TTC after MC, ERPC anyone want to join me??

Sorry you were feeling down today pecka glad you're feeling a bit better now. BFN's are always hard to take, that's why I try not to have any tests in the house cos if I have to actually go an buy one it usually helps me to wait! It's horrible to think about due dates and where we'd be now......i got an update from NHS choices telling me where I'd be up to......I was sure I'd unsubscribed.....it's upsetting.

Sounds like you've got a plan though which is good.

Re the job the next stage is interview which is on Monday and then apparently a further interview with 3 more people! It's endless.....

Where in Italy are you thinking of?

sparkly I find wine and cheese helps with most things. I'm expecting af on Sunday/Monday/Tuesday/Wed depending on whether I have 28/8/30/31 day cycle.....I hate this last bit of waiting. I kind of had period feelings yesterday which I optimistically put down to 'activity' in there such as implantation bedding down and growth.....hmmm not sure there is any basis in fact for that but it's not over until it's over......and I'll have the herbs to look forward to next month which my friend tells me will stink the house out and taste awful.

Hope you are all have nice weekends planned.....i'm looking forward to starting the in about 45 minutes.....

Ahh thanks sparkly there's not a lot of difference between our would be dates and where were both at then??
i've just ordered some ov sticks and the taking charge of your fertility book off amazon, feel like next month i'm going to crack this!!

i'm going to look at booking some time off around ov time then, thanks for that advice, i'm so stressed at work at the minute, its really not helping things..

well there again, when i got pg the last time in that week, my car got clamped and i got burgled and my car,laptop,camera with honeymoon shots were all stolen. so maybe the stress thing is'nt true??

were all meeting up tomorrow nyt to discuss holidays, i went to agents wednesday and got details on italy, got a fab deal £2500 for four of us, 10 days half board.... just hope they like it....

thanks for the bourbon, here's a big glass of red

Thanks for the catch up, feel abit better now. waves to all xx

Hi Pecka, no, third AF and really regular (29 days, spot on) which is good at least. It's also helped in booking the odd random holiday around OV time so we can relax and get pissed make lurrrve.
Just wanted to say sorry you're having a down day, any reminder of the due date is always going to be upsetting. I've just worked out I'd be 31 weeks by now, what a weird thought.
I hope you have a better weekend, I know you're waiting on AF so it's quite tense, but try to relax and look forward to your May break, lucky you! What about Paris?

wow yellow congrats!! Told you didnt i?? Ner ner ner ner.... Lol, next week i think they will fromally offer??
sparkly is this your first af since mc?? Mine was very light for the first two, now there back to normal.... I had my mmc in sept.

Update from me, decided to test today and got a bfn, kinda knew i would, im so upset about it today!!! Even had one of those pregnancy pampers updates today saying i would of been 34 weeks!!!! Which makes me even sader!!!!

My would of been due date is fast approaching and im getting more and more anxious?? Not sure on spelling...

Sorry to be so negative, im having a bad day today, finding every month im not pg difficult, maybe im just putting too much pressure on myself?? God why is it so hard!!!

Well done Yellow!
I have no news to speak of. AF very light, so got paranoid last night that my womb is not going to be suitably 'refreshed' for the next try. FFS. This has no basis in fact whatsoever. Told myself off, and had a large glass of wine. With a lickle bit of cheese.

ok so that went well......on to the next stage which is a face to face next week! :)

Morning all

So I've got a telephone interview this morning.....and then I guess if that goes well then maybe a face to face next week or something? I am sooo impatient, I hate waiting for them to get back to me with the next step!

worm re ov sticks versus temping I don't know really. All I know is I found the ov sticks to be unreliable so I could get a neg in the am, a positive in the pm and the same the next day.....and the lines never seemed to get that dark.....(and that was even on a month I got pg so there must have been ov) wrt temping I've only done half a month and my temps were all over the place I think because of the erratic sleeping. In my experiments on the same day depending on whether temp was taken at 5am, 6am 7am or 7.30 it could vary by almost 1% which is huge in terms of temping. I am just going to stick to going by EWCM for now.

