Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

pink fx for you I'm sending good vibes for a second line and good news for the weekend- and no yoga!

Morning all - test this morning = BFN. Still, if FF is to be believed I'm only 8 dpo anyway so can't get too stressed. Think I'm going to try and step away from the pee sticks until this time next week then at least I'll have tested before I go to yoga and will be able to chill out in the knowledge that my rubbish approximation of a shoulder stand isn't mulching a little bean.

Have got a really weird feeling under my pelvic bone, not a pain but a kind of sharp sensation. Fish please!!!!

Will check in again properly - staring at the pee stick trying to summon up the fecking invisible second line has made me late.........

Morning everyone

Mummya and nix you've answered my question about cervix so saves me asking :) ties in with OPK+ last fri but I know it's WTF this month anyway

desperate for AF to visit :( been 4 weeks today so I know there's plenty of time. Tho I reckon next Fri for some reason

mouse I am sorry what a horrible day. My 16 wk was last Fri and spent whole day at work on verge, then home to bawl my eyes out. I'm anticipating same each marker :(

hiding hehe for 12 months, but I hope you'll have BFP soon. And how insensitive to say that.

Sorry for no namechecking, still getting used to MN on iPhone

Boo!! Hi gorgeous girls! Currently in KL, shopping and eating, it's a tough life!! Return to Blighty tom but not home until late Sunday so catch up with you all properly on Monday. Hope you are all well and look forward to catching up xx

wigs yes have just read that it drops very low after OV (mine is only half a finger up!) as the oestrogen falls. thats not good i didnt think i had ov'd yet opks neg!
Oh who the hell knows im off to bed.... temps tomorrow, and forever better than this self torture

having an edward fix before bed, ready for new moon on sky tomorro... just to catch up of course!

Just a quick one, on my way to bed...pink I'm going twice a month, once before ov and once after. She thought that should be enough. Fx it will!!

(((hugs)))) for mouse and anyone else feeling low, hang on in there x

night all x

Nicks I'm no cervix expert (have only just found mine at the grand old age of 37) but isn't it supposed to be firm and high just before ov? I'm new to all this cervix checking business but mine almost disappeared before ov this month, it was so high. I nearly waved out of my mouth (tmi)

Apparently if you've had a vaginal birth your cervix will always feel a little open too.

Hopefully Mummy will be checking in later and she's far more clued up on these things!

mouse hope you have a restful night.

Thanks ladies. MN has been so invaluable over the last few weeks - from my terrified post in chat the weekend the bleeding started to this thread. I just can't thank you all enough.

I thought I was past this stage but something's really got to me tonight I just keep hearing the Bob Dylan/Adele song in my head which sets me off again.

I'm going to try and get some sleep; hopefully I'll feel better in the morning. I miss my baby so much but I know you all know what I'm going through.

Sorry that's obviously Thursday's List above.

MouseBacon sorry I missed you while I was writing. It is just little things that get you, isn't it? I know it doesn't seem like it will ever get better, but it will, in time. But I think there are lots of tears to let out, and sometimes they come out in small lots, and sometimes you let them out in huge wails. It's a sad sad thing that happened so don't feel bad about expressing the grief.

HairyT good to see you lady, you sound like you're doing very well, having a look at other aspects of your life. Hope the next few days go as smoothly as possible.

Wednesdays List

MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD39
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD35
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD31
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD29
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD26
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD24
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL28 CD24
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD23
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD22
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD20
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD19
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL28 CD17
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD17
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD14
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD14
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD11
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD10
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD10
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD8
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD7
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD1

WTTC
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 6 (round 7)UCL 28-31
Hairytriangle
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
HidingInTheBackRow TTC#1 MC#1 Oct 2010
OrangeToeNails TTC#1 MC ERPC 15 Oct

MIA
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post mc#1)(PCOS)
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

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Where's that Jamface gone? Did someone leave her behind in Arezzo? Coo-ee, we're over here!!

Hiding you poor thing, that sounds completely rubbish. The letters and work and everything you do sound very fed up and to be honest I don't blame you. The weekend is almost here, do you have something nice planned?

sunchild sorry AF got you. It was a shorter cycle this time for you, huh? Were you expecting that?

inbetweener stay as long as you like and need. There is a grads thread in pregnancy and they will take great care of you through all the worries and stresses of pg after mc. But you are always welcome here for as long as you want and I hope you won't rush off

nickster I get like this too - but I hadn't equated it with hormones - I just assumed it was suppressed stress as we got closer to the time when it mattered, I'd get increasingly annoyed and resentful with DH if he wasn't looking like getting to action stations. I hate having to walk the tightrope between letting him know I'm getting into the zone and not putting too much pressure on. It's crap. I think one of the reasons I was so annoyed that I'm looking to have failed this month is because even though we only had sex a couple of times, it was really good and we both enjoyed ourselves. It would have been so lovely if had worked out from a time we had a great time rather than just going through the motions.

mummyabroad that's great you've got the permission. You must be feeling so many emotions right now!

Getawiggle 6 D P O.

youremindme you tested on Wednesday didn't you? but still no AF...do you think you'll do another soon?

I tested this morning too (just to torture myself a little more ) and it was..BFN..what a surprise. Just waiting for AF to appear which will most likely be tonight.

i was one of those people fondant sadly thats what you do when you conceive, quickly or not, its happy news you want to share, you will be so proud when you conceive, happy and ecstatic,bet you flash your pic Saying that having sat on the other side for a while it will make us all more considerate. I am quite proud of myself atm, manage to not to attempt running over the "ladies with bumps" walking out in front of the motor ...progress!

fondant thanks i now have 3 therms to choose from so will keep one spare in my car!!

