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Clearblue Fertility Monitor Support Group Buddies Vol 5!!

963 replies

boba82 · 23/11/2010 14:08

Ladies from Vol4 - welcome to our new home.

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Ilovekittyelise · 10/01/2011 20:40

so pleased storm xxx

PinkCustard · 10/01/2011 20:09

Thanks Lychees, let's hope it is our turn very soon Smile

Not having anymore nookie tonight as DH off for second SA test tomorrow - we last did it on Saturday eve so am hoping that's long enough for him to produce a decent sample...doc told him not to 'produce' for 2-4 days before the test, so should be ok.

Lychees · 10/01/2011 17:44

Pink, I didn't take your post that way at all. You're right ... everyone deserves their bit of good luck. It doesn't stop you from thinking "when is that going to be me?", though. But another pg announcement doesn't take away your chance. There is not a finite number of people that can be pregnant at one time. It could be your turn soon.

It's the same with my colleague. I'd be happy for her if she was pregnant but I'd find it v. hard sitting next to her every day.

PinkCustard · 10/01/2011 17:14

Just looked back at my last post and it looks really selfish of me - ofcourse I'm happy for her really, but it's hard not to think 'why isn't it my turn?' especially when I've been trying for just over a year and she got lucky on her 2nd month...but I know that's not how it works.

Lychees · 10/01/2011 16:58

Welcome back, Missy.

Storm that's fantastic news Grin Grin Grin.

Pink, it's difficult not to be a bit Envy. I'm finding it harder and harder. My colleague is also ttc now [she wasn't pg in Dec after all] but she has told me how totally devastated she was when AF arrived that time ... in cycle 2 Hmm. I don't think I can be the person she leans on right now.

Boba, perhaps the delay is because I'd been pretty poorly for a week and a half after Xmas [?]. I hope it's not a permanent change Confused. As for injecting myself, needles don't bother me much but I'm pretty nervous about doing it. It has to be done though so I'm just going to not over-think it and just go for it.

boba82 · 10/01/2011 16:29

Oh brilliant news storm, so so pleased for you. Now you can enjoy your pregnancy x

Lychees don't think it can make it longer but maybe just hasn't affected you at all? Good luck with the IUI though, FX for you hun. How you feeling about injecting yourself?

Missy crap being back to reality isn't it? Glad you're getting ball rolling.

Keziah I think that sounds quite sensible, FX for next month.

Good luck Pink Wink

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PinkCustard · 10/01/2011 14:12

Ah that's fantastic news Storm am really pleased for you.

And congrats Boba well done you! Hope it's a lucky omen for the whole thread and 2011 Smile

Think I ov-ed yesterday, started charting aswell last month (obessed?!) and both CBFM and chart would suggest I did, and today I had a bit of pink spotting which I'm taking as an Ov sign. Might have one last session with DH tonight then hang up my knickers for the 2ww Grin

Lyschees how typical that Peak doesn't arrive just when you most need it too, hope you're not too stressed.

Had a pregnancy announcement from a RL TTC buddy today, mixed feelings but I'm doing my best to be happy for her.

x

Keziahhopes · 10/01/2011 14:11

In School
wantbaby TTC#1, Cycle #11, CBFM cycle 6, age 38, UCL 30, CD53
Twowoulddo TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM cycle 1?, Aged 31, UCL 31, CD48
Rosieposey TTC#5, Cycle #12, CBFM Cycle 6, age 38, UCL 29-35, CD40
Ses TTC#2, cycle #6, CBFM cycle 8, age 37, UCL 28-30, CD33
Missyraines TTC#1, Cycle #14, CBFM Cycle 9, age 33, UCL 32, CD29
CrazyAlien TTC#1, Cycle #6 CBFM Cycle 2 age 28 UCL 31-35??! CD21
Lychees TTC#2, Cycle #15, CBFM cycle 11, Aged 36, UCL 30-35, CD18
PinkCustard TTC#2, Cycle #13, CBFM Cycle 8, age 34, UCL 30-32, CD17
Arabella36 TTC#2, Cycle #1, CBFM Cycle 4, Age34, UCL29, CD17
Keziah TTC#1, Cycle #29, CBFM Cycle 17, age 35, ucl 28-31, CD16
ZebedeetheZebra TTC#2, age 43, UCL TMI!, CD14
KnackeredCow TTC#1, Cycle #16, CBFM Cycle 5, age 31, UCL 29, CD13
Roastie TTC#1, Cycle #23, CBFM Cycle 2, age 32, UCL 29, CD8
Littlefan TTC#1, Cycle 11, CBFM cycle 4 , age 32, UCL 32-38, CD7
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle 7, CBFM Cycle 3, age 32, UCL 30-38 (av 34), CD6
Clockspotter TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM Cycle 1, age 38, UCL 29-31, CD4

