Charter's Anonymous: Volume 3, here's to better luck this time for us all!

IF wonderful news fantastic xxxxxxx

T'was the rock hard boobs that convinced me, then the temp increase.... who needed the bfp on the stick :)

Fab news :)

My temps dropped this morn, hoping AF will turn up, will be the shortest cycle for 12 months!

Well, I peed and can now say to mousebacon - put away that pan as you won't be doing any arm eating this evening as I got mt BFP...!!!
[GRIN] [GRIN]

The lines came up instantly and I wasnt all that shocked TBH, neither was DH. We are taking things nice and easy this time and not get too carried away.

Now to think up a reason for not drinking next Friday for my xmas do

Thank you to all of you lovely ladies for your very kind words and support, I will be sticking around and willing on BFPs to all who want xxxx

I'm still lurking and am beside myself now waiting for the results of Ifs test, exciting! The symptoms are spot on, even the aching fanjo! I had a 'dragging' feeling often. I have everything crossed for you xx

split my heart goes out to you, DH and your daughter Bobbie. Take it one step at a time my love xx

Sorry, just brewing up a wee! Am deff testing tonight!

Agggggggggggggggghhh. Just did a massive post for the lap top to lose my connection and wipe it all.... it is also not easy typing whilst a cat is trying to lay accross the lap top....anyway..

split sorry you have had this news, I have also read that once you have had toxoplasmosis you can't get it again. I hope you and your DH are bearing up and getting lots of hugs and love xxx

ladyg well done on not temping, it would only drive you mad!

terrys thanks for looking at my chart - I think AF may be arriving soon which meant I would have ov on day 22 but we shall see!

MRSA Sorry that AF got you - I have worked out that if I have got my ov worked out correctly ~I be due AF/ Test on Christmas day :( but I just want AF first!

digi how you doing??

Hello to everyone else but finally

IF I am sat here in suspenders.... are you peeing??

if.........you bought a test.... and????

spilt Glad you have your answer but totally understand how all that info has knocked you for six. I don't know anything about toxoplasma, so can't help you much sorry. I think it will be hard for you to wait to TTC but good that once you have the anti-bodies you'll know the same thing can't happen again (is that right?)

Raising a glass to your little girl.

MrsA there is a thread that i started about under-active thyroid. I only found out about mine by accident after my last MC.

I agree with lady - I think it can have an effect on a womans ability to conceive in that it can muck up your cycle and make it harder to detect when/if you ovulate. There doesn't seem to be that much proof that it can cause MC's - although a lot of us on the thread have had MC's - but that could be co-incidence. You definitely have to keep an eye on your levels once you are pregnant.

Come and join us on the thread .

Oooh...are you testing now, Ifatfirst? Or in morning? On tenterhooks!!!!

Spilt - sending you hugs today!

Right ladies, thank you for you stalkerness interest in me. The bad news is that my temp fell this morning, the good news is is that it's still well above the coverline www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2de1f3

The even better news, is that I feel shocking today symptoms include: banging headache, lack of appetite (couldnt eat my lunch today,and dont fancy anything this evening, still very sore boobs, very achey around all of my pelvis including stomach, hips, lower back and even an aching feeling in my fanjo! and to top it off I am absolutely exhausted. Got in from work and promptly lay down on the sofa before even taking my coat off.
So I bought a test!!!!.............

MrsA short answer. Yes they are - can impact on fertility, cognitive development of baby and also increased risk of mc. Will also tend to make you feel quite ill - constantly tired, lethargic, brain fog, cold (low BBT's), thinning hair, croaky voice. Or confusingly some people have very little symptoms. Simple blood test to diagnose. HTH.

spilt I cannot imagine how you are feeling - likely overwhelmed by all the info. Give yourself and DH lots of hugs.

I agree with Lady, we have cats and when i was pg with DD I remember reading that the likelihood of toxoplamosis was low as it's easy to catch and once you've caught it, it's pretty much impossible to catch it again.

However, when it's a future baby we're talking about, I can imagine you won't want to take any risks.
Do you have a good friend or relative who would be prepared to have them the next time you get pg?
You've got a while to think about it and at least you and DH can give each other some TLC over xmas.

