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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 18:53

CP - Have been over to the thread too, its so sad, its tough to see someone who you have supported through this once, go through it again. I think we've all got so close and its hard to see a friend go through this, i hope it all works out for her.
You can be upbeat too, i'm sure shelly would want to know you have some good or happy news

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 10/09/2005 16:40

I was going to post a really upbeat note before hearing about shelly. I feel so sad for her.Having shared her experience of a stillbirth I cannot believe that life would be so cruel so soon.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 10/09/2005 16:28

Shelly miscarrying? NOOOOOOOOOOOO Will look now........

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 16:14

Oh HC - thats tough, i'm sure you are thrilled for them, but also jealous as hell, i know i would be. Your time will be soon. maybe this month? you never know, it has to happen sometime.

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HumphreysCorner · 10/09/2005 14:34

My friend has just sent me a text to say 2 of our friends are now 3 months PG. That will be a test being in the same room as them.

WHEN IS IT MY TURN ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 13:33

Hellkat - i'm not due now until the 1st week in October, so ages for me, bd time now.

Haven't seen shellys thread will have a quick look now.

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cori · 10/09/2005 10:41

Hi guys,
hope you are all OK. You seem all to be having a lot of fun BDing, I am too nervous to do anything like that until after first scvan on Monday.

Have you guys seen shelly24 threa. She thinks she might be having a miscarriage. Poor thing.

strike1 · 10/09/2005 10:30

Morning all, still bfn here (finally run out of tests so now I will wait till Monday)

Hope your cat's ok Humphrey's (great name!) I've got a cat called Charlie and me a dh are so soppy with him, he's our baby at the moment (god know's how he'll feel when we get the real thing!)

Have a lovely weekend all. And good luck to any testing (and waiting) and have fun with the BDing the rest of you

HellKat · 10/09/2005 10:23

Diddle- No idea when she's due. Bled for month and a half then had 2/3 week break, then that weird one which I'm still not convinced it was a normal af, and that was only 5 days long (which is rare for me). I don't know if it was an early mc (because of what came out) or just weird things happening with afs. Will have to see what the next one's like.
When are you due?

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 10:20

Maddyd - Too tired, i'm not surprised bd so early in the morning.
Hellkat - Looks like AF will surprise you too then, she doesn't seem to be coming on time for anyone anymore.
Coathanger - you with us today?? or are you having quality family time?

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HellKat · 10/09/2005 10:15

Morning all.
Hc- Glad they made you smile Hope Marmalade's ok. Poor little man! Have 3 myself and would hate them to be in pain too.
CH- Glad you enjoyed them too hun. You were'nt the only one narked by that thread.
Glad they brought smile's to your faces.
I'm not sure whether or not I'm excited about testing next week or scared stiff! I'm either due next Friday or the one after (not sure because I don't know if there's 3 or 4 weeks break between af's the way they're going) so here's to waiting.
Anyone else get the emmence rain and storm last night? My god are back was nearly flooded! Very cool though must admit!

My last joke.... makes me smile 'cos it's so daft.

Penguin walks into the bar and asks the landlord " Have you seen my brother?"
Landlord replies " What does he look like?"
boom boom

maddyd · 10/09/2005 10:15

Diddle ill def keep going but prob not everyday from now on. Im too tired . I also know my body and my fertile moment has passed till next month.

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 09:57

strike - I don't think a drink or two will do any harm, its if you're an alcoholic that would make a difference. If you be sensible then, you'll be fine. I hope you have a good time.
Its tough playing the waiting game isn't it, I hate it, but it has to be done, and fi we do get pregnant, we'l have even more waiting to do.

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 09:38

oops wasn't ready to post that, anyway, they now do baby naming ceremonies, which we would love as and when we have a baby to name. so we are thrilled that it can be where we married.

maddyd & CP - don't you wonder if you should keep going after this "fertile" period, what if you're wrong and your egg is late coming, i always think that, i'm going to keep going this month.

Hellkat - your jokes were great, very funny.

