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Charter's Anonymous: Volume 3, here's to better luck this time for us all!

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spilttheteaagain · 03/11/2010 14:15

A shiny new thread girls and hopefully we shall all get merrily up-duffed with sticky beans Grin

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GetDownYouWillFall · 08/12/2010 11:40

Nix are you peeing on Terrys fire? Grin

They do say, a line is a line is a line. But 30mins after the test? Prob not reliable... but surely a line wouldn't appear at all if there was no HCG present?

You are only 11DPO Terrys. So it's probably very early for a positive anyway.

Hoping for you!

TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 11:38

I didn't have a chance to read instructions Nix - just grabbed it out of the bin on the way to work. It was definitely pink though, but as I said, very faint and very thin - I have been scouring MN and apparently evap lines have no colour.

Oh god, I know I will have to wait till tomorrow but this is sooooo frustrating!!

Come on everyone else - what do you think?!!? Grin

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 08/12/2010 11:30

not wanting to pee on said fire....could it poss be an evap line? I doubt it at all, what do instructions say... its normally mentioned there!

I have been known to do that myself.......!

I even POAS the day i got AF... just to be sure!

GetDownYouWillFall · 08/12/2010 09:49

Naughty naughty Terrys Grin

Maybe........

TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 09:22

ok, so I know you shouldn't do this, but I kind of fished the PG test out of the bin 30 mins after I had taken it and there is the faintest, almost invisible pink line there.

What does this mean?!?! I am not getting my hopes up but should I?!?!

HELP ME!! Wink Smile

TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 07:34

spilt you are panicking unnecessarily! (no idea if that's true but you asked us to tell you that!) Grin Seriously though, try not to stress. When did you and DH SFF before OV? Is there a chance?

Temp fell again today but still above the coverline, feeling a bit glum though as from what I can see, most PG charts have a general rise overall but mine seems to be pretty static. I may have also accidentally POAS this am. Blush

Am also attributing slightly higher temps to the rubbish nights sleep I had last couple of nights.

chart here

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 08/12/2010 07:11

spilt looks promising Xmas Grin

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 07:08

oh God, tell me I'm just panicking unecessarily?

Just can't help but notice my chart for the last 3 days is completely IDENTICAL to my pregnancy chart (also on my homepage). Was expecting a temp drop really.

See what tomorrow brings. One day at a time!

terrys what's yours like? I have stalked but am clearly too early!

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WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 07/12/2010 21:37

I know exactly what you mean Xmas Grin i love that thread, but its lightening quick! Theres a lot on there who are ttc as well, and at diff stages post MC. Its been a massive support for me, but i know what you mean x

GetDownYouWillFall · 07/12/2010 20:38

Aww thanks Nix that's nice to know they were asking about me. TBH I steered away from that thread for a while as I felt quite emotionally vulnerable for a while after the MC, and it's easy to feel ignored there as the thread moves so fast. I know noone was deliberately ignoring me, but just felt like there were some well established friendships and it was very difficult to break into IYSWIM.

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 07/12/2010 20:18

hi ladies! turkey your poor mog! Terrys empathise re the dead things! I have been known to have to turf out rats/squirrels/rabbits generally oh yes and lots of birds and mice!! LIVE and dead! My kitten cat is so tiny and carries them for miles!! Nutjob.

I know Digi is about as i lurk on the RecurRENT BUNS MC thread, as they know tons about MC/Tests etc and i have seen her posting on there a few times. While i think about other threads, getfdown the ladies on TTC thread were asking about you the other day also.

spilt have you thought about bvits to increase LP or acupuncture?

MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 07/12/2010 19:54

terrys that emoticon was meant to signify a humerous envy, not the grumpy face shown!!

MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 07/12/2010 19:51

Evening ladies. Hope everyone is ok and your temps continue to rise Terrys Envy!

Just a quick qn - I know ff has 4 types of cm (apart from dry): sticky, creamy, watery and ew. But tbh, mine isn't any of those, it's just a bit wetter but not dry IYSWIM
What would you put that down as?

Spilt not ignoring your moving post about Bobbie, I just do not feel able to say anything that would help as my words would be useless. You sound stronger than I would be and I hope days are getting easier.

spilttheteaagain · 07/12/2010 19:40

Poor battery. It's always a bit Shock when you go to pay the vet bill... hope the mog is walking better tomorrow.

I have sticky CM and homicidal urges. I believe this means AF is almost here. Please may it wait til Thurs, then I'd get my 10 day LP!

