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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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HellKat · 22/09/2005 10:22

Forgot to say, Aunty, in that case mega congrats hun wahooooooo.

HellKat · 22/09/2005 10:19

Morning Darlin's!
Got back from yet more bargain hunting . Got Levi's for 4 quid, a huge yin-yang design throw-3.00, jeans for me- 3.00 and a shirt for dp-4.00.I love it!!!
Hc- Here's hoping af won't show her face hun! Hope dd gets better soon.
Ch- You can come shopping with me anytime hun!
Wills- Hope youre feeling brighter this morning.
Maddy- Ask them hun! Worse they can say is no.
Diddle- Hope you're feeling better and it does'nt take hold! Horrid feeling poor ly when you've got loads to do.

HumphreysCorner · 22/09/2005 10:08

Coathanger-last BD on Tuesday but don't like to BD the week before just incase we dislodge anything that might be there but DH insisted and as I insist the rest of the month I couldn't really say no!

Before my MC my cycle was 28 days exactly but my first AF after arrived at 7 weeks (normal to be that late) then the last one was 9 days late and followed loads of horrible discharge. Sooo have based my next AF as being due on Saturday-am CD 27 today so I will just have to see how and when this one arrives to plan the next BD sessions.

Have absolutley no idea when I OV so it is pot luck and always has been. Thinking of using DD's thermometer to take my temperature but don't know how that works so will have to go on fertility friend and read up.

Heavens, what ramblings. Time for tea said Zebedee!

xxx

Coathanger · 22/09/2005 09:50

Got to go now to my meeting! Have a nice day! Not too much chatting coz I will have to catch up!

Coathanger · 22/09/2005 09:10

HC - Are you still BDing? And what CD are you on? Have you had OV symptoms this month yet??

Sorry lots of questions I know

maddyd · 22/09/2005 09:01

HC, your signs sound posotive though. Its awfull this stage. You either need your af just to come or a bfp. Prefrably the latter. Anyway y fingers are still crossed for you. xxx

I got an appointment through this morning for a scan next Monday to check on my gall stones. Anyway it the smae place where they do the babies so do you think if i asked nicely theyd check everything was ok whilst im there, if i explain my situation.No harm in asking i supose

HumphreysCorner · 22/09/2005 08:34

Morning ladies

BPN again not going to test again until I'm 36 weeks late ha ha! Considering my last cycle was 36 days compared to the usual 28 perhaps I am not due on Saturday No really, it is stressing me out trying to keep my wee in during the night as I usually go about 4 times in the night. Still feel icky but DD is full of cold and kept falling out of bed last night so very bad night indeed.

Go to go so wishing you all a good day.

Brill news still maddyd! ((xx)) ...

and wills and auntynon ((xx)) ((xx))

Byee
xx

Coathanger · 22/09/2005 08:12

Whoops! Forgot...

CD15 but not TTC - just hoping DH cocks up quite literally!!

Coathanger · 22/09/2005 08:08

MORNING!

How are you all?

Won't be on much today - got to go to a La Leche meeting for Breastfeeding counsellors (coz thats what I am!!) So, just wanted to say hi! and make sure all was okie-dokie!

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Diddle · 22/09/2005 07:37

ha ha - saw it mentioend on another tthread this week too. someone was commenting on the fact that our names on each post look like they ahve the ability to be clicked on and edited and that we could have our ticker next to our name. I bit my tongue and didn't comment.

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maddyd · 22/09/2005 07:35

Ticker how dare you mention that word on here

4wk 2 day

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Diddle · 22/09/2005 07:31

Morning all,

Wills - sorry you had a rough day yesterday, hope today becomes an easier one.

Maddyd - Of course its still positive you're pregnant!!!! can you believe it, has it sunk in?

Have woken up this morning with a stuffy nose and craoky throat, realy don't have time for a cold, too much to do.

CD21 9hope you like my DIY ticker

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maddyd · 22/09/2005 06:45

Morning all. Tested again this orning Still a BFP I cant help it i love seeing those lines come up. Wont do it anymore now though. Promise. Will have no money left for wedding.

