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TTC after a miscarriage - ***Lets have some more BFP's***

746 replies

Diddle · 25/08/2005 13:27

Here we go ladies, couldn't wait for a couple of days have started one already.

Lets make this thread a lucky one and make sure we al graduate from it.

OP posts:
Coathanger · 05/09/2005 11:17

OOO, so exciting HK!! Everything crossed he is right again!

Mind you after all DH said, and with out bring the level of conversation down too low, he didn't seem very concerned yesterday, if you get my meaning, nudge, nudge,

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 11:14

So is HK the only tester this week????
What day you going to test HK?

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 11:14

Coathanger - Of course it makes sense hun! When I M/C I wanted to TTC again but I cudn't let myself. I needed time ot get over my little angel. Diddle and I were in the same boat, but we left it a month to get over the M/C alltho we both admitted afterwards that we weren't being exactly careful! It makes perfect sense to me! Glad you feel better now things are out in the open!
Yeah Diddle is away in Disney land, it's her 1st Wedding Anniversary today!
Wasn't it someone elses Anniversary today????

HellKat · 05/09/2005 11:12

Coathanger- Makes perfect sense.
Lottie- Both times he's been right. So will test end of the week.

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 11:10

HK - I'm not sure who is testing this week, i think we have a quiet week of testing! So how many times has he been right about you being PG? TEST, TEST, TEST!!!

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 11:08

Good. Feel better to have had it out with DH about trying again. He isn't sure he wants another baby and I really wnt one, so we have decided to leave it 6 months and talk about it then. Thats better than us being in limbo and feeling that whatever we do someone will feel let down and resentful. We got on really well this weekend now its out in the open.

Getting that out of the way has also made me realise that I haven't got over grieving for my lost baby. I got it so stuck in my head that I wanted to try again that I kind of forgot what had happened. Now I can finish grieving and then move on. Does that all make sense?

Where is Diddle? Has she gone to Disneyland?

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 11:07

Oh PeePee am so sorry hun! {{{{HUGS}}}}

I've just been on E-bay and just bought some OV tests and early PG tests so once AF is out of the way i can really start TTC again. i've never used OPK's before so am really excited now!!

Good to see you Coathanger x

What a crappy day at work i'm having and it's only 11 am, wish i was tucked up in bed still

HellKat · 05/09/2005 11:06

Anyone testing this week? Think I should. Dp is convinced I am and so far he has'nt been wrong. Please don't let me be the only one testing!

HellKat · 05/09/2005 11:03

Good here apart from shattered. Had 3hrours sleep night before last and it's hit today. So having a lovely lazy on here. How are you?

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 10:39

Ahhh, gald to be back, felt like i'd had a limb cut off. Shamed to say I think i'm addicted to MN. Trying to get some house work done between posts today - don't think its working!!

Hows the rest of you?

HellKat · 05/09/2005 10:28

Same here Coathanger lol Glad you're staying though. We're just seeing what fate brings.

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 10:25

Anyone noticed

Just coz i'm not actively TTC (at the mo), doesn't mean I can't pop by once in a while to offer you all support

HellKat · 05/09/2005 10:23

Peepee- {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} so sorry babes! Awful, horrid, thing to happen. We're here for you. Anytime you need a chat you can have my addy if you want. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
HC- You got it in one lol bding as much as poss when the mood hits!

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 10:19

Decided not to abandon you girls - luv ya too much!!!

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 10:18

peepee - I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Hope your okay, or as okay as you can be. Keep your chin up and take good care of yourself. I'm thinking of you, Hun. {{{XXXHUGSXXX}}}

Hope rest of you are okay ...

HumphreysCorner · 05/09/2005 10:13

Lottielou-sorry about AF hun ((xx))

HumphreysCorner · 05/09/2005 10:13

peepee-so sorry
((xx))

HumphreysCorner · 05/09/2005 10:12

Morning ladies

Well CD10 and AF appears to have called round for morning coffee! Hope she's gone by tonight as last nights BD was a disaster as DD kept screaming every time we started anything so had to keep getting up. Then as poor DH has had to wait a week he just couuldn't wait any longer IYKWIM-oh bless. I'll be running out of days at this rate!

Girls-I have done a keep fit video this morning and am going to try and do it once a week! (Don't laugh)

auntynon-we are on nearly the same CD but think I will go over 28 days again. Worrying time with your lump so hope you get the results quickly. ((xx))

HellKat-what are your TTC plans at the moment-have you decided on anything or just BD for England anyway?

Off work for the first Monday in ages and it is bucketing it down but hey, never mind as I have a lovely pile of ironing to do.

Hugs to all (((((xxxxx)))))
xxx

munz · 05/09/2005 10:11

oh peepee i'm so sorry hon (((hugs))

peepee · 05/09/2005 10:09

Good morning,

Have started to m/c so will be joining u guys again in a month or so..

Thanks for all the support.x

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 09:28

Aunty - Good luck with getting that lump checked hun xx

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 09:28

Morning Ladies!
How was your weekends?
Well my AF arrived y'day morning so am now on CD 2, i was expecting it so not too dissapointed. I can get on with lots of BD'ing this month and hopefully it will my my turn (and praying that it will be Diddles too - well actullay all of you) I have a strange feeling that i will get my BFP in Oct! Dont ask y, it's juts a feeling! Or the feeling cud be that i concieve in Oct. Either way October is going to be my month!!!
Had very bad cramps all weekend, sleepless nights so am feeling quite low and tired today! Really really dont wanna be at work!
Diddle - Missin ya, hope your having a fab time xx

HellKat · 05/09/2005 07:38

Morning all.
HC- Yay!!!! Bd all the way then!
Louise- Welcome! Personal opinion here, I've always used the cheapy tests (wilkinsons, poundland etc) and all been accurate. Cheap too!
Aunty- Good luck with the lump hun. If you check out the previous thread to this one, you'll see that a few weeks back I had the same thing. Had biopsy and results were all clear. Any questions feel free to ask.

auntynon · 04/09/2005 22:21

HC, what CD are you?

auntynon · 04/09/2005 22:16

Louise my AF took exactly 28 days after my MC which is what my cycle was before, it can take alot longer, I think I was lucky. My GP said there is no set or reccommended time to wait before TTC after a MC other than to feel well physically and emotionally. I had a spontaneous MC at 8 weeks.