We're taking the train...some now boarding, some delays, some still standing on the platform! TTC 'Waiters' IIT!

bebe really sorry to read your post

what a nightmare

and hugs to amummy and jingle bells too

lets hope next week is a more positive week

No news here, just thought id check in and say high.... have had a buys week at school with parents evening and not 1 but 2 staff meetings after school tonight, so really tired but pleased i have a weekend on its way!

Bebe, that really sucks :( I hope they get it sorted out soon for you.

I'm going back to bed shortly, on a night shift tonight and tomorrow night, but just been out for a bike ride of just over 20 miles :) Whoop, it was goooooooood :o Got home made some flapjack, yuuuuummy

Oh Bebe that's atrocious! Your poor DH, that's all he needs.
Sorry you're feeling rubbish too amummy and jbells.

Everybody's really down in the dumps on this train, do you think we are going through a tunnel?!

What would help? Shall I organise some light entertainment? George and Jake clearly aren't pulling their weight. Maybe I could get the all-women band from Some Like It Hot to come and do us a few 1940s numbers and we could all swig whisky out of bottles tucked into our stockings? We could make it into our own, alternative Team Building day....

Oh my god Bebe what a nightmare for you. Just what you and DH need! I hope your solicitor gets a proper resolution for you, that's just completely unacceptable.

What a shame your DH can't join you on holiday as well. Might he get some time off later in the year?

Sending you hugs x

amummy- sorry your feeling down today :( glad your DH is being so supportive, maybe he cud give my DP some tips, i hope the pains go soon, try a nice warm hot watter bottle and hot chocolate see if that helps :)

Sorry yes meant menstrual Cycle. No advice really although makes me see that others are in similar situation.
Feeling very miserable today. Pains in stomach because of period and due to other things to feel horrid. dh being lovely as always but jst feel very miserable.
Why wait-thats good that you are "normal";

I thought that as well I was puzzling over it for ages!

I assumed menstrual cycle

jbells sorry you had a poo day yesterday, rants are good though, I did miss out on the advice part of things.

Hope everyone else is OK, not got time to check back on everything as I am about to get ready for work, but I'm still here, still waiting, still wanting!!!!

thanks for all your advice yest everyone, i am feeling a bit more rational today, i know its his job and its not as if he is partying all the time, these hormones just seem to be getting the better of me, hopefully they will calm down soon, its just so lonely in the house on my own at nite once DD is in bed (gets the violins out) lol, i have rang in sick to work today generally feeling crappy and really cant stand to sit around those intolerable people, going to see my mum so that shud make me feel better and DD is in nusery so will get a bit of rest that shud help,

sorry for the rant yest :)

Amummy- im not the best person to know about times u ovulate, conceiving etc, i hope you managed to get other advice tho, wot was the general concensus?

AC- thanks for advice it always helps to hear view points from people out the situation, i do need to remember that DP is trying to get out of debt and its been a long hard few years but by the end of necxt year there will be light at the end of the tunnel, i guess its always frustrating for both parties

As long as you ovulate and have a luteal phase that lasts at least 10 days I don't see why not.

Jbells I'm sorry you are feeling so down and DH is not around to take it out on lol. As has been suggested, treat yourself to some r&r. I am in exactly the same position as your DH, i.e. I came to the relationship with £35K debt, and it's not easy. I'm down to about £24K now, but it seems endless. Tricky to manage when DH has no debt, particularly when I want to ttc. It is rubbish from either side.

Me again-need bit of help/advice.
As you know only past 4/5months have been gettig periods since coming off injection.
Day 18 of m/c today and started bleeding after two days of cramps,back pain. Its only light and is bright red. Does this mean anything?Is there any chance of conceiving on a 18 day m/c. Feeling quite miserable because of it. Going to post on general conception bit too.

Hi JBells,
So sorry you are feeling so sad. You are bound to be feeling more emotional than normal with all the hormones swirling around in your body. Plus you are starting to think about how your life will be changed when 2d baby comes along and so that is stressing you out too.
As you know my dh has big debt too ad so is payingoff a loan. It does get frustrating as most of his money goes onto that but you say that he got into debt before he met you? So since he has been with you he is just paying that off?That is good as it means he has learnt his lesson and is doing everything he can to make things better i the long run. I have ranted and raved about dh debt but I know that he is not getting anymore into debt and is sorting it out. Its going to be a good few years yet but in the long run it will be ok.
Also, when I have to work away I go out with the people I'm working with and get a meal for free from expenses so it sounds like I am having a good time but I would do anything to be at home with my dh-it just makes it the time go quicker.
I think like the others said you need to have a nice night,relax, think of the positives and then when you feel a bit calmer explain to dh how you feel as your wellbeing is very important too.
I really hope you ar ok.
Sending a big hug
x

thanks JS WHYWAIT

i am getting myself worked up and upset now, this just isnt wot i sighed up for when he told me bout new job he sed it wud mean he was home more as he wudnt be travelling just over a hr there and back everday, we live near liverpool and his old job was by manchester, but now it seems every couple of weeks or so hes going to be staying away on business meetings etc, i just really hate being alone all day and all nite, i know it sounds stupid but if i didnt contribute as much financially as he did i prob wudnt mind so much but i still pay all the bills and all he pays is the rent, at the moment im getting paid for 20 hrs a week, id prob have a more lienient view otherwise, but at the moment DD seems to be my sole responsibilty most the time, i work 2 days and pay just as much as he does in bills, i just feel im in a bit of an unfair position, he earns a lot lot more than me but had got himself into loads of debt before i met him that consequently takes a big chunk of the money, last nite afta he finished work while i was still running round with DD, he went back to his hotel, went to the gym, used the sauna and steam room and then ordered room service , maybe im being unreasonable but i just feel hard done by at the moment, and in a very miserable mooney mood lol, i really dont think DP understand how tiring and hardwork looking afta a toddler is dont get me wrong i wudnt change looking afta her for going to work and i know im lucky i get to see her a lot more than he does but it wud be nice if he ever recognised how hard my job is

Hope everyone else is having a better day
oh and to top it off he was supose to leave work for the 3 hr journey home at 4 and still hasnt

Oh jbells! You silly saussage!!! good that it has reassured you though :)

It sounds like you are having a tough day - really sorry to hear that DP's job is upsetting you. Hopefully things will start to improve at some point but for now it's crappy that you don't get the benefits of his extra hours and time away from home.

Can you take time out for a nice bath?? I know it's silly but I find that really helps me when i am feeling a bit down.

Hugs to you
x

so i caved took another pregnancy test to reassure myself the preg line came up b4 the controll line this time and was very definate dark line so i wasted money but least i feel better and have reassured myself

im feeling a bit down stressed today, DP left for work at 6.30am yest and wont get home till afta 8 tonite, so been alone with DD for 2 days, really dont like his new job, its not benefiting us in anyway just means he is seeing a lot less of me and more importantly DD, not wot i need when im pregnant but i cant say anything as this is the reason y he didnt want to talk about TTC till afta the new year :( its just gets really lonely being home alone all the time, starting to worry how ill cope with 2 now if his job carries on like this, i wudnt even mind if it was bringing in xtra money but it works out less money 4 more hours, sorry for the rant (think the hormones r kicking in i am not a very nice pregnant person i dont think lol

AC - we can wait together and watch the bus leave without us......

Not at the same time obviously!

Taking Charge of Your Fertility is a fantastic book about your fertility signs and your cycle. It tells you how to maximise your chances of conceiving and also how to avoid pg.