Whos due to test?

Hey mouse (((hugs))) sorry for rubbish day-I find that some days are just like that and it doesn't seem to be anything in particular that sets it off :( I can't believe what they said to the other teacher in front of you!! That is shocking!!

Big hugs for hiding too. You might have noticed but this is one of my absolutely hobby horse rant topics-people announcing how they didn't mean to get pg or that it was so easy or flashing around their scan photos. They are completely oblivious to how completely lucky they are and to how much hurt their comments cause. :( :( :( it's v hard to deal with, I hope the cake made you feel a bit better at least.

@ 12 months hiding

Question for mummy if she can find the time in between packing & unpacking! My cervix is low! as in mega low! Educate me please someone... does it do that before fertile time, or after ov? Just wondered. I have a wierd cervix, it seems to have a hole in it permanently is all squishy round the outside and is shaped like an egg. I have had a Vag birth which alters it, and i did have cervical problems at delivery...but even so! its a bit bizarre!

Sorry about the pg announcements :( & sorry you are feeling down mouse 16 weeks is a date isnt it :( I would have been...nope have stopped counting at 20 weeks! i think i prob would have been around 24 weeks now and its sad to think about it but i am getting stronger...lighting a candle at babyloss week helped me and also talking about it too. bonkers that i have told people who didnt know, after it happened helps with the closure imho.

golly...I hadn't notice my little slip

12 weeks obviously...

It is shit, particularly when she goes 'we were only going to see what happens but I got pregnant straight away. It was such a surprise'. grrrr...it took me 9 months to get pregnant (and it was months not weeks!). Not that I'm bitter. On the plus side the cake was very nice

Hitting the dates seems really difficult, I am dreading 12 weeks which will be soon. I hope you feel better once the 16 week milestone has passed for you.

No worries - your post made me smile 12 months pregnant? Poor girl...

Hope you're ok, it's shit isn't it? I really hope there are no announcements at work any time soon xx

Oh, sorry for the x post mouse!

((((massive hugs)))

I am sorry you are feeling awful. That was very insensitive of whoever said that to the teacher. It's none of their damn business

Argh.. I forgot to say. Had someone at work waltz into the office today to tell everyone she is 12 months pregnant. Cue frolics and cooing all round and me sneaking out of the office to go sit in the toilets feeling sorry for myself.

Had to go and buy cake to make me feel better and repeat 'I am happy for her' over and over to myself.

Hi ladies, hope you're all well. I'm thinking of you hairy

Feeling a bit sad tonight. I would have had my 16 week appointment today, heard the heartbeat for the first time etc.. it all seems such a waste.

I don't know what to say really. Another teacher at work is only temporary and was told (in front of me) that she would've been kept on if 'things hadn't happened' ugh.

I'm just so, so sad. I keep bursting into tears over tiny things like being able to carry a box of marking to the car pressed up to my tummy. It's so silly but I just want my baby back....

Sorry for the gloom xxxx

Thanks for the advice guys about poas. I shall go and buy some this weekend and get it over with. I know I'll feel better once I do.

I should be ok regarding left over bits as when I had my second scan they said it was pretty much all over on its own and everything had gone. I finished bleeding completly a couple of days later on the 31 Oct. So it's been a couple of weeks now really.

babe I am totally jealous of your purple hair! I used to have big blue dreads but I don't think that would go down too well in my current job

Hello all!

wiggle I was thinking maybe tomorrow but only if temps haven't dropped when I take them tomorrow am. I am bricking it though, sick of the sight of BFN's and doing a test always makes my heart race.... Hehehe about your testing, glad it's not just me that has been known to test durin period, just to be sure!!! Hopefully you were just too soon and a mighty BFP is on its way for you...

nix gah how annoying about thermo!! Since you travel so much tho maybe you could test a couple of times to make sure they give the same answer and then leave on at home and the other in your briefcase? Sorry you're having a tough time, I think you're at the hardest part of the cycle at the mo as it puts you under a lot of pressure-at the start I'm always optimistic and at the end on a good day I can chill and see what happens (when I'm taking a break from studying my chart and panicing about whether shags were poorly timed). Big hugs for you lovely, hope the suzzles do the job of enticing DH to get involved!! Acu is fab defo give it a try. There's a register of people that specialise in fertility, if I can find it I'll post it here.

hairy good plan with the reevaluating. The mc has defo made me think harder about my life as I do quite a stressful job too. Make sure you take as much time off as you need.

aandr I love the idea of designated worry time! Unfortunately if I could even designate a no-worry time I think I'd be doing well!!!!

inbetweener don't go anywhere!! Plus I seem to remember that owly bricked up the door a little while ago so once you're in you're stuck forever mwah ha ha.

izz fab news about the longer luteal phase!! Glad you had good time at acu, positivity is definitely helpful! How often do you have an acu appt? I've been having weekly but wanted to check she's not taking the pee!!

babe hope DS is ok! Your new hair sounds amazing! Have you put a pic on bookface? I can't remember who are bookface friends so if you have I'll have to look up my bookface translation cheat sheet!!! Have you peed yet??

mummya best of luck for the flight on sat! What day's your operation?

Have a fab evening all! Xx