MC a while ago and still TTC, Join in the chat, support and laughter in the 6th Form Common Room for a bit before Grads.

Good to hear from you mrspv sorry your paws are still painful- perhaps you could learn to type with your toes in a yoga style pose? !

bb hope you are being looked after x

(((( BB )))). So so sorry x

BB. I'm so very sorry.

Aw, BB :( :( So very sorry you're having to go through this again. x

BB So sorry. I thought you'd already had 2 MC's but I see now that it was 3 and now 4 .

I really cannot begin to imagine how frustrated and robbed you must be feeling. Sorry if I'm asking questions that you've already answered but did you get all the tests after the 3rd one? You say they said nothing is wrong so i'm guessing that you have had some tests. Is there any other test you could have?

It really is the most shitty thing to keep happening to you. Along with everyone else I send you love and hope you're dealing with things as best as you can, honey.

Yes, moo, it does mean that scans become a totally horrid stressful experience doesn't it? When I had my 1st son all you got was a scan at 20 weeks and that was it. With the second I think I got 2 scans but still it never occurred to me that anything could go wrong. Now I've had bad news at 2 scans and a further scan to confirm the last MC was complete and so i look at the whole thing very differently. I am aware of how lucky I am to have had my 2 DS's though, so i'll shut up now.

Good luck and re-assuring hugs to anyone else who is still in the early stages and feeling scared.

Sorry BB, gutted for you, big hugs mate.

Just wanted to pop by to pass my love and hugs to BB, so sorry about your news x

Bbrook so sorry to hear your news - that is just so sad. sending you a big virtual it's shit to go through it once, so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. x

Barren - really sorry to hear your news. Maybe it might be worth having a private consultation with a specialist to see if there are any preventative measures it might be worth taking before trying again?

Caribou is your work going completely disappear then? Did you get given a timeframe?

I don't know whether it's pasteurised, it's made of cow's milk but they add in cream I think - it's horrendously high in fat but just makes it ultra creamy. It has a mould skin, like brie and so on. It's not a strong flavour, more lemony I think, which I think helps with the wine.

Mixed emotions tonight for me my friends. Feeling very sad for my pal BB and what she is going through again. Wondering how life can be so cruel at times.

Still delighted about my scan yesterday although found out yesterday our work is being abolished. So a hard day with colleagues and friends all concerned about how they will cope and support their families. So lots of highs and lows all in a very short time.

Hippy I know what you mean about the scans. Like you I had another loss, a 2nd MMC in July. My bad news has always been delivered at scans and I think i've developed a bit of a phobia about them. Just praying that things will stay on track this time but not sure I'll ever have a scan without feeling utter dread.

Bee I am a total cheese fiend but haven't tried the kind you mention. Is it pasteurised? Your description made my mouth water... Jolls I will never again look at a bottle of OBSB without thinking of you!

Lots of love to BB and hope everyone else is well x

BBrook, I'm so sorry. How awful. So unbelievably f&*ked up.

Arse. Pants. Bugger. BB :(

So sorry BB. Really feel for you. Hugs.

so sorry barrenbrook. That really is rubbish.

Oh no barrenbrook that really is rotten luck, I'm so, so sorry

Hola, am here with crappy news am afraid. Woke up to a little pinky cm which has since progressed into a full on bleed. Bollocks is all I can say. That's 4 mc now, none of which that have progressed further than 6 weeks, and apparently there's nothing wrong! That's proper shitty luck.

I'm with Hippy - those things are evil! Hairy seemed to have a good plan with getting the blood tests done, nobody can argue with those. I am wondering if doctors do them if you ask or whether it's only if there is a medical neccesity.

barren please try not to do those bloody devil sticks. i have vowed that if I get another BFP I will NOT buy them.

They are too vague and, as you've been told I'm sure, MW and docs hate them.

I know you've had MC's (sorry not sure but think it was two)and so you are obviously looking for re-assurance whereever you can find it, but those sticks will not necessarily give you the re-assurance you crave.

My heart goes out to you, it is sooo hard isn't it. Last time I got a BFP i just wanted to bury my head in the strawberry patch. Try to stay calm, lovie (I know i know, easier said than done.)

Thanks for all the waves - Hippy snuggles in and feels very cosy .

just popping in to say a big YAY for Moof's scan news

Barrenbrook those digital tests are the devil's work I remember being warned off them but still wanting to keep on using them, just to see all was well but they're really not reliable (you've probably just been told all this on FB anyway... will shut up my waffling -- suffice to say, you're pregnant, it's all going to be good this time )

Jolls, I'm sure I heard something on the radio this morning about it being ok again for pregnant women to have the occasional glass of wine -- and DH has just stocked up on OBSB (Tesco had a too good to refuse offer on apparently....), so I shall be trying a tiny bit and will be toasting you with each of my teeny tiny glasses of the stuff!

Hello Hippy, disappointed the caravan shenanigans didn't pay off this month, had high hopes for a holiday baby for you... good to hear you sounding upbeat about it though, here's to next month

Oh great news caribou, and that dating is definitely close enough to put any 'bit small' worries out of your mind too, great result all round.

digi I did have to smile at your "reassuring cramping", odd how it can go from terrifying to reassuring depending on whether you want it there or don't.

Can I just say I think I have fallen in love with vignotte cheese? Vignotte, chablis and a crisp pear...it does not get any better. And I know how poncetastic that sounds but I don't care.