HC remember every pregnancy is different. I started feeling sick last week. about ten days before af due and it just wouldnt shift, plus a niggling headache. xxxxx

Chocolatepeanut im praying your af doesnt come today. If you have erractic cycles you arnt meant to teat till the longest one you had i.e at 35 days. xxxx

You know what you all need girlies

Baby Sticky Dust. here goes

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Hope it works. xxxxxxxx

HumphreysCorner · 21/09/2005 22:05

Night all-feeling tired and nauseous so off to bed-AF must be on her way as I don't get morning sickness until about week 7 but it lasts until about week 23. When I do get PG I like you all will be praying for symptoms as before my MC the sickness lasted one day!

Sleep tight
xx

Coathanger · 21/09/2005 22:03

Ah well, night night all. Wishing you all pleasant dreams and a good nights sleep. XXXXXX

NIghty-night!

auntynon · 21/09/2005 21:56

HK, I did have a 'natural'MC and tested a couple of weeks after to make sure it was clear and got a negative result. Missmibaby I'm up in the north east. Boobs a bit tender tonight, hoping that it is another sign.

Coathanger · 21/09/2005 21:45

I think i might be the last one on tonight

HK - I think thats a perfectly balanced diet! And what a bargain hunter! i never find bargains like that - will have to go shopping with you! oh and thanks for babydust - may i take a little bit for later?

HC - the only time i've been back to goal weight after having kids was when i was really poorly! So my answer is "with great difficulty!"

CP - i've still got everything crossed for you, Hun. Those syptoms could be good ones xx

Coathanger · 21/09/2005 21:32

Hey! Wills I live about 1/2 hour from Broadstairs!!!!!! When are you due to move???? CAT me with details!

Wills · 21/09/2005 21:31

Thanks HC. Am off to soak in hotish bath and go to bed. See you all in the morning.

HumphreysCorner · 21/09/2005 21:07

Wills-((((((((((((xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx)))))))))))))

Wills · 21/09/2005 20:18

But HellKat what is it?

CH - Steriods are GROSS. Avoid if pos

Feeling blue at the moment. Had to go to my grandfather's interment (Nan planted his ashes under a rose bush at the crematorium). She sobbed her heart out. She's so lost with out him, she met him when she was 16. She's 89 now.

Then rushed home to get house spick and span for a viewing - we're trying to sell up and move to Kent (Broadstairs) at which point I will give up and try and start up a part-time company. Ended up shouting at my girls because they (being totally normal children) were creating mess faster than I could clear it and top it all the bloody people didn't both turning up.

Finally dd2 watched a nature program where the crocodiles caught and ate a zebra. I've not gone out of my way to protect her from this sort of thing and could hear my dh very sensibly explaining it but she was heart broken. Kept saying that god should not have created crocodiles. Broke my heart for her.

So feeling really blue and incredibly tearful. Keep bashing my breasts in case they've stopped hurting as I can't believe that this isn't going to go horribly wrong. Don't feel pregnant today and am scared of that feeling but... suspect its because I've been runing around so much I've not had much time to focus on my body. Also think the tears are somewhat supicious!

Very very glad to see another BFP. Its wonderful to have company. This does seem like a stunningly lucky thread!!!!!!!!!!!! many many many congrats Auntynon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry had to get blue bit off chest.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 21/09/2005 20:15

Congrats Auntynon!! Wow this is a lucky thread,lets keep it.

My AF is due tomorrow.I am v v tired and crampy so I guess its gonna come.

I went into work today to see everyone as my mat leave finishes soon.I was hoping to be pg before I go back as in both previous pregnancies I have been sick for the first 20 weeks and had to be off work.I was hoping to get that all over with while on mat leave but as I have so far not caught,I face the possibilty of getting pg when I go back only to have more time off sick.I have been so worried about it but have been very open with bosses and they said if that happens,its ok.So feel a bit like the pressure is off but still gutted im not.

Not testing.Thats because although I am due tomorrow (27 days),in previous months my cycle has been 35 and 37 days.Anyhow thats me for now as I am soooo tired.

My weight stats are 10.12 and 5ft 9.Was 13 stone before started babymaking but two lots severe sickness has seen weight drop off.Not recommended though.

HellKat · 21/09/2005 19:21

Be back in the morning me lovelies! Off to nick the remote from dp and ds1!
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HellKat · 21/09/2005 19:20

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HellKat · 21/09/2005 19:16

Oh Hc I'd forgotten about that! God I remember you wishing for a neg!
Enjoy your pasta! Won't say what i ate. Lets just say healthy eating went outta the window this avo!
All I will say is it involved a gigantic bag of M&M's, pretzels and 1/2 tub Ben & Jerry's.

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