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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Mojomummy · 25/09/2005 20:42

Hi ladies, haven't been on this post for a while....found a lump on my boob the other week & so felt a bit too emotional to post on here (all seems to be ok, hopefully just a cyst) Being keeping up on the others though

Well, have had more moods the last few days, week before seemed to spend every other day sobbing, last week, managed to contain, now just an old bag . Will find out if AF arrives next week, or if I am pregnant - fingers crossed.

Coathanger · 25/09/2005 20:20

Whoops, clicked post too soon...

Diddle - I'm sure if this is your month it will happen!! I have faith How are you feeling now?

Maddy - glad you are listening to your body and getting plenty of rest. Sleep is good

Coathanger · 25/09/2005 20:18

Evenin' awll!!

How is everyone??

CP - If that old meany AF comes anywhere near you I shall personally knock her from here to next wednesday!!!! Fingers crossed for you, hun!

HK - glad to hear you are feeling a little better. Do you think you DP could pop round here with some flapjack for me And another poker lady - Ooo, I love it!! Don't play on internet, just with family and friends. We try to have a poker evening once a week. I played in a ladies night at a local casino and I came 2nd out of 24!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Diddle · 25/09/2005 20:10

hello ladies - hope af stays away for you CP, fingers crossed, me hopes have been lowered fro October being my lucky month, have not bd since last tuesday, didn't really want to go that many days without bd, but maybe it will still have worked

maddyd - hope you're doing ok

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maddyd · 25/09/2005 19:23

Evening CP How late are you now?

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 25/09/2005 19:21

I have had a headache for days,but still no AF.Just know I am not but if still in same boat this time next week will test.

I had a fluey type bug last week.Could not get warm and felt rough.Lasted 48 hours and feeling ok now but v v tired.

x

maddyd · 25/09/2005 17:47

or even lurgies

maddyd · 25/09/2005 17:45

Hiya Everyone, came to see how you all are but youve all got lugys so think ill jsut run out again
Spent the day on the sofa yesterday with the worst headache and then this morning i had a nose bleed. I always get headaches when pregnant but this one really knocked me out. Slept for two hours in the afternoon too.

Anyone due to test soon???

HellKat · 25/09/2005 17:43

Ch- Sounds great!! I play online poker (for free 'cos I'm a cheapskate lol). Glad you're feeling a bit better.
Diddle- Glad you're improving too!
Feeling bit better here just that yucky pounding head! Feels like a god awful hangover without the alcohol consumption the night before!
I went back to bed for 4 hrs earlier!!!!! Did'nt want to get up neither. Dp (the darling) made me dinner and made flapjacks for me to munch on!
At I know by tomorrow I should be better (always do by the third day).
Looking forward to a long soak soon mmmmmm.

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Diddle · 25/09/2005 15:07

coathanger - sorry to hear you feel so rough, take it easy.

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Coathanger · 25/09/2005 12:40

Morning all!

Well, I feel lousy this morning! Not hungover just a combination of late night, sorethroat and snots, and well, yes, a little bit too much vino - but not loads Had a good evening - played poker at friends house. I am, I admit it, a bit of a poker fiend!! I haven't laughed like I did last night for a very long time. I think it did me the world of good!

Diddle - glad to hear your cold is a little better. Your course sounds very technical - brave you!! XX

HK - aww babe! I hate colds too. Worse thing in the world. I hope it starts to get better soon for you XX

Hi everyone else. Hope you have a nice day. XX

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Diddle · 25/09/2005 11:57

morning hellkat - oh dear hope you're not too poorly. my cold is a little better today, but my head is still pounding.
Hope everyone has a good day

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HellKat · 25/09/2005 06:56

Sniff sniff, shiver shiver!
Yuck I hate colds!!!
Carly- Welcome, so sorry to hear of your mc.
Hc- Awwww hunny!! Typical. She left me yesterday morning. Hmmm wonder if this means if I get pg you will too as our cycles are too similar?
Diddle- Sounds fab!!! It would be great to arrange something. Maybe a whole TTC thread meet up after crimbo? Somewhere slap in the middle so that everyone travels equal distance. (Can hear the cogs in my head working overtime lol).
Ch- Hope you got me some Lidl choc hun! I still did'nt get any yet. Must get some this week!