Graduates
Emmylou30 BFP 22/10/10
MissLolita BFP 30/10/20
Notnearly BFP 6/11/10
StormBird BFM 10/11/10
AnytimeNow BFP 20/11/10
IloveKittyElise BFP 30/12/10
Boba 07/01/11 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi, updated Stats - am afraid I only did the top column, as I keep getting them wrong!

MissRaines - so glad you had a nice time away relaxing, and sending dh to dr's sounds like a good plan of action.

Storm - so pleased for you. What week are you at now? Smile

Lychees - all the best for your IUI, remember Boba got a bfp with her first treatment, all is possible!!

As for me, am having a month off ttc, as the stress is not helping my relationship with myself or dh. So will keep my stats here, but purposely missing my fertile time and trying to focus on keeping going, ready for next month ttc again! If that makes sense.

StormBird · 10/01/2011 13:10

Hi Ladies,

Good News - we're all clear for Downs Syndrome! Can't quite believe it, I'd convinced myself of bad news. I've not stopped crying since midday. I'm so happy! Thanks for your support through this girls.

Lychees good luck with the IUI.

Missy nice to see you are back, hope you enjoyed your holiday.

xx

Missyraines · 10/01/2011 12:39

Awwwww well done boba that gives us all hope.

Sorry I've not been attending school, I'm trying to not obsess over it - easier said than done. Now Christmas and new year is out of the way and we are back from a week snowboarding, I'm sending hubby off to the doctors. I've updated my stats so I'm back in school.

Will keep you all posted.

Missyraines TTC#1, Cycle #14, CBFM Cycle 9, age 33, UCL 32, CD29

Lychees · 10/01/2011 11:24

Grrrr ... had my scan and one follicle has only grown a little and the other one is still not quite there yet. So tomorrow night, I have to inject myself to trigger ovulation for IUI on Thursday. Unless I get my peak tomorrow morning, in which case, I need to phone my clinic for a change of plan. I'm finding this bit quite stressful.

And what has happened to my peak? I've normally had it by now! Has anyone ever heard of Clomid making your cycle longer?

Sorry about the "selfish" post. Hope everyone is well.

arabella36 · 09/01/2011 15:07

Congratulations Boba, it's lovely to hear such good newsSmile

boba82 · 09/01/2011 08:46

keziah I used to be a POAS addict but gave up after too many BFNs Sad I had a CBD twin pack in drawer and waited until AF 1 day late. Went & bought more just to prove to myself really after consultant was a bit depressing!

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Keziahhopes · 08/01/2011 22:21

Boba - how many tests? Did the CBFM turn you into a stick addict - and now it is preg test sticks Grin - yep to you staying here! Have to encourage the rest of us!

boba82 · 08/01/2011 10:46

You are all so kind. Thank you so much it really means a lot. I know how hard it is.

Keziah I'm not going anywhere, wouldn't feel right so I'll be staying here if that's ok?

Fr00tbat sorry about AF, best of luck for this cycle.

essence sorry you had a shitty day. That happened to me once when I was still on the pill! I think it's actually more embarassing for the other person but it is horrible. x Sorry about AF but good you're focused on this cycle. FX for you. x

Storm keep your chin up, positive thoughts for both of us!

I am so sad, did my remaining 3 preg tests last night, don't think I'll ever get bored of seeing it turn positive. Still getting lots of wee cramps so hope it is attatching in womb Confused. It's going to be a loooong week ahead.

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StormBird · 07/01/2011 20:56

OMG Boba I am so so so so so so Happy for you, when I saw you got your BFP my jaw was on the ground and I was nearly in tears. CONGRATULATIONS I am so pleased for you both and proud of you, you are an true inspiration. Well Done.

I'm ok (thanks for asking) still feeling a little fragile but ok nonetheless. So far so good. Not thinking about the test results though.

