhere else yet?

dachs I missed that you had app tomorrow, I hope it goes well

I also missed your post hiding, fx for high temps. Wish I'd temped now

IzzyWizzyletsgetChristmassy · 05/12/2010 18:22

I knew someone else had an appointment tomorrow -best of luck dachs ! I will be keeping my fx for you and inbetweener

mamac sounds stressful re the pub - it's horrible when people pull out/change their mind like that Sad. Hope it works out soon

MamaChristmas · 05/12/2010 17:39

Hey all just a quick post... (F'ing landlord pulled out, on fri eve, from selling us the pub and would you believe it, we sold our house yesterday morning so the pressure is well and truly on to find a new pub to convert, we have been trawling websites non-stop today to come up with a suitable short-list, Im exhausted!)

Hey Mummy Big up for the the arrival of AF and that is the very last cheer you shall get out of me for her arrival, all future showing of the red devil shall hence forth receive a big fat boo!!! Xmas Grin

Inbetweener fx for tomorrow

Dachshing good luck at the clinic tomorrow and fx crossed for the promise of another IVF cycle really soon, be thinking of you chiccadee xx

HidingUnderTheTreeWithSanta · 05/12/2010 17:22

Hurrah for Mummy. It is great to have some good news Grin

DontEatOrangeSnow · 05/12/2010 15:32

Afternoon everyone, it was only when I came to catch up that I realized I had posted on the wrong thread Xmas Blush

awesome news mummy !!

inbetweener my fx for you for tomorrow

DH went yesterday so that's it for this month. It seems I probably did OV on CD14 but am still testing just in case. If not, I'm already part way through my 2ww Xmas Grin am now actually a but scared to test, I don't want the disappointment :(

IzzyWizzyletsgetChristmassy · 05/12/2010 15:31

Woohoo mummybells !!! Hurray for AF!!!!! (that sounds weird!)

welcome back to the ttc rollercoaster - it's been a hell of a year for you, fx you get some good news soon x

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 05/12/2010 15:13

Yeah mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CaribouMoo · 05/12/2010 15:02

Hurrah Mummy - I've been waiting to hear you say that for months!! x

Velvetstocking · 05/12/2010 15:00

Woohooo for your period Mummy I'm sooo pleased for! When are you able to ttc again?

fx for you tomorrow inbetweener

MummyBellsAllTheWay · 05/12/2010 14:28

Hi everyone,

I am back in Costa Rica, unfortunately by luggage isnt....grrr.

Just read back to see that many of you are feeling low. I wish I could magic away all those feelings for you! Its all so very unfair that we should have to suffer any of this. Lets just hope that is true what they say about what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Very lovely poem mouse I think I will print a copy too.

In gusset news...I can happily report ...I got my period on Friday!

Its my first period since Dec 2009, and has finally arrived after: mc in March, 7 rounds of medicaly management in April,diagnosis of PCOS, retained tissue discovered, infection and high fever, and 4 days of self injecting antibiotics, PCOS undiagnosed and manual suction of tissues performed, diganosis of molar pregnancy in June, ERPC in July, undiagnosis of molar, CAT scan for pulmonary embolism in Sepetember, PE undiagnosed, failed hSG exam, lack of periods unexplained, SELF diagnosis of Ashermans Syndrome in October, hysteroscopy in London with Dr Lower, coil fitted and 2 weeks of high dose HRT.

and now I am finally fertile again!!! (or will be when I have finished the HRT and coil is out)

turkey if you are still reading, just wanted to add that my DH was adamant that he didnt want us to try for another after the mc, he has however since done a big u-turn and is now fully on board. Sometimes people change their minds, I would let him know how you feel and what you want and then give him some time and space to think it over. Hope you are OK xxx

HidingUnderTheTreeWithSanta · 05/12/2010 12:58

Hi ladies Xmas Grin

Just a quick check in today.

Good luck tomorrow inbetweener, we will all be thinking off you.

Big hugs to everyone who is feeling a bit down at the moment Sad

My temps look like they are starting to rise which is ace as have had loads and loads of swi over the past few days so hopefully have caught the ov. If not then really there is no more I could have done Wink

see you laters peeps

IzzyWizzyletsgetChristmassy · 05/12/2010 12:40

Grrr...just did huge post and lost it!! In summary:

inbetweener good luck for tomorrow - symptoms sound good Xmas Grin

nix you can pick up marigold/calendula cream (same thing) online or at boots. Xmas Grin re darkening lines x

sunchild Xmas Grin you're feeling better about things. Let's hope it's a case of "new year, new baby" for us both x

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 05/12/2010 11:29

Good luck for tomorrow betweener :) Sunny glad you are a) optimistic and b) canget out of your house! My friend in scotland cleared off 17 inches of snow off his wifes car on friday! Thanks sunnysnowchild was beginning to regret taking DS to his pox party last month, having said that he needs to catch it young. The lack of sleep is fine, its knowing what to do for him that isnt!!

On a plus i have done a few more POAS's and not using the first urine of the day, and the lines are coming up stronger so pls about that... still symptom free though ish so am not wholely convinced yet.

Have a lovely sunday everyone huge waves to everyone xxx

snowysunchild · 05/12/2010 11:00

Hey thanks for asking Izzy am ok, feeling much more optimistic today, spent 3 hours shovelling snow in our street with 12 of my neighbours yesterday afternoon, must have burned a lot of calories :) So bit sore today.. Still a bit stir crazy after spending the past week snow bound. But hoping to go into Edinburgh today :) Need Christmas shopping... Oh the joys Xmas Grin

inbetweener HANG IN THERE!!! Fingers toes and everything crossed for tomorrow, sounds great that you still feel so pregnant! (I know its horrible that you feel rough, but you know what I mean??)

Poor stNix's baby :( My two have still avoided the pox so far! and at 5 and 3yrs old Im now dreading it.....

ANYWAY, Happy Sunday to everyone, hope you are having a nice day, whatever yous are up to....

inbetweener · 05/12/2010 10:25

hello all, just a quick one from me.
I have my scan tommorrow and feel a little optimistic I must admit.
My boobs are agony and feel twice the size and I feel sick EVERY day ALL day. I honestly cant remember feeling this bad before.I dont appear to have the energy for anything. It was DD's birthday party yesterday and was wiped out at the end of it ! Soooooo I am hoping that at tommorrows scan there will be a heartbeat, either that or my body is seriously weird !! Whispers..................I havent had anymore bleeding or brown slime either !

Thanks for asking after me and huuuuuuuuge Xmas Grin and PMA for all of you. I so hope you get your xmas BFP's xxxxxxxxx

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 05/12/2010 10:06

ooh marigold cream where do you get that from? he will let me put oil wotnot on him but has freaked thus far at calamine! Hes ok just a bit cranky. poor baby, covered from head to foot in blisters Xmas Sad Xmas Sad Xmas Sad