HumphreysCorner · 24/09/2005 21:47

Only at weekends bubble.

Night all
xx

Bloody cold and bloody AF!!!!!!!!!!

bubble99 · 24/09/2005 19:59

I must post earlier in the day, as it seems to be quiet here in the evening.

bubble99 · 24/09/2005 19:58

Evening all. I've missed you all, I think.

A night out, CH?

Diddle (love that name!) DH doing DIY?

HC. Bloomin' AF. The cow. I'm going to test on Thursday of next week, but I'm sure she'll turn up tomorrow anyway.

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Diddle · 24/09/2005 18:36

Coathanger, - can't believe i have missed you again. I'm doing "Working with children in Early Years" which is a module towards my Foundation Degree in Early Years.
DH doing DIY, i'm staying out of the way, the safets place for me.

HC - bloody AF, how dare she!!!

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Coathanger · 24/09/2005 17:47

Afternoon all!

Off out tonight so just a quick message to wish you all a pleasant evening

Diddle- make sure you get lots of rest. (that goes for you too HC!) What are you doing at uni ?

Well, shall speak to you all tomorrow probably!

Nighty-night! xxxx

HumphreysCorner · 24/09/2005 17:42

AF in full flow-how considerate of her to show up on time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xx

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Diddle · 24/09/2005 14:32

bubble - Yes please to bermuda, would love to come. just need to pack my bikini, towel and sun cream and i'll be ready, see you there for cocktails on the bech in an hour

carly - no need to thank us, you'll do the same one day, it feels good to be part of this group, and to be able to help someone through something so traumatic, knowing that you know what you're talking about.

phew got a bit carried away there.

Coathanger - glad you enjoyed shopping. my nose is now "fizzing" hate it when it does that, just makes your eyes water. Need a rest, but must plough on with my assignment. thanks for my email made me grin, thank you

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Coathanger · 24/09/2005 14:12

Well, I'm back form my shopping trip. Went to Lidl - mmmmmm, chocolate!

Carly82 - I'm so sorry, Hun. Heres hoping for a good outcome now you are TTC again. Lots of {{{{HUGS}}}} xx

Diddle - Aww babe, take it easy and relax. Get lots of sleep and drink lots of brandy (!) - that should sort it!

HC - and doctor Hanger is on your case too - I prescrible no more housework!! You must have lots of brandy too!

Bubble - Mmmmm, Bermuda sounds fab. Whats it like this time of year??

carly82 · 24/09/2005 14:04

just wanted to say a massive thanks to you all it great to know there are people out there who really understand.

diddle between my first m/c and getting pg there was just under four months as i didnt have a proper cycle for three months then i got pregnant on month four i m/c at eleven weeks

i wouls swap you all for a day of shopping i am in the process of selling my house so i am having a day of decorating (my dp thinks that im looking at interior design websites ha ha!)

bubble99 · 24/09/2005 13:40

Afternoon all.

carly82. I'm so sorry to hear about the MC. But I'm glad you're feeling able to post here about it.

Well, it sounds as though all of us are having a similar weekend. Shopping, cleaning etc.

I think we should have a mini mnet meet-up this weekend in....hmmm, let me think....Bermuda?

Sod the overdraft.

HumphreysCorner · 24/09/2005 13:12

Just hung washing out and now am in a hot/cold sweat so must go and lie down.

carly82-sorry to see you back on here so soon. Big hugs to you ((XX))

xx

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Diddle · 24/09/2005 12:36

Please excuse my terrible spelling, I ahve just read back my last post

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