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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

OP posts:
HellKat · 18/09/2005 09:54

Ch- Thanks hun! I think you should spend the day doing naff all apart from eating loads of choc, snuggling under a duvet, watching tv. Love doing that when I'm feeling poorly!

Coathanger · 18/09/2005 09:39

Morning!

Well, I'm still a-sniffin' and a-sneezin' but not feeling too bad.

CP - Don't be too put out by the bfn. You still have 5 days til your AF is due. Don't test again til friday (as long as the old cow doesn't show!). I'm still feeling very positive for you And you will be pregnant again, I'm sure. Don't give up hope, hun. You never know whats just aroung the corner. keep smiling sweetie! {{{{HUGS}}}}

HK - Hunney, I'm so sorry AF has raised her ugly head. I felt so positive too. But the same goes for you - never give up hope. {{{{HUGS}}}}

Maddy - Hmmm, feeling faint, eh?? What could that mean??? Hmmm... When are you due to test Maddy?

HellKat · 18/09/2005 09:38

Cp- there is still hope hun! Look at all the famous women that don't decide to start their families until they hit forty!
I did say that if I came on this month I'd go and get endo treated, but don't think i can put off ttc for a year. Might leave it and see what next month brings.

maddyd · 18/09/2005 09:02

Your feeling negative because you have tested too early. Its not too late for you because if it is then its too late for me aswell. We are very lucky to have children but we are meant to have more. Cheer up choccy peanut, its not over yet I have exactly the same woories as you, but we have to let nature decide. Deciding not to try will be a hard decision.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 18/09/2005 07:57

Morning early risers.I know I have tested early,AF not due till Friday but just dont think I am ever going to get pregnant again.

Sometimes I wonder if I am being told something.My dad upset me the other day as just out of the blue he told me there had been an article in the paper about the risks of having babies when your an 'older mother' and later that day I saw a woman a bit older than me with a five year old with downs.My dd is such a lovely child I wonder if I should just leave it as to be honest its making me v depressed.

Sorry for a moan (and so early to)

maddyd · 18/09/2005 07:34

Sorry Hellkat, what a bummer. You have such a nightmare with your af's. I bled constantly after my ds for near on 9 months so i sympathise with you, honestsly i do. ((((( big hugs for you )))))

Chocolate peanuts still in the frame for a bfp too though.

HellKat · 18/09/2005 07:24

Maddy- it's up to you now hun!

HellKat · 18/09/2005 07:24

I won't be testing anymore this month. Af is here with a vengeance! . Knew it would be though so not as gutted as i was on Thursday. Still a b*tch though.

HellKat · 18/09/2005 07:22

This is a lie in for me lol!
One more coffee, then a smoothie and I'll be raring to go!

maddyd · 18/09/2005 06:48

Morning Hellkat. Blomey your up early, i thoight id be first on. Woke up and nearly fainted so came down for a sugar fix in my tea.

Cp dont give up hope yet, its too early. Those e bay tests are crap, honestly.

HellKat · 18/09/2005 06:10

Morning all.
Ch- Awwww get well soon hun!
Cp- So sorry! {{{{{hugs}}}} I felt exactly the same on Thursday when I tested. Really fed up with up it now.
Af still not in full flow! Barely there. Just really light brown spotting. I'm not getting my hopes now because I'm still in alot of pain but if it's not here by Tuesday, I'll test with Maddy.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 17/09/2005 23:25

Maddyd

I caved in,twice.Yesterday and today.Two bfns.

Totally fed up with it all.

Coathanger · 17/09/2005 20:38

Hi folks!

Feeling poorly tonight. Got a cold coming on sniff-sniff...

Ooo, its getting very exciting - I'm praying SO hard for you both, Maddy and HK. Really hope its good news for both of you. XXXXX

I'm not going to stay on coz need an early night, sniff-sniff...

Going to dose myself up with lemsip and snuggle down under my duvet. Will log on tomorrow.

Nighty-night all! Sweet dreams xxxx

maddyd · 17/09/2005 18:45

Im really gonna try to hold out till Tue as that is 4 days before af due!!!

HellKat · 17/09/2005 17:37

Yep! Are you testing tomorrow?
Bless dp. He's told me not to get my hopes built up because he does'nt want me to be disappointed!

maddyd · 17/09/2005 17:33

oooh Exciting. Lots of testing at similar times xxxx

HellKat · 17/09/2005 17:19

Ok starting to get hopes up.
Was reading up on implantation bleeding and it sounds like it!!! Think I'll get 2 more tests tomorrow and do one then and another end of the week. That is if it does'nt turn out to be af!

HellKat · 17/09/2005 16:50

Thursday. Day before I was due.

maddyd · 17/09/2005 16:49

Never expericed implantation bleed. But if its stopped and no fresh red blood then theres a good chance i supose. When did you last test Hellkat????

HellKat · 17/09/2005 16:24

Yum!! Just finished off fresh loaf from Morrison's!! I lurveeeee fresh bread.
It's called Tiger bread. Not sure why though as it did'nt roar or growl when I cut it.

HellKat · 17/09/2005 16:21

Well done CH!
I went back to bed for a bit after getting up at 3.45 this morning! Just cut dp's hair now feeding ds2.
Once a week (normally Fridays) I have my blitz. Feels great!
Mad- Yep hun I am! But have'nt had an ironing board for an year!!! So now I get to stare at glorious cowprint!! Oh god i need a life.
Well virtually stopped bleeding so should I dare to hope it's an implantation bleed? Anyone have any experience of these? I should be in full flow by now and nothing apart from (tmi) light brown d/charge. So weird. If anyone can shed any light on this, would be most grateful!

Coathanger · 17/09/2005 16:03

Where is everyone??????

Coathanger · 17/09/2005 12:19

Phew-wee!! I've been a busy bee this morning! Scrubbed the kitchen from top to bottom, done 4 lots of washing and hung it out, completely blitzed dining room (wouldn't tackle living room with kids playing in there!), even taken the glass light shades off in the dining room light and washed them. Oh, and entertained kids at the same time. Oh, washed up, hoovered, dusted...

Wow! I've impressed myself. Think this afternoon is mine to relax!

maddyd · 17/09/2005 10:27

Sad very sad HK.

HellKat · 17/09/2005 09:47

Wahooo happy now! Got my ironing board!! That's my Saturday night planned!

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