I do think it's a good idea to try to chill out about it all but it is easier said than done! Hopefully the acupuncture and herbs will help on that front, might even try a bit of meditation. I've tried before but always get so restless but people who've overcome that and got into it tell me it's amazing.....

Right must go an re-read job description and prepare for interview.

Have a good Friday everyone.....plenty of for those who can!

oooohhhh worm!! How exciting, barry white, lets get it on just came to mind!!! Lol keep us informormed on symptom watch...
Sparkly, your right positive thoughts can only help surely? I agree with your dh, taking some pressure off is a good idea, and thats my plans for next month if i get a bfn, thats how we got pg the last time....
Were also in the same position car wise, we both have company cars mine i will loose if get pg, my dh,s is a va, aka.... My big fat gypsey stylie!! We need to get saving too...

Hi fellow ttcer, lurkers, newly pg,s keep us upto date on symtoms,progress. Xx.

I shall be having plentiful , do not worry
I've been dying to use that emoticon!
Feeling quite positive, DH has suggested we just take it easy and enjoy life as always, and what will be will be. So rather than escalate TTC into what for me would be a paranoid madness of ov sticks, charting and specified shagging, we are going to take it easy for a little while. Easier said than done of course, and I'll still be jumping tempting him come ov time, but the pressure is off for a 2011 baby. Plus we really need to start setting some money aside, we can't even afford a car at the moment - how are we meant to take Sparklyjnr to Blackpool educational museums and Mcdonalds Pizza Express?
Waves to all, any results Yellow?

Hi Girls I'm still here! cd 7 for me so operation impregnation starts tonight!

I can see how doing the temping would be very stressful, does temping have more positive help than OV sticks? sorry I am clueless about all this as have always been extremely lucky. (so unfair for you I know .....)
Fingers crossed the accupunture works for you, they sound like they are giving sound advise re stopping the temping.

pecka Hope the dodgy tummy is feeling better and think positive! this could be your month! We went to Lake Garda a couple of years ago and it was devine!! heartily recommend!

Sparkly* sorry the witch got you this month, onwards an upwards... have a
Hello to everyone
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ha ha ha -yellow it kindof needed two weeks as there where lots of things to consider... And the fact im cruel. Lol

kinda have pms syptoms today, can feel it building ready for monday!!! Poo pants!!!

Ive started my baby diet as well, and its all going really well so far, just need to get some exercise in.

If we dont get a bfp this month, were just going to take the pressure off and stop the ov sticks, temps ect and see what happens....

My mom started with the accupuncture today for her shoulder, sounds pleasent??? Not.

My friends coming monday to start my reflexolgy to help me relax, my nightmares and lack of sleep continue and have had terrible bowel probs, stress related maybe!!!

All sounds very positive yellow all in the right direction!

Waves to all xxxx

oh pecka how could you be so cruel as to keep someone waiting 2 weeks! How are the symptoms/illness today?

Did you get some good info from travel agents? It's great fun planning a holiday isn't it?

the acupuncturist didn't really have much to say about my results except for that they fluctuate from month to month and he recommends weekly acupuncture and starting on Chinese herbal stuff next cycle. He said that I need to calm down and be more 'centered' I told him that taking my temperature was stressing me out and causing me to wake up in the night worrying about the best time to take it so he told me that wouldn't be helpful and so I should stop altogether. My leg is still aching today where he put the needle in the shin. Ouch! Well it doesn't actually hurt just aches in an unpleasant way.

Where is everyone? And more to the point how is everyone? Esp those pg ladies? Thinking of you all.....

thanks yellow, ive had terrible diarrea and wind today, fingers crossed there all symptoms and not just general poo pants illness!!!
Never been to italy, your the third person to recommend so maybe something in it, it does look beautiful, popping into travell agents tonight to get some costings.....
Never over till it over on the job front, i took two weeks to make up my mind on a new candidate. X

Oh sparkly I'm sorry...bummer......come here and snuggle in tight, plenty of room.

worm I've seen that thread and have to admit to having done quite a few of those....but written in black and white like that does make some of the things seem quite nuts.

pecka that sounds like an impressive selection of symptoms. I don't have any....well i could say I'm feeling very hungry but I am trying to lose a bit of weight so that might explain that one! Fingers crossed tightly for you. I've been looking online of pics of the amalfi coast, it really does look like that......so beautiful. Have you been round that way before?

