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We're taking the train...some now boarding, some delays, some still standing on the platform! TTC 'Waiters' IIT!

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bebejones · 20/09/2010 07:59

Old thread here

Welcome aboard, make yourselves comfy I have a feeling it's going to be a bumpy ride! Wink

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JustShaggingForNow · 20/09/2010 09:35

It is an interview with a man..... maybe it will go in my favour!! ;)

It was so hard leaving the house last night. Especially to come back into work feeling bloody awful. Not seen my arse of a boss yet but will make sure I cought my germs all over him when I do Grin!!! I really really hope that I get this job as the thought of spending much longer here is horrible!

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bebejones · 20/09/2010 09:14

JS - I'll be with you manning the sex chat line I've got the husky voice going on as well! I'll have a long island ice tea please :o

AC - Do feel like we all need to come round and give your DH a bit of a shake! If it was me I'd be inclined not to take it even if it is really dishonest!

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jbells · 20/09/2010 09:12

haha JS maybe it will be a man interviewing u and he will take a shine to your sexy voice and immediantly want to offer u the job :)

JustShaggingForNow · 20/09/2010 09:05

Oh AC so sorry to hear that your DH is being such a pain.

I am kind of with bebe though. Tell him you have taken it and then don't bother. After all, if it turns out that you are PG then you are in that "unlucky" 5% and it is evidently meant to be that you are PG. I know it's dishonest but sometimes......... Am very cross with your DH - want to come around and throw rotten tomatoes at him for being such a pain to you!!!Grin

Thanks for starting the new thread Bebe - looking forward to our train journey together. I am settling myself onto a bar stool listening to the cute pianist playing old classics and sipping on my dirty martini.... Heaven! Am hoping this gin will kill my cold and return my voice before the interview tomorrow morning as at the moment I sounds a though I am interviewing for a job manning a sex chat line!!! Hmm

jbells · 20/09/2010 09:05

x post bebe, i know its like when men dont want a baby but leave kit all down to the woman to prevent one, eerm if your that adamant theres things u cud do to prevent it to

jbells · 20/09/2010 09:02

oh dear not a good situation, hope your ok, i 2nd bebe on i thought cud u not just tell him u took it, it is wot went thru my mind, its a tough situation to be in :(

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bebejones · 20/09/2010 09:00

AC you didn't 'force' him, he didn't have to did he, if he really didn't want to use a condom he would have stopped!

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bebejones · 20/09/2010 08:57

Ridiculous amount of money IMO! Can't believe he is being so OTT about it! Shock No contraception is 100% effective FFS. Remember on Cherry has a baby she had a coil & got PG! One of my friends' mum had been sterilised & then got PG with my friend! Hmm So even that isn't foolproof!

must been really horrid for you when you have been working so hard with your charting & were progressing with your DH!

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AmandaCooper · 20/09/2010 08:57

Also this is all my own fault. DH really wanted to use a condom but I kind of forced him not to. I do feel pretty bad about that. Going back on the pill is probably the solution. Sad

DH says we're not having a baby till we move out of the flat anyway.

AmandaCooper · 20/09/2010 08:51

We've been through it all in great detail, I've explained it as well as I can but DH is adamant. And when I went to fill in the online Levonelle questionnaire, he went (turning pale) "oh my god it says it's only 95% effective"! Speaks volumes for how far off ttc we are.

It cost me £27.50 as well!

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bebejones · 20/09/2010 08:35

Could you show your DH the charts and maybe explain to him how it works & that you can't be PG? Or... & this might be really controversial....could you not just tell him you took it?! Blush

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AmandaCooper · 20/09/2010 08:19

Morning all! Yes the mad thing is I know I can't be pg cause I know when I ovulated and I've had four temps above the cover line. Part of me is mad because taking the morning after pill is going to stuff up my charts - after all the effort I've gone to, but the other part of me is thinking what's the point, I may as well just go back on the pill and forget the lot!

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