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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Coathanger · 15/09/2005 13:01

Have CATed you Diddle, and I mean everything I say on it!

I know things will get easier, and that this week is particularly hard, but I'm so glad I've got you lot on here. You get me through the day, even if I only get time to read your threads snd not post.

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 12:49

CH - your m/c is still very recent, and i'm not surprised your feeling low, especially this week. I would say it gets easier but that won't make you feel any better. Maybe seeing your HV will be beneficial, i hope so. even if you just get to let it all out and don't get much adbice, just talking can work wonders.

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Coathanger · 15/09/2005 12:35

Back from nursery now.

Anytime Diddle xx

Got yours BTW. I'm fine. Haven't been on much lately, been trying to keep busy. Having a bad week. Not sure why this week more than any other, apart from the 12 week thingy. Feel very low right now. Thinking of seeing my HV who councelled me through PND after DS2. I didn't think I was "depressed" until DH said he thought it was a good idea to see HV again. Maybe I am and I've been frightened to admit it. Will let you know what I decide.

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 12:16

thanks CH and shelly, much appreciated, might email you later CH.

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shelly24 · 15/09/2005 11:48

Lots of love and ((((hugs)))to you today diddle.x.x.x

Coathanger · 15/09/2005 11:46

Just a quiclie coz got to pick liitle 'un up form nursery.

Diddle - Your in my thoughts today, sweetie. Hope today isn't too painful. Just CAT if you need to blub! {{{{HUGS}}}}

Shelly - I hope you are feeling okay today. Take it easy and be kind to yourself. {{{{HUGS}}}}

HK - you need to test!!

Hope you are all okay today. I'm not too bad. Ha d a bad morning but things might pick up this afternoon, who knows. I want to get back to my happy self - haven't been that way for a few days now. Its not like me.

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 11:39

Very quiet on here today, where is everyone?

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 10:44

Coathanger - are you there? are you lurking. thinking fo you this week, hope you're ok

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HellKat · 15/09/2005 10:27

yep I like that to. Jerry was good. Typical rough looking bints, shouting the odds, sounding like a bunch of fishwives! I love drama in the morning.

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 10:16

Trisha is naff, not good today
putting jerry on instead, wish loose women was on i love that

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HellKat · 15/09/2005 10:05

Good to hear!
Watching Jerry here myself lol.

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 09:47

thanks for the hugs - did me the world of good

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 09:47

Thanks Petunia & Hellkat - i'm ok so far, bit low, but thats to be expected. just having a coffee and a biccie and watching daytime tv.
Little one i usually have now is at his first day at Playgroup, so i have 2 hours for me.

Don't apologise HK - i'm ok.

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HellKat · 15/09/2005 09:26

Diddle- Oh god sorry hun!!!! So wrapped up in myself I forgot! {{{{{{{{{{{[hugs}}}}}}}}}}}} thinking of you babes!
HC- When are you meant to register little one's for school? DS1 was 2 when I did. Is it still the same?
Bfn! Might still be too early though. If af does'nt show then I'll be testing again Sunday.

petunia · 15/09/2005 08:56

Diddle- how are you feeling today? (just read your story on the mc board) Hope today isn't too difficult for you, but I know dates are hard to face.

HumphreysCorner · 15/09/2005 08:44

Morning ladies!

Hello Wills-you are most welcome ((xx))

Shelly24-big warm bear hugs for you as I know what the pain you are having is like-take care hun ((xx))

HellKat-JFDI (one of our old managers sayings many moons ago-JUST F***G DO IT!) Lots of luck ((xx))

DH has his own Ebay account now so I can't ever get on the computer-it's not fair! I am taking DD to look round a nursery this morning so she can go 2 mornings a week-scary thought. Also registered her with school and she goes in Sept 2007 and will only be just 4!

I'll try and catch up later.

CD20 her by the way so not long to wait now-depends though of course whether AF decides on a 28 or 37 day cycle!

Love to all
xxx

HellKat · 15/09/2005 08:34

Morning all!
Diddle- Nope not yet! I might run out and grab one though soon lol! Suspense is killing me especially as I had a dodgy dream last night. In it I was pg but found out I was at least 8/9wks. Mw said the last af I had wasn't an af but a early mc and I was still carrying it's twin! Woke up this morning holding tum then remembered it was just a dream. Sooooo nervous!!!

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 07:33

Hellkat - Have you tested???

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 07:23

MORNING!!!! Hope you're all okay.

Hows everyone feeling today???

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petunia · 14/09/2005 21:20

Evening all,
Just checking in to see how you all are, especially Shelly. I can't believe this has happened to you. Why does life do this sometimes? I second what Diddle says about taking paracetamol. And the baths and hot water bottles sound a good idea too. I'm thinking of you.

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Diddle · 14/09/2005 19:55

OH coathanger have now read your message properly. Sounds very thoughless of your friends, can't believe she did that. Maybe you have cried all you need to at the moment, the tears would come i'm sure if they were there. I feel like people have forgotten alreayd too and it was onyl a few motnhs since the last one. But then i wonder fi people are just avoiding the subject so i don't get upset, which is ok, but i respect the firends more who do talk about it, or carry on and tell me about their sister etc who is pregnant. At least they're not treating me like a china doll.

CP - not in manchester sorry, west midlands here.

Don;t wait you lot, TEST NOW!!! i can't wait need to hear your news

Shelly - so sorry to hear your in pain, hope it subsides soon. are you taking anything for it?? I was told i could have paracetemol. I was in a lot of pain with my 2nd one. curld up in a ball a lot. I agree with Hellkat, baths always ease it off for me, although i'm sure i have read somewhere that you shouldn't use buble bath as it can cause infections when you are miscarrying, could be rubbish though. anyone else heard that?>

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shelly24 · 14/09/2005 19:20

Won't be on tonight girls,am having really bad cramps and its got very heavy all of a sudden,have been in floods of tears...this is so scarey!!!
speak tomorrow maybe,nite.x

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 14/09/2005 19:06

Sunday.Its a date Maddyd and Hellkat (if you hold out!!)

OOOoooo nervous or what.

Welcome Wills.I had first at 36 and now I am 38 hoping for a third.

HellKat · 14/09/2005 17:38

Shelly- Look after yourself hun! Grab a bath, curl up with blankets and take care. {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}

shelly24 · 14/09/2005 17:37

Well girls,am off for a nap,pain getting abit much for me at the mo,be back sometime this evening.xthanx for chatting.x

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