Thanks everyone for your words when AF arrived. Feeling a bit better about it - had 2nd lot of acupuncture today too.
Bizarrely, I have also got my 3 yearly smear reminder in. Now the last time I had one, we conceived DD about 2 weeks later, having TTC to a year. maybe good omens for this cycle.

Only downside is that if I ov between 18 and 25, that gives me an AF expectation of running up to and including xmas! Bum.

Finally (sorry for long post) I keep reading things about thyroids. Are they important (I know nothing) and how would you know if you had a dodgy one?

spilt (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))
There's a lot to think about. And you have your answer as to what happened to your daughter. As LadyG said, there is some comfort in knowing that you can now look into how to prevent this happening again. It's a position I'm hoping to get to, but fear I won't. Thinking of you.

Oh Spilt. What a lot to take in. It's good that you have got some definite answers but throws up lots of questions too.

The good news is that it seems like this is unlikely to recur once you have antibodies? Let us know what the Toxoplasmosis specialist says.

Oh spilt!

Glad that you got some answers and that the consultant was really nice. That is some comfort anyway.

Am so so sorry to hear about the toxoplasma infection, also where that leaves you WRT your cats. It's so tricky. Obviously you don't want to risk this again, but I suppose it may not have been due to them at all.

Also about having to wait another 4 months. That must be very frustrating, but I suppose it would be best if that's the advice you've been given. Maybe it would be good to have a break from TTC for a while anyway.

How are you feeling? Hope you are ok and DH is staying with you today.

My DD had a febrile convulsion too once when she was 18 months old. We were out on a walk in some woods and there was no mobile phone reception! DH and I had to run about 1/2 a mile back to the car with her unconscious, twitching and foaming at the mouth

It was awful. Thankfully she's not had anymore, but I do understand how scary they are.

Glad that your preg tests are getting darker Lady that's great news.

Quick post from me as I am trying to look like I am working - my normal LP is 14 days so I am 13 today - and got period cramps and spotting so looks like FF might be right. Good. I have booked DP on a flight and told him to bring his best swimmers :)

Will post longer later xx

I'm not an EBF-er any more LadyG I gave up when DS was 19mo, one day he didn't ask for it and so I didn't offer it. Also coincided with lots of nights away for weddings and DH's birthday trip so am very I don't BF anymore it was a nice natural end for us. DS's febrile convulsions are horrid and they last for up to 30 minutes so he needs drugs to stop them so we call an ambulance if he does. He is going strong atm though, just snoozing on the couch but is red hot and won't have any calpol/nurofen.

I am very that the pee sticks are getting darker for you!

Oh, in other news you'll be pleased to hear that I haven't temped ALL WEEK . Although am still peeing on sticks...and they are going nicely darker each time so think I may be continuing this habit for some time.

Ah, bless him, Terrys. My little man seems prone to chest infections - is horrible - but never had a febrile convulsion. must be really scary. I didn't realise you were another extended breastfeeder . Nice to know i'm not the only freak! Good to know thouh that your milk will really be helping get him through this.

Yes, where is Ifat!

Digi. I'm surpised at you . I'm sure you'll be fine this time. Are you both feeling a bit conflicting about stopping trying for time being?

Battery not sure what I can add really - I think the advice about waiting to see how long your luteal phase is is good though.

battery I would be inclined to say CD24 as you had EWCM then? Can't you book a whole week away next month to cover all bases??

Don't worry GetDown I am stalking IfAtFirst too!!

At home today as poor DS has a chest infection He has fallen asleep on the couch for the first time in his life (without the aid of BF) I am watching him like a hawk as he has a history of febrile convulsions due to chest infections. Feeling VERY anxious.

Hope your cold gets better GetDown, chart is looking good!

IfAt hasn't put her thursday temp on yet

I keep thinking I can feel twinges, and then it goes away again

Also have a rotten cold which is doing strange things to my nose and sense of taste and also making me feel a bit sick - not helpful!

GetDown's Chart

battery how long is your LP normally? It could be either 22 or 24, but if you're over your LP length at the moment then it's more likely it was 24.

IfAt any news?

Another slip-up last night.
Still no ewcm, but would be bloody sods law...