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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 23:22

Sorry ladies, my trun for a rant, doesn't happen very often. Have been to the hospital to see grandad tonight, and broke down in his room. Ths hospital has bad memories for me anyway, its the same one i lost my babies in. When i got pg the first time, my nan had just passed away. Now i can't help but thinking that if i get pg this month, with him being so ill that he will go too. I am desperate to be pg, but not at the expense of his life. Plus the last place i want to be the week by baby would have been due, is in the hospital i would have delivered it in. Had a good cry on the way home, haven't told dh yet, don't want to upset him, i'd rather he kept busy and forgot it. if thats possible.
Going to be a tough week i think.
Thanks ladies neede dto let that out

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 23:19

CP, keep bd, you never know what might be happening "down there"
Glad you liked to jokes you all need big smiles on your faces.

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 12/09/2005 22:33

PMSL Diddle at the milk carton joke.DH did NOT appreacite it!!

Ive got a Picasso CH.Were happy with it but getting a 7 seater in March as IF i have another baby,when I am out with sister and two nieces (as I often am) I will need extra seat.

CD 16 and fertile bit over (well cm gone off so me thinks so) so gonna start testing in around 8-10 days time...cant wait..and so it begins again eh?!

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 21:54

coathanger - sounds like you made your day a bit better, i love spending money too. Will be thinking of you this week, its tough. Thanks for your thoughts. having a rough day today.

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Coathanger · 12/09/2005 21:32

Diddle - you will be in my thoughts on Thursday. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

Coathanger · 12/09/2005 21:30

Hellooo I'm here!!

Haven't had chance to read through todays chatter, but looks like it could take me a while!

Bought a new car today. Citreon Picasso - anyone got one?? I loved it! Red, diesel, very nice. Really excited and can't wait to go and collect it!

Had a wierd day today. Woke up feeling a bit down, what with the milestone and all, but by the time we had signed the paperwork on the new car I was feeling much better. Funny how spending money makes you feel so much better.

Tomorrow will be odd as well. Would have been 12 weeks tomorrow. I should be telling everyone now and if my last term PG was anything to go by, I should have a bump. But hoping to keep busy tomorrow too.

Hope your all well.

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 21:18

where is everyone??? its very quiet on here today, come on chatterboxes, wakey wakey

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shelly24 · 12/09/2005 18:36

Hi mads,i'm doing ok(up and down),chatting here helps.x
Did you read my message i sent you earlier(scroll down abit.x)

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:59

can't stop scratching my head now

sorry if i've made you all itchy

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:58

on a funnier note, i ahve recently had my ahir cut, too short to tie up, and she said very innocently, your hair looks weird now. I thought it was because i did a crap job of straightening it this morning, but she said its not, its because, its too short to go up now and i will get Nits!!!, cheeky madam. They're alwasy telling them at school to wear long hair up, to reduce getting nits.

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:56

You're right maddyd, they do.

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maddyd · 12/09/2005 17:52

Kids tell it from the heart

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:35

good idea maddyd - nice trip out with the kids. actually i have 2 hours in the morning with no kids to look after, which i know will be tough. Must try and do something nice. really fancy splashing out on a new outfit for my BIL's 40th on Saturday, i might do that. sounds like a good plan.

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:32

Oh my god, my mindie has just been talking about her moms baby that is due in Feb, just chatting, then she said how about if my moms baby dies, like your baby how i stopped the tears from coming out i do not know. she's only 6, i know she wouldn't know the effect it had on me. Took me by surprise though, was not ready for that. Its bought it back though, how i felt those first few days, i collected her from school the day it happened and i remember her trying to keep us smileing till her mom came.
tough times they were

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maddyd · 12/09/2005 17:29

Im fine Ta Diddle. I just read your feeling sad too. Our due dates are going to be so difficult for us. At least i will have things to distract me. You could maybe plan something nice to do that day so you dont dwell xxxxxxxxx

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 17:26

thanks shelly, i'll be ok, you concentrate on you.

Hi maddyd how are you?

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maddyd · 12/09/2005 17:23

Shelly Honey how are you doing?

shelly24 · 12/09/2005 17:20

(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))diddle.x.x.x.x.x

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 16:51

thanks hellkat, will be needing them

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HellKat · 12/09/2005 16:41

Aww Diddle, that'll be hard. I'll send you loads of hugs that day

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Diddle · 12/09/2005 16:36

that sounds like a lovely idea hellkat, i've got my due date son my calender still, first one is this Thursday, must try not to think about it.

shelly glad i made you smile, smiling and laughter is good for you.

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HellKat · 12/09/2005 16:31

Shelly- How are you feeling? Hope you're bearing up hun.

HellKat · 12/09/2005 16:30

Meant to say Ch {{{{{{hugs}}}}} for today. It is very hard when you have milestones coming up. My dp, bless him, remembered to cross them all off of the calendar. Now our only milestone is the last one edd 5th Nov. As it's a Saturday, we're planning on doing something. Perfect plan is taking ds1 and 2 to the huge firework display and when we get home, remember our little one.

HellKat · 12/09/2005 16:27

Hiya all!
How's everyone on this hot day?
Baking here, took babba to the park and hour or so ago. Think it wore him out.
Diddle- Glad Creep was good. Might have to order it.
Think af may be on her way. Had backache since last night. oh well nevermind!
Off to finish dins. Be back soon. x

shelly24 · 12/09/2005 16:09

Diddle:you nut case!.x
Thanx for the lovely jokes,bought a smile to my face.x.x.x(tee hee ).x

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