Frootbat I swear by temping, it was only when I seariously started temping together with using the CBFM that I got my BFP (and I'd been told that doing both together wasn't a good idea). Good luck.

essenceofSES · 07/01/2011 20:55

boba - WHOOOPPEEEEE!!!!! Congratulations Grin
I really hope everything works out for you and the scan will put your mind at rest.

mumofloads - thank you for your post. You sound a truly amazing woman :)
I agree with what you said - everyone on this thread is so lovely and supportive :)

Keziah - really feel for you. Can't be easy trying to think about ttc but there is still a chance, even if you think it is a small one.

KnackeredCow - sounds like you've got quite a bit to keep you busy. What made you pick italian to learn?

dogs - we have 2 cocker spaniels. They are completely mad!

I've not had the best of days. Everything seemed a bit rubbish at work and then one member of staff decided to pat my tummy and ask what was there! I just shook my head and said my scarf under my coat (I did have them both on at the time). I was so embarrassed! I really don't think I'm that overweight!

AF just got me this evening too so CD1 tomorrow for me! I knew there was no chance this month so sort of pleased that we can now focus on the new cycle.

Hello to everyone else I've not name-checked. I might go to bed with a hot water bottle - especially as I have work again in the morning.

Ilovekittyelise · 07/01/2011 19:21

boba i am absolutely thrilled to see that you are pregnant i'm so utterly delighted for you and will be thinking of you and hoping this is a smooth ride for you xxx

fr00tbat · 07/01/2011 18:31

In School
wantbaby TTC#1, Cycle #11, CBFM cycle 6, age 38, UCL 30, CD50
Twowoulddo TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM cycle 1?, Aged 31, UCL 31, CD45
Rosieposey TTC#5, Cycle #12, CBFM Cycle 6, age 38, UCL 29-35, CD37
Ses TTC#2, cycle #6, CBFM cycle 8, age 37, UCL 28-30, CD30
CrazyAlien TTC#1, Cycle #6 CBFM Cycle 2 age 28 UCL 31-35??! CD18
Lychees TTC#2, Cycle #15, CBFM cycle 11, Aged 36, UCL 30-35, CD15
PinkCustard TTC#2, Cycle #13, CBFM Cycle 8, age 34, UCL 30-32, CD14
Arabella36 TTC#2, Cycle #1, CBFM Cycle 4, Age34, UCL29, CD14
Keziah TTC#1, Cycle #29, CBFM Cycle 17, age 35, ucl 28-31, CD13
ZebedeetheZebra TTC#2, age 43, UCL TMI!, CD11
KnackeredCow TTC#1, Cycle #16, CBFM Cycle 5, age 31, UCL 29, CD10
Roastie TTC#1, Cycle #23, CBFM Cycle 2, age 32, UCL 29, CD5
Littlefan TTC#1, Cycle 11, CBFM cycle 4 , age 32, UCL 32-38, CD4
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle 7, CBFM Cycle 3, age 32, UCL 30-38 (av 34), CD3
Clockspotter TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM Cycle 1, age 38, UCL 29-31, CD1

The Dog Ate My Homework
Michelle2222 TTC#2, CBFM Cycle 1, age 27, UCL?, CD70
Birdietimesthree TTC#1, Cycle #3, CBFM Cycle 2, age 36, UCL 24-25, CD63
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 Cycle #4, CBFM Cycle 4, age 34, UCL 26-30 CD64
Missyraines TTC#1, Cycle #13, CBFM Cycle 8, age 33, UCL 32, CD55
Sufferingbabyfever TTC#1, Cycle #4, CBFM Cycle 1, age 27, UCL 28 , CD54

Playing Truant
EmmaC29 TTC#1, Cycle #11, CBFM Cycle 1, age 29, UCL 26-29, CD84
Starlet22 TTC#1, Cycle #15, CBFM cycle 9, age 34, ucl 25, CD76

Graduates
Emmylou30 BFP 22/10/10
MissLolita BFP 30/10/20
Notnearly BFP 6/11/10
StormBird BFM 10/11/10
AnytimeNow BFP 20/11/10
IloveKittyElise BFP 30/12/10
Boba 07/01/11 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fixed..

zebedeethezebra · 07/01/2011 18:28

Congratulations Boba - that's fantastic! Chances are, everything will be OK. Please let us know how it all goes!

