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TTC after a miscarriage - ***Lets have some more BFP's***

746 replies

Diddle · 25/08/2005 13:27

Here we go ladies, couldn't wait for a couple of days have started one already.

Lets make this thread a lucky one and make sure we al graduate from it.

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Mojomummy · 02/09/2005 12:08

ok thanks - you ?

I'm dementedly trying to work out the best times to conceive using persona & ovo sticks & all the charts everywhere - I thought it was supposed to be fun !!

Lottielou · 02/09/2005 12:03

Hi Mojo, How you doing?

Mojomummy · 02/09/2005 11:55

Hi there, goodness it's very difficult trying to keep up with what's going on here !

Lottielou · 02/09/2005 10:55

Wow, how quiet is it on here today!!!

Lottielou · 02/09/2005 09:13

Morning All!
So what did i miss y'day, anything exciting, i haven't had time to reead through since Weds night! DP and i scived work y'day to paint out lounge bit strange i know but we both didn't feel like going to work and we kpet putting the painting off so we did it yestrerday! Looks lovely
Diddle - how you doing hun? AF arrived yet? Still hasn't for me! And i still feel like a balloon, a big hot air one at that!
You looking forward to tomo? Bet your excited? x

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Diddle · 02/09/2005 08:47

baggy - you nutter, this is the one place you can be yourself, no need to impress us. GOOD LUCK AT SCHOOL! x x x remember us we will keep yu smilling

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baggybear · 02/09/2005 08:41

well, wish me luck! I'm off to school now. I will be strong and have a couple of witty remarks if anyone else tries it on!

BTW I am completely stark raving bonkers, just trying to make the right impression with you lot up til now will be myself now...

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Diddle · 02/09/2005 08:39

hmm very interested in the cleaner idea, one of the mindies i have has a cleaner at home, but they have a huge house. I fancy one.
I tested yesterday, BFN, will tests again tomorrow if AF doesn't come, i am now 8 days late.

Just watching the GMTV wedding, makes me cry, this time last year it was getting close to mine.

Strike1 - what you doing for your anniversary again? can you remember what a frantci rush this time 2 years ago was.

anyway better go, taking my one and only mindie to the airport to see the planes in 20 mins.

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Xena · 02/09/2005 08:33

Have you tested Diddle?
Our gym membership was quite expensive and the cleaner will work out about the same £30 per week (7.50ph) But will partially be tax deductable.

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Diddle · 02/09/2005 08:32

cd43!!!!! whats going on with my cycles?

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Diddle · 02/09/2005 08:32

MORNING baggybear - sorry, had a lie in this morning and an early night last night. No bd for me, waiting for AF still. Your councillor sounds like a right cow, she obviosuly has not experienced what we have. I bet you're standing in the playground now, hope everyone is being nice to you. I'll be out before you get back so have a cheerful day.

Xena - sounds like you're doing the right thing, wish i could have a cleaner, is it expensive.

Strike1 - have you tested ? was a P?

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Xena · 02/09/2005 08:23

BB you'll put LL out off a job if you carry on!

baggybear · 02/09/2005 08:14
Wink
munz · 02/09/2005 07:55

lol@BB - u make me laugh some days!

baggybear · 02/09/2005 07:54

Well, it looks that way, Baggy.

Yes it does, doesn't it BB.

Shall we go?

Yeah, I think that would be best, BB.

BYE

baggybear · 02/09/2005 07:46

Have I killed the whole TCC after MC thread????

baggybear · 02/09/2005 07:33

MORNING

Where are you all? I can't believe nobdy posted after I went to bed. We must have all been very tired - or very busy BDing

Well, I've woken up this morning and I made a promise to myself to be more cheerful.

Hope you all have a nice day

baggybear · 01/09/2005 22:21

Right, I'm off to bed now. Was up early with kids for school so am cream crackered now.
I promise to be more cheerful and jolly tomorrow.

Talk to you all tomorrow...

...oh, and thank you again {{{{xxx}}}}

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 01/09/2005 21:29

Baggybear

Dont apologise for feeling .Its a difficult time right now and has not been helped with your insensitive counsellor.

Hope you feel a little better soon
xx

baggybear · 01/09/2005 20:24

I'm going to phone the councellor tomorrow morning, early coz I don't want to speak to her, I would rather leave a message. I know that sounds a bit chicken but she upset me so much I don't think I could bare to hear her voice again. Then I will speak to my HV and tell her how I feel.

I think I was getting on okay with out her "help". It was slow but I felt I was getting somewhere. Now I need to start all over again.

Again I'm really sorry - being all again but thanks for being there xx

Will try and cheer up now. I need to improve my vibes to help with TTC

Xena · 01/09/2005 20:16

Baggy that is really bad I think you need to let your HV know.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 01/09/2005 19:57

What a cow.How dare she judge you.She should be reported.

The only people who really understand how hard it is to loose a child are those who are unfortunate enough to experience it.Ive come across some insensitive people in the last four months.Only last week at a childrens party I was told 'Yes but you are lucky to have Lucy" I know that of course but being told that made me feel v angry.I just said 'Yes forgive me,but I dont FEEL v lucky at the moment'Really I wanted to say f&*k off and I hate swearing.

baggybear · 01/09/2005 19:05

Hi all!

Rachey - I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. I hope everything works out for them but its seems as though she has a really good friend in you so I know she has good support

I definately didn't feel comfortable withthis woman. I was put in contact with her by my HV. I know my HV really well and I spoke to her about the MC and she said she would arrange for some councelling. Anyway, this woman rang me and made me an appt so I thought "nothing to lose".

How wrong could I be - I've lost what little self esteem I had and lost my mind!!! She made me feel I was wrong for wanting another baby, she seemed to think I was neglecting my children. She said I had too much going on in my head, and then told me that confusion is good for me! I cried til I had no tears left, but not because of grief and telling someone about it, but because I felt I was being judged and belittled. I'm not my own biggest fan and I do battle with my self esteem, but she made me feel so much worse.

I'm really sorry for keep dragging you all down. But talking to you all helps a damn sight more than talking to that old trout.

I hope you are all good tonight. xx

cori · 01/09/2005 18:44

HI Rachey,
My miscarriage was at around 17 weeks. We were told to wait for one normal period to pass, for me this was two cycles.

Xena · 01/09/2005 17:39

CP, that sounds so destressing for you my m/c was at only 14wks but because it was passed the so called magic 12wks we had told a few people and that was bad enough.
Diddle I'm trying to take it as easy as I can. I had abit of a funny turn today in the garden I really don't know what happen but it was abit like being dizzy, might take myself to the doctors in the morning.
The 5 step plan for me:

  1. get pg
  2. Make it to 8wks
  3. Make it to 12wks
  4. Make it to 24wks
  5. Bring new baby home

Yesterday I cancelled our gym membership and today I hired a cleaner.

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