Humphreys -- hope marmalade will be ok, i hate anyone messing with my teeth, poor thing, hope he cheers up soon.

CP - I watched trinny and susunnah, can't believe how horrible they were to some people.

I also watched Peter Kay afterwards, did anyone else. I was pmsl, he is sooo funny, i couldn't stop laughing my sides ached, I needed that, its good to laugh.

Well its raining here today, miserable, better keep my spirits up, got to visit the launderette and sainsburys so might vanish later.

CD9, BD here i come

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Diddle · 10/09/2005 09:32

Morning all - Coathanger - Hope you're okay this morning, satyed on for as long as i could last nigth, but had to go out before you came back sorry.
We had a romantic anniversary meal at the country house that we married in last year, It was very strange being back there, and there was another wedding on while we were there, i was so jealous, i'd love to do mine over again
We had a civil ceremony Blakelands counry house

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HumphreysCorner · 10/09/2005 09:30

Are we all 'at it'?????

Have had to jump on DH this morning as on CD 14 today so running out of time.

Off to see how Marmalade is-the vet said his teeth were rotten and could not be saved-how bizarre! Got to give him crushed antibiotics in his food for 14 days-he'll be having none of that!

Have a brill weekend all of you and remember girls, keep those legs in the air. lol.

xxxxxxxx

maddyd · 10/09/2005 09:00

Good job i have to find a dress otherwise this 2 week wait we have to endure now would really drag.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 10/09/2005 08:54

LOL

Ype mines gone off til monday so I am in same boat

maddyd · 10/09/2005 08:40

thats done IT so much!!!!

My dh to be is off on a stag weekend so i needed his fishes before they got drunk

maddyd · 10/09/2005 08:39

Me too Chocolatepeanut. 4 o;clock this morning to be exact and now im knackered as couldnt get back to sleep. Day 15 so last chance for us really to catch that little egg. We have done so much the past 6 days theres no way it could have escaped.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 10/09/2005 08:25

Morning all!

Well last bd session over and done with this morning and hes left for Skeggy with his parents.
Lets hope those little swimmers are heading in the right direction as by the time hes back my fertile phase will be over.

Hope Marmalade is feeling ok HC.Why did they take his teeth out,poor mite.

Did anyobe watch that trinny and susannah secrets show last night?

Coathanger · 09/09/2005 22:22

I think we must have over done it today. So quiet tonight...

I'm off to bed...need some zzzzz's. Wishing you all a good nights sleep and pleasant dreams.

xxx

HumphreysCorner · 09/09/2005 21:13

Tis very busy on here today.

Took Marmalade (my ginger Tom) to the vets to have his teeth cleaned and when I went to collect him the vet said he has taken 10 teeth out. Bless, he won't have many left and he is only 4 years old. His mouth is sore and bleeding .

Good news petunia ((xx))

HellKat-your penis joke has saved my day from becoming a complete no no-thank you hun. ((xx))

Hugs to everyone else as well.

Night night
xx

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 09/09/2005 19:44

Bet the wear dungarees..

Yep still om my own (again)You can guess dh is not around in the evenings (shift worker)so its me and my keyboard!

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 09/09/2005 19:33

Well you lot have been busy today!!!Logging on in the quiet hours as DD bed at 7 but I bet your all dancing on tables now....

Great news Petunia!!!!

Loved the jokes.Needed a laugh.Feel a bit strung out today.Maddyd its cd13 for me and last chance bd tonight and tomoz morning as hes off to skegness for weekend first thing.Not ov testing this month (hey I DO have willpower after all!!)but got the clear stretchy stuff (TMI)and twinky pains so hoping.....

Drinking pineapple juice by the gallon and eating lots healthy food too.Im SUCH a good girl NOT.

Speaking of roast chickens earlier I hope you eat free range after watching that documentary on factory chickens and the diseases they spread (one can damage unborn children,so imagine my horror)I threw up after watching it (had just eaten some asda chicken) and its the butchers for me from now on.

Gonna take a peek at THAT thread..

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