fr00tbat · 07/01/2011 18:14

Still didnt update my cycles - never mind...

fr00tbat · 07/01/2011 18:11

In School
wantbaby TTC#1, Cycle #11, CBFM cycle 6, age 38, UCL 30, CD50
Twowoulddo TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM cycle 1?, Aged 31, UCL 31, CD45
Rosieposey TTC#5, Cycle #12, CBFM Cycle 6, age 38, UCL 29-35, CD37
Ses TTC#2, cycle #6, CBFM cycle 8, age 37, UCL 28-30, CD30
CrazyAlien TTC#1, Cycle #6 CBFM Cycle 2 age 28 UCL 31-35??! CD18
Lychees TTC#2, Cycle #15, CBFM cycle 11, Aged 36, UCL 30-35, CD15
PinkCustard TTC#2, Cycle #13, CBFM Cycle 8, age 34, UCL 30-32, CD14
Arabella36 TTC#2, Cycle #1, CBFM Cycle 4, Age34, UCL29, CD14
Keziah TTC#1, Cycle #29, CBFM Cycle 17, age 35, ucl 28-31, CD13
ZebedeetheZebra TTC#2, age 43, UCL TMI!, CD11
KnackeredCow TTC#1, Cycle #16, CBFM Cycle 5, age 31, UCL 29, CD10
Roastie TTC#1, Cycle #23, CBFM Cycle 2, age 32, UCL 29, CD5
Littlefan TTC#1, Cycle 11, CBFM cycle 4 , age 32, UCL 32-38, CD4
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle 6, CBFM Cycle 2, age 32, UCL 30-38 (av 34), CD3
Clockspotter TTC#2, Cycle #6, CBFM Cycle 1, age 38, UCL 29-31, CD1

The Dog Ate My Homework
Michelle2222 TTC#2, CBFM Cycle 1, age 27, UCL?, CD70
Birdietimesthree TTC#1, Cycle #3, CBFM Cycle 2, age 36, UCL 24-25, CD63
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 Cycle #4, CBFM Cycle 4, age 34, UCL 26-30 CD64
Missyraines TTC#1, Cycle #13, CBFM Cycle 8, age 33, UCL 32, CD55
Sufferingbabyfever TTC#1, Cycle #4, CBFM Cycle 1, age 27, UCL 28 , CD54

Playing Truant
EmmaC29 TTC#1, Cycle #11, CBFM Cycle 1, age 29, UCL 26-29, CD84
Starlet22 TTC#1, Cycle #15, CBFM cycle 9, age 34, ucl 25, CD76

Graduates
Emmylou30 BFP 22/10/10
MissLolita BFP 30/10/20
Notnearly BFP 6/11/10
StormBird BFM 10/11/10
AnytimeNow BFP 20/11/10
IloveKittyElise BFP 30/12/10
Boba 07/01/11 Grin Grin Grin

Have plonked self back down to bottom of list - decided am going to do temp thing as well this month, not v good at keeping it up, but hoping will be less forgetful this time.
Thrilled for you Boba, thats brilliant news - don't let the doc's comments ruin this for you - what will be, will be - you've done it - enjoy - will have a drink for you tonight.
xx

Keziahhopes · 07/01/2011 17:23

boba - now don't disappear, we have been on here too long together!! You have given my hope now ! Grin

KC - glad you have the dog, course, photography and challenge learning mac's etc ... but if you are walking your dog, would recommend wearing wellies as it is so slippy with the snow. Lots of children wear them to and in school now - it is fashion, personally I think my allotment ones are too boring (plain) so am thinking of pink spots on navy as they might not get lost in the boot of my car and end up ruining my shoes all the time. But perhaps plain, like navy (mine are green) would be better for you - in case your dog likes patterned ones too much?

Coming up to peak and I have no desire to even ttc this month, too low with no hope of fertility treatment - how long does one keep ttc when trying as long as me without fertility treatment?

boba82 · 07/01/2011 17:06

Thanks guys, can't believe I've finally made it on to the Graduates list, never thought this day would come!!!

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Keziahhopes · 07/01/2011 16:59

Ooh - haven't read all of the posts yet, but so so happy for Boba that I just have to post!! Smile Smile Smile - though understand your concerns ... think it is fairly wise to not tell too many people until scans etc after such a long wait. But keep smiling - you got the BFP. So happy for you!

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