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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 15:58

nicmum2boys - i'm ok thanks, had a tough day yesterday but feel a little better today. sounds liek you ahve your hands full
hope you're alright

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Coathanger · 16/09/2005 15:38

Hi ya Strike!! Blimey! I thought i took a long time to write posts

Coathanger · 16/09/2005 15:37

Oh, and meant to say, I'm ever hopeful and the "stuff" your seeing might be old blood or bedding in. really got everything crossed!!

Coathanger · 16/09/2005 15:35

Hi nicmum!!

I think seeig a councellir is a good thing, it was just bad luck that I got a bad one. I didn't go again. Was due to see her last Friday but phoned and cancelled, really wanted to tell her I thought she was a bag but thought better of it and just told her I didn;t think it would help me very much. Thinking of seeing my HV instead. She is fabby and has got me through some very hard times in the past. But deffo try it - what can you lose?? I'm like you though, I bottle everything up. Just not able to talk about things at home, thats why I bore you lot!! All this business of want ing another baby is driving me mad - almost on the brink of saying "I can't be bothered. Just have the bloody snip!!" because I don't think I can deal withthis feeling anymore. Sorry, talking too much...

As I was saying Nicmum, I think it is a normal feeloing to think you are losing it a bit. I feel like i'm losing it a lot!! Just let it all out here if you wish, or CAT me, but if you fancy a bit of councelling, speak to your GP. They should be able to help.

strike1 · 16/09/2005 15:29

Hello all, Not been on for a few days as I've got mega busy! Just started using my persona thingy, which is exciting, as I really hope it'll help me get to grips with my cycle and tackle this ttc thing with technology! Here's hoping it helps anyway. Hope you're all well. I've taken so long to write this message (I started at lunch time) that all sorts could of happened by the time I send it.

nicmum2boys · 16/09/2005 15:03

Helloooooo! How's everyone doing? Been v busy these last few days as I've been looking after my best friend's little girl in the afternoons, will be doing it next week too, and I'm shattered. House is a tip. Was planning a clear up today, but think af has arrived so I'm having a paddy instead . Typically I went out this morning and got some tests as I felt sooooo due for the last 3 days, and absolutely no sign, but have had some brownish discharge (yuk, sorry tmi) at lunch time so methinks she is stalking. By the way, tescos have £3.45 off clearblue tests, £7.99 for 2, and interestingly they now say on the pack you can use them up to 4 days before your period. Have stashed mine in the drawer for next month now .

How are you diddle? Was thinking about you yesterday. It's hard getting through, trying not to think of what might have been (((((hugs)))))

How are you feeling coathanger? I meant to ask, did anything ever come of your counselling? I know you saw a completely awful woman, but wondered if you ever followed it up? I'm asking cos I'm kind of to-ing and fro-ing about wether to go for some myself. Just can't seem to talk things through with DH, and feel I'm losing it a bit at times, think I'm trying to keep hold of too much "stuff" iykwim.

HK hope af isn't on her way for you xx.

Hi wills, welcome .

Maddyd fingers crossed for you, happy birthday to ds2!

Hope everyone else is ok, must dash, got to get ds2 up so I can collect ds1 from school..........what a week, I haven't stopped....thank god it's wine and pizza night tonight!

Coathanger · 16/09/2005 13:57

Oooooooo!!! Spooky Dids!! Perhaps I have taken over your PC....

Have always said hat since the Crunchie ads years ago. Bit silly I know, but I like it

Quiet on here today...

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 13:42

coathanger - you ahve really spooked me. I'm signed into msn messenger and my message that is alwasy displayed on there at the top says thank crunchie its friday!!! how spooky

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Coathanger · 16/09/2005 13:26

Ahh, thats better sorted him out! He's sat on sofa now watching Aunty Mable and pippin!

No idea what it was all about [confused emoticon]

Thank crunchie its friday. This week has been 'orrible. Mind you DH working overtime tonight so my weekend doesn't start til tomorrow afternoon Got nothing planned - how about you lot?

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 12:47

CH - not a right lot really, he'll calm down and might tell you then

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Coathanger · 16/09/2005 12:40

Sorry Diddle, went off shopping!!

Arrggghhh! DS3 is having a temper tantrum and I can't figure out what its over!!! He can talk a bit but is refusing to talk to me right now. Hey-ho, what can ya do??!!??

Wills · 16/09/2005 12:18

HK, know how you feel. Have back ache too and constant feeling of about to start. Have been to the toilet 7 times this morning already.!

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 11:56

you alright??? CH

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 11:46

coathanger, must make a note not to visit you in winter then, only summer
still dry here so far, although the clouds are covering the sun, hope my washing is drying well. better check it

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Coathanger · 16/09/2005 10:12

no sun here its p**sing down I've got loads of washing to dry, might have to go to MIL's to use her tumble dryer. Ours broke at beginning of summer so didn't bother replacing it and used the line. but now i need one and the shed that it will be kept in isn't ready yet, so until then its washing draped on anything that stands still long enough ( including DH, kids, occasional visitors...)

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 09:44

Morning coathanger, hellkat and maddyd.

hellkat - could be ph symptoms, don't let your hopes drop just yet.

maddyd - happy birthday to your DS, what you got planned?

coathanger - hello, i'm ok thanks, suns shining put me in a good modd, plus i'm mega organised and have been to the launderette alreayd and one 3 loads of washing, its now on the line drying

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Coathanger · 16/09/2005 08:26

HK - backache doesn't necessarily mean AF is on her way. Could be early PG symptoms. Still hoping for you

Maddy - Happy Birthday to your DS!! Hope you all have fun today.

I can't even contemplate what those mothers must be going through. Why do these things have to happen? Really gets me thinking.

HellKat · 16/09/2005 08:24

Might be back later on, feeling crappy. I really don't want af to be on her way, thought it was definitely my turn.

maddyd · 16/09/2005 08:14

Oh god just remembered it my DS's second birthday today. Must get organised

maddyd · 16/09/2005 08:13

Morning Diddle. How are you??? I hope Shelly is ok too, god i so feel for her, it really made me cry.

Two boys were killed a few days ago just up the road from us and it had made me feel like shit. Everytime i see it on the news i just cry. Its so terible to have your children taken away so voilently. Its especially awfull for one boys mother as she moved into this area as it is classed as a safe area because she lost her other boy previoulsy two years ago. I just cant understand it, if there is a god then theres just no reasoning .

And on top of my crying episodes ive had a niggling headache for 3 days and feeel so nauseous. I dont want to get excited but my immediate thought is pg symtoms.

HellKat · 16/09/2005 08:13

Morning all.
Got raging backache so looks like wonderful af (the cow) is on her way. Well looks like I'll be putting off ttc for a while as I said I'd give it until Sept and if nothing then it means endo's got worse and I probably won't be able to conceive until it's sorted. So different from the last two pg's where we conceived after 8 weeks the first time and 6 weeks the second. Oh well.
How's everyone today? Gorgeous here, cold but sunny.

Coathanger · 16/09/2005 08:09

Morning Dids! Hows you today?

And morning all! How are you all today?

Who's got plans today??

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Diddle · 16/09/2005 07:50

I knew it, good morning diddle, where are you all?

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 22:45

GOOD NIGHT DIDDLE good night everyone
bet im the first on here tomorrow.
i'm sure you're all taking time off mumsnet. not enough chatting and too much work being done

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Diddle · 15/09/2005 20:12

no goss here CH, someone sent me a lovely pic of Jordan in her teacosy though

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