Hello Ladies, how are you all. Few bits of catching up and then I will tell you all about my Dr and my weekend :)
bebe I knew you were having jabs but I didn't know what for and only asked about depression as it flared up after your DD. My friend has MS and she wants a baby, not sure what she is planning on doing re meds. It's good that you know all the symptoms to spot, but not great that you don't know when or how bad they will be. Hope it all goes OK for you, I really do. I had a lot of counselling last year, and still work through some stuff in my head now as though I am counselling myself
squirrel & Quod I told my OH about that article last night and about quod's OH comments, he said "if you kept banging on about it to me I would go off the idea" LOL so the reverse works for me and mine!!! He feels ready as it is, in fact I think he has been ready a lot longer than me (not in our relationship but from before we met)
JS Men hey, saying you can't start trying but then saying if you were peg it wouldn't be a bad thing, that's total back to front! Sorry you had such a rough day, though if it's any consolation it really does do you good every so often to just have a blurt out of everything.
strawberry Yay :) Whoop, but no idea on the food side of things.
fluffy Hello and welcome along to the broodiness capital of the world. Yep, people around you having babies, saying they are peg etc I know that feeling well. Get yourself comfy in the waiting room, there will shortly be someone coming along with some food and drink.
I hope I've not missed anyone out.
Right then stuff from me
Friday went to the docs and went in there wearing my uniform so we immediately got chatting about my job and her about her's and then came on to the topic of why I was there, I said I come with good stuff, she immediately thought I was pg, to which I said - no not yet.... we laughed about both being see through. I said I needed to check on my meds and went through all of them. The bitch about it is is I have to stop my preventative while trying and preg and there isn't another tablet I can take in the mean time, it's something I am concerned about, but cannot do anything about it, and I want to get pg so much that I will take the migraines if they come. The rest of the tablets I take, well I can take some of them during the first part of my cycle then stop when I have ovulated, and some of them I can take all the time if necc, including my strong pain killers, so each month I will have 2 weeks of being able to take stuff and a couple of weeks of having limited meds available. If I get preg I can take the stuff that I've been allowed for the whole cycle. I won't give the med names as I don't want others to think they can take stuff when I've had the say so from the Dr, everyone is different.
I mentioned the flu jab and she said yeah no probs with you having that, I was going to make an apt with the nurse when she ducked out and got it for me there and then! When I was leaving I said I would go and see her when the time came, she was really pleased and almost did a little girlie bounce, she said her Dr had been so blaze about it she was really gutted, she said it's the best thing in the world, told me about her pg trying and the wait etc. She also said expect it to take 6 months. She was really really lovely.
Was away the weekend, and there was a load of little things that were just not right, where we stayed, the meal we went out for, OH forgetting something quite important, lots of little things and a load less sleep than I needed. Last night I got home and spent the evening on the verge of tears and cried in bed, :( I was just so tired and I needed a blub.
We did see 2 couples with babies, the first on Sat afternoon (6 wks old) and the second yesterday (3 wks old) OH had a hold of both and I sat there looking at him thinking about him holding ours. I did say after Saturday's visit do we have to wait till november and he laughed, called me a chancer and greedy, said I was overjoyed at when he said November a couple of weeks ago, LOL Yeah I know, but I can't help it. But we briefly discussed November, he said yeah, then the second time said 'probably' afterwards, give with one hand take with the other! LOL So I still don't know officially, but I reckon it's after my next period.
I've written loads there, I'm going off to work out my cycle for the past year!