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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 24/09/2005 12:29

Coathagner - i agree germs are flying through our internet, my cold is not good today, all blocked up and scratchy crackly throat, feel like my head is going to explode. Managed to get a lie in today, first one in 2 wks.

Xena - Wish i had the willpower to get my accounts upto date, but i can't seem to muster the energy. I have a Uni porject to be in in 2 weeks and i MUST do it right now. Ignore DH, men are always grumpy, i'm sre 80% of the time they are, and then 20% they're just bearable, why do we do it. He'll be fine later, and wonder why you're so annoyed and fed up.

HC - sorry didn't mean to pass my germs on, oops! Very sorry about AF, little cow fancy visiting you this month, she should have gone on vacation.

Bubble - haven't seen you on here for a while, hows things going?

Maddyd - I'll swap with you and go shoppingm would love the time to do that, but have laundry to do, assignment, ironing, invoices to deliver, oh the list is endless, must not think of anymore, its bad for me

Hellkat - Love the sound of you relaxing saturday afternoon, what time shall we meet you would love it, we must do that oen day, i'm sure you're oly 90 mins from me, not quite close enough to pop round for coffee though. Hope your thumping head calms down and the kids don't start making ti worse.

Oh Carly - I was wondering about you last week, saw your name on the stats thread i think and remembered that we didn't hear from you much, So sorry to hear of your loss. Its so unfair, how long after your 1st m/c was the 2nd one, did you have any cycles inbetween? All this miscariage lark makes me so mad, we shouldn't be going through this, we are good people and we deserve better. I hope that you will stay with us for a while and let us support you, you've been through a lot. How have your family coped? Sorry for all the questions. Thinking of you

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carly82 · 24/09/2005 11:47

hi ladies! i used to pop on this thread a while back but have had an absolute nightmare the last two months so i am havent really felt like talking much my af didnt turn up so i done a pg (well five actuaaly) all positive. was thrilled but didint want to get excited-for obvious reasons. decided not to tell anyone for a weeks but unfortunatley it wasnt to be. three weeks later i was out shopping with my 2 ds and i had the most horrific back pain which has now become so familiar to me, called the doc who sent me to the epu but it was too late, another m/c
i decided not to try for a month or two, but am now back on track. last day of my af yesterday so heres hoping maybe this time.......

HellKat · 24/09/2005 10:16

Know the feeling Ch. No energy what so ever today. Still got thumping headache.
Take care and chat later. x

HellKat · 24/09/2005 10:13

Does sound good does'nt it.
Brilliant sunshine here.

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 10:13

Well, I suppose I had better drag my big fat a**e out of the chair and do something today. Got to hang washing out and do some ironing, and then go shopping (food shopping, not even exciting shopping ). Mind you I get to go in my new car

Speak to you all later. Take care xxxx

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 10:10

Oh, that sounds fab HK! Its not too bad here. A bit cloudy but most of it is fairweather cloud. Not ventured outside yet...

HellKat · 24/09/2005 10:08

Freezing here but gorgeous!
Shame we did'nt live near eachother. Would be great to find somewhere pretty with a huge lake, woods etc to walk, chill out and let the kids run free!
Ohhhhh that sounds too good! Also somewhere with an old fashioned family pub. To grab a hot pub lunch!!

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 10:02

Never mind - shouldn't complain

maddyd · 24/09/2005 09:57

It is a lovely day isnt it. I may hang out on the street with the kids on thier bikes

But first i MUST spend money

CH its a pain isnt it. Alot of families get thier quality time at weekends, and we get same old, same old

HellKat · 24/09/2005 09:53

Ohh Maddy what a hardship! Spending money on a glorious day! Sounds heavenly

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 09:52

aww Maddy, don't be lonely. I'll be on here all weekend i expect. Dh worked last night over time, so he'll be in bed most of today. Then he'll be in bed most of tomorrow too, ready for going to work Sunday night. So, I'll be around most of the weekend!

maddyd · 24/09/2005 09:51

Morning Everyone. Another boring old weekend for me as Dp working. Hate the weekends with a passion. Ill just end up trailing round the shops and spending money i havnt got

How is everyone??

HellKat · 24/09/2005 09:50

*lazy.
My typing's getting worse! Think I'm having far too many senior moments!
Ch, Diddle and Hc hope you're feeling better and you get well soon!
Af's nearly done so hopefully she'll bypass you this month HC!
Xena- I hate it when they get moody, apologise and expect that's the end of it! Hang in there hun.

HellKat · 24/09/2005 09:47

P.s Going to wake dp up soon so i can be a alzy moo and climb into a nice, warm bed and sleep for a couple of hours!

HellKat · 24/09/2005 09:45

Morning all!
How's everyone?
Think I'm coming down with the dreaded cold too! Had awful headaches for the last few days and since yesterday been feeling absolutely wiped out. Yuck!!!!

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 09:34

Oh, Xena, I can sympathise! My DH works nights all the time and if the kids wake him up he's not exactly full of the joys of spring!! And on top of that, he's got the toothache from Hell at the mo(personally I don't thinkits that bad, I just thinkhe's being a typical man!!). As long as he apologises to you though, thats what counts coz at least he knows he was grumpy!

Xena · 24/09/2005 09:29

Hmm My DH has woken in a bad temper and already shouted at me and moaned at the children Later he will apologise for waking up grumpy. but really i'm sick of it.

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 09:24

Hi Bubble! I don't think we've met have we?? Apologies if we have and I've forgotten, but it must have been when I wasn't really with it! How are you? It might be PG aches your getting. Never give up hope til AF shows her ugly face!! Your boys sound like mine! They have very short attention spans as well!

HC - That wasn't TMI in my opinion - I know what you mean I hope your cold gets better soon, and poor DD, bless her. My throat is killing me this morning, trying not to talk to much coz I'm prone to laryngitis (Oh how DH loves that!)

bubble99 · 24/09/2005 09:11

Morning Xena. I'm feeling very crampy this morning. CD 25 (I usually have a 27 day cycle) I keep hoping I'm feeling early pg cramps, but I know it's AF on the way.

The boys have built a 'den' next to the computer. This involves dragging duvets, towels, cushions etc onto the floor. Ten minutes later, when their goldfish-like concentration/interest levels wane, I will have to nag them to help tidy it all up.

I hope your Saturday morning is calmer.

HumphreysCorner · 24/09/2005 09:06

Morning ladies

Cold from hell here now whispers it's all Diddle's fault.

Coathanger-I started kicking out gunge yesterday and there is more today so just waiting for the red bit-soz TMI Sounds like you are joining us with colds. ((xx))

Don't feel like doing anything today and coz DD has a cold still she is so grizzly-sorry to say but it does grate on my nerves a bit.

Hope everybody has a lovely weekend. Will be back later.

xxx

Xena · 24/09/2005 08:55

Morning Bubble hows things going?

bubble99 · 24/09/2005 08:50

I'm here Coathanger I've been lurking on this thread for a while.

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 08:49

Well, I've got to go shopping! Must go shopping! Must go shopping! Sorry, trying to psych myself up!!

Other than that nothing today. Got to ry and get boys to tidy their room - its a disgrace!

Xena · 24/09/2005 08:44

No nothing really just finished doing my asda shop online what about you?

Coathanger · 24/09/2005 08:25

Are you up to anything exciting today?

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