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batteryturkey · 07/12/2010 16:07

Hello all :) just a quick wave from work - will try and catch up later tonight. Took the cat to the vet - £80 later and she is ok but still limping around - vet doesn't think she has broken anything but have to go back on Thursday for a check up.

I have started to get some CM today so I hope I can 'hold out' till DP gets here on Thursday :)

Will catch up later, best be off so I don't get the sack x

GetDownYouWillFall · 07/12/2010 11:39

not heavier exactly, just still bright red. Normally my periods only last 4 or 5 days.

I had a "normal" cycle this cycle, with a normal ov chart pattern, so surely this couldn't be stuff left over from the MC? Confused

Anyway hope you are all ok today. Thinking of you split, it's so so hard. The grieving process is a long journey and there will be bad days and better days. You will be ok. Just give yourself time

mouse hope you get an appt for early scan. It's great that the lines are getting darker - yay!!

Glad to see your temps are up today terrys.

spilttheteaagain · 07/12/2010 11:03

terrys thank you, you are lovely.

GetDown is the bleeding getting heavier? If so I would be thinking about phoning someone to ask if you should be concerned. Maybe NHS direct first?

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TerrysNo2 · 07/12/2010 10:55

GetDown if you are at all concerned maybe you should go to your GPs now?? I hope you get some answers!

Digi hope you are ok and too busy to talk to us! Come back soon! Smile

GetDownYouWillFall · 07/12/2010 10:54

CD7 for me and still fresh red bleeding. I even had a clot this morning Sad What is going on?

spilttheteaagain · 07/12/2010 10:13

Anyone seen digi recently? Hope you're ok digi.

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TerrysNo2 · 07/12/2010 09:41

I feel honoured to have a chart stalker spilt!! Temp is highest its been and I am Smile about it but trying not to get my hopes up as I had a rubbish nights sleep and woke up at 3am and 5am. I didn't get out of bed though and took my temp at usual time of 6.45 but not sure if that might be the reason.

mouse I am eagerly awaiting his response - you should hide a camera in the room!

Hi battery I hope (assume!!) you had a fun time with DP Wink. I hope his visit on Thursday coincides with a +ve OPK for you. Sad about your cat - I hope she gets better soon. My poor cat is so neglected since DS was born Blush - everyone said that would happen and I didn't believe them but I honestly can't make time for her sometimes. I do still like to see her stalking about the place, except when I find dead mice on my nice new leather boots Angry!

Nix just eat - you're going to get big anyway for the next eight months and you have something to blame it on!! Plus if you BF then the weight falls off. And you won't have time to eat when baby arrives!! Grin

Ifatfirst glad to hear your boobs are still sore, symptoms are a good sign. Your poor DH, it must be worse for them sometimes as they aren't the ones going through it so they can't feel it IYSWIM. Mind you, lets not tell them that!! Grin

spilt I am very Sad for you when you are finding it difficult but I think you are coping tremendously and having your own special place to be with Bobbie must be a good place to go when you feel down.

Grin
spilttheteaagain · 07/12/2010 09:05

ooh terrys your temps are back on the up - here's hoping!

MrsA that's intriguing, when I had mine last week she had to get a longer tube and said I was very "tall". But I can get to my cervix (though it never feels low - this is probably why). I do have long fingers though Grin

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MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 06/12/2010 22:24

Ooh just watched Corrie tram drama tonight - can't wait for tomorrow!

getdown, I normally ov between CD18-23 or even 25. We intend to swi on Tues and then get back to it on Fri.

Had smear today. Nurse said I'd never feel my cervix as my pelvis/cervix is so high that she had to get a longer smear instrument thingy (i'd mentioned I was charting but could never feel my cervix). My blood pressure is up - hmm, yeah, that could be the fact I'm about to have a smear Hmm

mousebacon · 06/12/2010 21:16

I'll have to have told him by then I supppose but I can't deny it's crossed my mind not too...ugh, starting to feel like a cow but really don't want to get his hopes up.

Hope your cat is on the mend soon battery x

spilttheteaagain · 06/12/2010 21:06

battery your poor puss Sad After what we had this week I would say keep an eye on her paw incase she's trodden on a thorn or something and given herself an infected foot. Hope she's moving better in the morning and she's just pulled it.

mouse are you planning on taking DH to the scan?

who's charts are stalkable at the moment then? I've forgotten who's where on the cycles...

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