It's over! Over!

Waaaaah.
Great news Yellow, you little star you!

congrats yellow told you they needed more time to think!!! Got all my bits crossed for you....
I agree with worm, sparkly it aint over until its over!!! Ooohhh im excited already.

Yellow symptoms, 8dpo, nightmares day 3, weird tummy pains, around fanjito area, wind!!! And strange taste in month, maybe im clutching at straws!! Af due monday....
Wombat that links amazing saw it last week, i think ive done most of the things on that list!! Lol

waves to all lurkers. Xxx p.s yellow thx for holiday advice.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1139216-Questionable-TTC-behaviour/AllOnOnePage#23536722

[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1139216-Questionable-TTC-behaviour/AllOnOnePage#23536722] this thread is hilarious......

Excellent yellow some positive news at last for you. Now sending positive vibes to the accupuncturist to wave some magic.
sparkly it aint over yet!
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newsflash!

They have just said that I'm over qualified but want me to discuss another more senior role. So I guess the finger crossing must continue!

sparkly I hope it isn't......

It's on it's way. I know it
Yellow, they are undeserving of you!

Hello ladies

Still no news...... I think i've got to accept it's all over but they could at least let me know for sure.....

sparkly some people are so insensitive aren't they? I've got my fingers crossed for you. I know the feeling of the day or two before af well....it's such a see saw between hope and despair....hope it goes your way.

pecka glad you had a good time in your cabin...i've got no holiday plans...really need to find a job first. Let me see, re your holiday......you could go somewhere in the South of France, Provence or the Riviera should be warm then but not too crowded. Or how about the Amalfi coast in Italy? Really beautiful and you can get the ferry to Capri for the day.....I reckon it should be warm then too? (NB disclaimer I do not want to be held responsible for your holiday weather) back to ttc, have you any symptoms?

worm I can't believe you are off so soon...you must be so excited. Sounds like you've got everything planned.

i'm seeing acupuncturist tomorrow with all my results so it will be interesting to see what he says...if he still has hope......or not.

Yoohoo, just wanted to check in to say hi. I am lurking, AF due tomorrow so I'm in that horrible limbo land of hope and imminent crushed dreams.

Poas this morning and got a bfn, which made me think there's little chance this month, but I don't feel like my period is imminent, which is giving me a false sense of expectation. One of DH's workpals has just announced his wife is 14 wks, she got pg about the same time as me last year but had a mc very early on. Lovely news for them and glad it's not taken too long for her, but I did feel 'Ok, my turn!' DH's boss apparently said she'd lost a bet now as she thought we would be next! Some people just don't think, although to be fair she'd be mortified if she'd known about our history. Someone else at work has also brought in their newborn for everyone to coo over today.
Is it fate? A sign? Am I next?

hi ladies, wooden lodge was Amazing dab weeknd, aprt from lack of sleep, had a lingering headache all weekend and terrible nightmares which kept me awake most of the weekend!!! Apart from that it was fab!! Beautiful place and company... Relaxation to the max!!
Any news yellow great news nurse the darker lines and symptom spotting, try and relax now... I know i know, easier said then done!!
wombat how exciting, im abit jealous, puts my log cabin to shame!!!!
Planning atrip away in may with our pg friends, can only fly 2,3 hours as she will be neally 5 months by then, any recommendations ladies?? Want it to have nice places to eat, romantic, not overly busy, blar blar blar.

Waves to everyone else. Xx

Thanks for asking worm unfortunately no news which in this case I think means bad news. Hopefully I'll know for sure soon, been so jumpy today.