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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 10:00

oops spelling is naff, i mean now take it easy

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 09:58

congrats wills thats great news, fantastic, not take it easy and look after yourself. stay here as long as you want to. we understand your fears and can help you through if you need us.

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Coathanger · 19/09/2005 09:19

Awww thanks Wills. I just know you are all gonna fall PG very soon and thats fabberoonie, but I don't want to be on my own [wail] - we will need a "PG after MC, oh, and coathanger too" thread soon!!

( Diddle)

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:17

Don't feel quite ready to leave this thread yet.... so CH you're not going to be on your own yet.... Your reactions are too wonderful.

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 09:16

If I had been face to face with you when you told me that news, I would have grabed you and sqeezed you so tight!! Hence the BIG reation

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:15

Oh - love it! Haven't told dh yet. Am pausing about telling him although for the last few days he's been stroking my tummy because we both know and understand these symptoms.

HellKat · 19/09/2005 09:15

Congrats Wills!!!
Bfp= big fat positive!

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 09:14

BIG FAT POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:11

Just one thing though. What does BFP mean. Now BFG I know but BFP I'm not sure about.

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:08

Oh CH what a wonderful reaction. I've now got tears in my eyes. Forgot to say that sympton - that absolutely anything can make me cry

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:08

I'm going to start getting paranoid. Everytime I manage to get 5 mins to come on no one else is around!

Maddy - Sore boobies can happen for other reasons but it would have been consistent. For instance I couldn't use that as a reason for thinking I was as I have had very sore boobs that get incredibly sore at the end of the month since I gave up breastfeeding dd2 (about 14 months ago!!!). My GP told me that my system was still confused as to whether there was a baby around and told me to eat tonnes and tonnes of primrose oil. Unfortunately I didn't cos I wanted to fall instead and you're not supposed to have epm when pregnant (well thats what it says on the back). So yes there are other reasons for sore boobs but unlikely to be coincidence at this point in time iyswim. Besides mine have gone to the next level up - the level where when you turn over in bed it wakes you up. Still it reminds me that I'm pregnant still so I don't mind.

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 09:06

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh! WILLS!!!! Are you telling us you have a BFP???!!!!!

WOW-WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

Yiper-dee-do-dah yipper-dee-day!!!!!!!!!

SOOOOOOOO PLEASED FOR YOU!!

(sorry don't mean to shout but made up for you!!)

BIG {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

Wills · 19/09/2005 09:00

Wills is my dh's nickname for me before we got married. Its a shortened version of my maiden name. And no.... I have no will power but cleverly had no tests in the house either.

Wills · 19/09/2005 08:59

Ummmmm two little pink spots! Both in heaven and frightened. Scared to breath incase something goes wrong again. Am at work (had to buy test). 2nd spot wasn't really really strong so am now nervous that this might signify something not being right. Suspect I'm just determined to worry.

maddyd · 19/09/2005 08:53

I have enourmous will power because i have had a false posotive before from those very early tests. You can get a pos but the egg doesnt implant so you have a missed mc that you dont really know about. Also evaporation lines on those chaeper tests are a killer.

Im doing a proper test so theres no messing and yes deep down i feel like i am. Theres no mistaking these symptoms. The only thing is im getting them alot earlier than usual. xxx So could be a bug, but does a bug give you sore boobies.

Off to pick up my work, and a test, catch you all soon. xx

HellKat · 19/09/2005 08:51

Thanks Ch hunny! Much needed! {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} back at ya! How's the cold now?xc

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 08:49

HK - just want to give you a big warm cuddly {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

HellKat · 19/09/2005 08:30

Diddle,Ch- Doing so-so here. Chucking myself into huge "Monica" routines to keep busy. Even drew up my very own colour coded rota! Fed up with the whole business. My gut feeling is that endo has got very bad, thus damaging fertility but I'll wait and see. Was sooooo sure I'd cracked it last month. Bloody dodgy endo ridden parts!

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 08:25

MORNING ch, oops me shouting too, sorry. must go to school, back soon

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Coathanger · 19/09/2005 08:19

HK - how are you hun?

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 08:17

Morning all!! How are you all today??

Maddy - glad you got the dress. Your assets are large like mine - I'm 5ft1in, size 10-12 but have got 34DD boobs!! A little top heavy !
Lets hope you have to have your dress taken out! You have the most amazing willpower for not testing sooner than you are. Is it because deep down you know you are and don't really need to have it confirmee, iyswim?

Diddle - did it all go to plan last night ? You find that don't you, you expect to feel jealous and maybe a little resentful when you see others with a baby, but when it comes to seeing them you just feel happy for them. Your time will deffo come

HC - thank you hun. was worried I might have upset you I really wouldn't want to do that to any of you...

CP - DO NOT TEST UNTIL AF DUE!!!! Sorry don't mean to shout at you but I hate the idea of you being upset unnecessarily. Can't bare any of you being disappointed

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 08:15

Morning Hellkat - How dare your pc play up, doesn't it know how important it is for you to be on mumsnet so early. How you doing???

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 08:09

Thanks HC - i felt very brave too, tried not to think about it, was very good as well, i drove so dh could have a drink so didn't even get chance to drown my sorrows. What made it harder was that there were 2 toddlers there, bopping away to the disco looking very cute and loveable, we were so jealous, even DH commented.

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HellKat · 19/09/2005 08:08

Maddy- Ner ner ner ner ner. I had an excuse. Poxy comp buggering about this a.m! Sounds very hopeful!!! I'll be on here early in the morning to check!
Diddle- Sorry it was a difficult trip but well done, you held it together. We'll all be there for you next month, don't you worry!
Hc,cp- Here's to loads of of luck tomorrow!!!
Ch- Hunny you won't be on your own. You'll be pg before me the rate I'm going. I'm giving it until christmas. If I'm not pg by then, I'll see if i can get the endo treated.

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 08:00

Morning all - Thanks ladies, good to know you'll catch me when i fall

Maddyd - Yes they should be able to let your dres out if there's enough spare fabric from when they put it together. Lets hope that you DO need it letting out, that would be great.

Wills - thats terrible, i would have been beside myself if someone had done that, i know they didn't know about it, but it would ahve upset me. No nobody mentioned anything at the party, i think they have all forgotten it even happened, nobody talks about it anymore, even the people who aren't afraid to.

We also went to see a friend who had her baby 7 motnhs ago, last tiem we saw them i was just pregnant the 2nd time and their baby was a few days old, she has grown loads, and despite the fact that I want a baby sooo much i couldn't be jealous or sad at their house. All i felt was joy for them, they are so lucky, they have a beautiful little girl.

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