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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Good things come to those who wait...and wait...and wait!!! All aboard, we're IIT!

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bebejones · 17/11/2010 20:25

Old thread here

Make yourselves at home everyone. Jake & George are just loading everyone's 'baggage'! Wink

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jbells · 12/01/2011 16:56

mrs sat- my DP also refuses point blank to watch any program with people giving birth, he sed he feels really uncomfortable watching it

100- my bleed that i had was also afta sex, i really hope your ok and that like me it turns out fine, must be really worrying for u, ill be thinking of u tomoro, i will also be in the hosp for a consultants apt at the same time 2pm

JS- hope your not feeling to anxious about testing, r u starting to hope u r now, or that u r not?

bebe- hope your heads ok, sounds painful

sorry havnt caught up properly, literally jumped on comp for 2 mins b4 i start DD's dinner, just got in from work

i rang nursery today and discussed cutting her hours down so i will see wot prices they come back to me with

jbells · 12/01/2011 16:49

hello everyone just catching up but b4 i do

Whywait- yeah i did have a big bleed at 14 weeks with DD, went to A+E they didnt scan e or anythin just asked if i was still bleeding (i wasnt) asked if id had bad pains (i didnt) prodded my belly and told me they cudnt do anything at 14 weeks and to go home it shud be fine not very helpful but it was fine

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bebejones · 12/01/2011 16:31

Yes FX = fingers crossed (Or at least that is what I meant)

Agree Nannyl is the PG test guru!

Shall get George to do a train announcement over the loud speaker! Wink

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bebejones · 12/01/2011 16:28

Felt awful last night about an hour or so after I did it. Really headbutted the floor as I fell! Blush :( Don't feel quite as bad as last night but definitely not quite right! Very achey as well, really fell hard!

So typical! I am very clumsy!! Poor DD takes after me! :o

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JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 16:26

fingers even!

Bebe - hope that you feel better soon. Headbutting the floor probably has something to do with it!!!

JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 16:26

finger crossed - I think. Otherwise my use of it has been totally incorrect!!

JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 16:24

Good plan - NANNYL can you help please?!?!?

100years · 12/01/2011 16:24

Thanks Gals.

bebe, I didn't realise that about hormones, so I'll hold onto that thought. Sorry you have had a bang to the head.

What is FX please?

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bebejones · 12/01/2011 16:18

100 - Try not to panic, doctor was probably just trying to be cautious. FX for you. And IIRC positive lines on tests can be weaker after the first 'surge' of hormones.

JS - I would probably play my cards close to my chest & not tell my DH until I was sure. But then I like you know my DH wouldn't be keen! Try the delaying tactics for booking the holiday. Also, I think that PG tests can work from 10 or 11 dpo as little bean will have implanted(?) by then?? Confused I could of course be talking complete BS. But I think that's the theory of the early, first response type, ones, which work on an 'average cylcle' of OV on day 14 etc.

Feeling a bit shakey & sick. Probably from smacking my head on the floor last night! :(

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WhyWait · 12/01/2011 16:14

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100years · 12/01/2011 16:09

Not really got stuff to do, working tomorrow, was supposed to be working all day, but got the time off for the appointment, so have that in the morning to get through. Think OH will suggest a game of something for this evening.

JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 16:00

sending you very un MN like hugs 100. Sit tight and try not to worry until you have seen the drs at the EPU. Have you got something to do this evening to try and take your mind off it? Maybe go and see a movie or something?

100years · 12/01/2011 15:52

Got a scan tomorrow at the EPAU at 2pm. Doc wasn't sure what's happening either way, which I know they can't be. Mentioned the word miscarriage too much for my liking though. Did a pg test and it was a faint positive, which is worrying as all of mine except for the mega early ones have been strong. Just have to wait and see now.

JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 15:46

I don't know. Porbably working - as I should be but feeling so rough it's all I can do to keep upright and not throw up. No hope of me having any success with spreadsheets or anything like that!

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JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 15:32

Not sure as my cycles vary in length so much so I guess I will try to wait until next weekend and then do one of those 1st response ones.

However I fully expect to cave in and POAS several times before then as I get more and more panicy!

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JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 15:21

like a very mild almost ticklish cramp type thing but probably all in my head. God knows what I will be like on my 2WW when I am actually trying!!!

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JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 15:09

That would be a good idean in theory WW but he puts it on our joint Amex and as he inevitably ends up paying off the card each month (he earns 3 times what I do!!) it's pretty irrelevant!

The travel companies haven;t come back with quotes yet so that will delay us a bit and then I might suggest waiting until the monthly cut off date so we can delay paying it a bit and then see what he says!

1 week into the 2WW and I'm not feeling excited yet... move sick, tired and a bit worried!!! My panic is certainly appraching overdrive as I now have either imagined or real symptoms to add to the sickness and tiredness!!!

WhyWait · 12/01/2011 15:05

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JustShaggingForNow · 12/01/2011 14:54

Thanks WW I think I will try and hold off telling him just yet as I know that he will be cross and the advice form the Sex Ed teacher will just make him pi$$ed off at me for coming off the pill last year mening we had to use other methods of contraception. Better not to cause any heated discussions unless necessary!!

He's made it very clear that he's not ready right now and so the wait would be very tense and unhappy if he was doing it with me!!

Not sure what outcome I want really but I guess neither will upset me so that is good to know!

WhyWait · 12/01/2011 14:37

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