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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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Diddle · 20/09/2005 07:15

Morning all - Hope you're all ok today.

Humphreyscorner - Don't give up hope just ye, if you're not du on until saturday then of course there is still hope. Everyone is different. When gto my bfp's i tested before i wad ue and got a bfn then tested the day i was and got a bfp both times, so you may still get that positive.

need coffee, back in a min!

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HumphreysCorner · 19/09/2005 22:02

Hecky thump-I really am going mad talking to myself. Def off to bed now.

Sweet dreams
xx

HumphreysCorner · 19/09/2005 21:53

Mmmmmmmmmmm-just had some chocolate peanuts. Feel better now-diet starts tomorrow-lol!

HumphreysCorner · 19/09/2005 20:28

Oops-forgot to welcome babybloos-sorry to hear about you MC hun. We are here to support you. ((xx))

HumphreysCorner · 19/09/2005 20:26

MEGA CONGRATULATIONS maddyd & wills ((((((XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX)))))) Soooooooooooo pleased for you both!

Definite BFN this morning for me Due Saturday so bearing in mind maddyd & wills got a line this early I don't think it's going to happen this month-have no symptoms either. Oh well, back to the drawing board!

Anyway, DH is hijacking the computer for Ebay-he has allowed me 5 mins only to check up on 'my ladies' (as I call you all) so be back tomorrow.

Hugs to all (((xxx)))

Night night
xxx

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/09/2005 19:17

Sorry to hear about your loss Babybloos.

Welcome to our friendly thread

xxx

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:59

maddyd - of course they will remember you, you narna, how could they forget.

signing off soon ladies, don't chat too much i hate ctaching up going to pick my little doggy up from my moms, so won't be on until tomorrow

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Coathanger · 19/09/2005 17:54

Diddle's link to the stats thread has promted me to update my stats. New name and situation and all that...

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 17:49

Welcome Babybloos! I'm sorry about your loss {{{{{HUGS}}}}}. I hope you get some comfort and support from us. I've said this sooo many times, but these ladies on this thread are great and will get you through. They make you laugh, weep, rant, go bananas....

I had a MC in August too, and it was my first. Already have 3 DS's.

Lets hope this thread is as lucky for you as it has been for Maddy and Wills today. I can tell this one is going to be a really lucky one for all of you xx

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:42

No probs! Bet it's still surreal atm!

maddyd · 19/09/2005 17:41

I may wait till im a few more weeks, im still wary

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:40

Maddy- Sure they would hun! They remember all of us! Just make sure you type Cp3 then they definitely will.

strike1 · 19/09/2005 17:39

Welcome Babyloos. Sorry to hear about your m/c. I know how strong the desire to get pg again is, and it's frustrating and hurtful that people expect you to "pull your socks up", that whole stiff upper lip thing. If one more person had told me how "common m/c is" after it happened, then moved on to talk about what new shoes they'd just bought I would have hit someone! Luckly I found this lot and could finally let out all the painful feelings without being treated like a self indulgent drama queen!

Well I'm right at the beginning of my cycle at the mo, cd 7 and I'm trying out my new Persona machine. I am determined to bd on every red day and hopefully I might get a result this month!

maddyd · 19/09/2005 17:38

No they prob wont remenber me

Welcome babybloos

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:30

Maddy- Had a thought. Have you posted on the Due in Nov thread to let them know?

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:26

Welcome Baby.
maddy- Your dr sounds fab!! Try not to fret if a hb is'nt picked up then. My mw said sometimes they can't be heard until 10+ weeks. Lol at you poisoning kiddies! My ds2 screams when the highchair comes out (even though he loves his food).

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:07

where have you all gone??????

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:06

Message from Lottielou - she says welcome babybloos, and sorryf or your loss.
plus she is so busy she hasn't got time to log on so says night night to you all she finishes work soon and will speak to you tomorrow.

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 16:59

Babybloos - is this your first miscarriage? we have a stats thread that you can add your details to so that we all know a bit about you and you can see a bit about us all. there is a link below:

our stats thread

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 16:47

Welcome Babybloos - so sorry to hear about your loss, don't worry this isn't a pg thread, just had a couple of people get there positives today btu there are still plenty of us still trying. We are al at various stages, some of us temp, some check cervical mucus (sorry gross) and others use ovulation predicter kits. I do none of the above and i'm going au naturel.
I know that you will fidn great suppor ton this thread, we are a wonderful bunch and eveyrone has been a great support, you ahve definityl come to the right place. sory spelling is rough thsi time of the day, actually all the time.
We will get you through this and find your positive result.

((((((big supportive hugs))))))))

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babybloos · 19/09/2005 16:32

hi, i have been bumped on to this thread but seems I am too l8 as is turning into a pregnancy thread which is such gr8 news, I hope it can bring me some luck too!! i mc in aug and desp want to be pg again, have 10mth dd but since mc with twins at 8wks can't imagine life without another bb. just got af today and i feel i can finally start to plan for next bb. I don't know anything about temp things so will try all the other advice I have read and just go for it, perhaps more so at the predicted times. dh a wee bit hesitant thinking that my state of mind was not totally balanced but he forgets it never really is, I put this down to being a woman!! I would love to have the opp to chat to some of you as have no one that knows or has gone through it and i have the whole stiff upper lip thing going on at the mo which is wearing me down!! Congratulations to everyone who has a + test, all the luck in the world to you and keep us posted!!

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 16:27

Well, you make sure you get lie down as soon as you can. xxx

maddyd · 19/09/2005 16:25

I cant lay down ive got the kiddies tea to do but once ive forced them to eat i can then relax. I mean anyone would think i was trying to poisen them.

Dp will be home early to pamper me and finish the tea hopefully.

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 16:07

MaddyD - I hope you don't read this untiol much later today after a nice long lay down but just wanted to say I'm glad Doctor was good to you and that he understood. Hope you enjoyed your lay down XXX

maddyd · 19/09/2005 16:05

He cant put me down for a 7 week as only miscarried once. If i have any bleeding he obviuosly will. But im happy with what hes doing. If he finds a heartbeat at 9 weeks ill be well surprised.

I may still look into a private scan, but as long as i feel ill then i know everything is ok!!!

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