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Loujalou · 20/07/2010 18:51

Our new home. Hopefully by starting this fred I will win a baby too!

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Fairygodmother1 · 01/11/2010 20:00

Awww Youngie Big hugs. Sad

Lou not gone back to Dr yet. Will see what Dr Google says & hav just read on another Thgread that mets has done this to some people too. It is helping with the weight!!!

Yeah I read about Lily today. Feel so sad for her. An old friend has also miscarried at 21 weeks this weekend so feel like it was a 'evil' weekend!!!!

Welcome witches

x

witches · 01/11/2010 19:10

Im new to all this and currently ttc my first. Hope to be able to ask weird and wonderful questions through this site.
Wanted to pass condolences to notheroldie - im sure ur pain is as real as anyone who has wanted a baby and lost it, no matter wen it happens.

lia66 · 01/11/2010 17:50

youngie so sorry to hear things are shit for you at the moment. For what it's worth I think once you have the erpc over you can start to grieve. :(

Very very :( about Lily allen, and to be in the spotlight when it happens must be crap.

Waves to everyone else. lou how you doing? still sick? Grin

Loujalou · 01/11/2010 17:13

I read that too Youngie poor lovey. She is only young and this is her second mc as well.

Hugs to you too Youngie. At least you are being looked after by DH and the hospital. xxxx

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notheroldie · 01/11/2010 17:00

However crap I feel I bet I don't feel half as shitty as Poor Lily Allen Must feel miscarrying at 6 months :( poor love.

harassedinherWITCHYpants · 01/11/2010 14:14

Oh youngie that is totally crap my lovely. I'm so sorry ((()))'s for you.

Fivealive - just jump on him!!

There has been no sight (or smell thank god) of the stupid mouse. Hopeing it found it's way outside.....pleeeease.

Cd24 for me, keeping my fingers x'd. Again!

notheroldie · 01/11/2010 10:47

Another update.

Had re-scan, and apparently I havent passed the sack yet so I have booked in for an ERPC tomorrow to get it over and done with.
The sooner the better.

FUCKING PISSED OFF IS WHAT I AM !

Anyway... how ara all you my lovelies?

UMBONGO how goes it with pre-seed ?

pants what happened with the mouse?

UmBongo · 31/10/2010 15:41

Other news, mid cycle, dh either out (outside working) or out (out cold on sofa). SWI in very short supply. If he falls asleep tonight I may just throttle him. Particularly as I checked the post today to discover my preseed had arrived!!!!! I think I better warn him!

UmBongo · 31/10/2010 15:37

Oh Oldie I am VERY sorry to hear your news, I have been offline for a week and on someones wifi this afternoon. Have a huge hug from me, I know what you are going through, you will get through it, (mostly!) feeling shit and depressed is normal.

I hope the physical pain has now passed and you can have the rest of the day alone without dh and dcs. I found the pain went quite quickly after the mc was finished. Mental pain takes a little longer!

I will check in as much as I can this week, but good luck and lots of love from the bongo house.

BEWITCHEDnod · 31/10/2010 13:53

Oh nother - sending enormous hugs to you :( just got back from hols and so so sad to hear your news x

Will catch up properly later

Loujalou · 31/10/2010 11:46

Oh my sweetie that is shit. Big hugs to you and your family. Your DH seems like he is a superstar.

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notheroldie · 31/10/2010 11:22

Hi All,

Just an update as I have been in hiding for a week. I have been bleeding steadily for 10 days now.

 (warning TMI alert!)

However this morning I passed lots of clots, then the pain started. Then for 3 hours I think I passed most of it. It was horrible. I just wanted to hang on one more day and be in the hosp ( I have a re-scan tomorrow) for them to book me for an ERPC but alas, I am MCing at home.

My Fab DH has taken the DCs out for the whole day so I can curl up and feel utterly shit, miserable, sick, achey and so bloody depressed its unbelievable.
I have choc and wine and I'm going to down the lot regardless of the time of day!

I think the worst bit was knowing my teeny-weeny fetus(baby) plopped down the loo and was gone. :(

Thanks for listening.

Hope everyone is well. x

Loujalou · 29/10/2010 08:18

Hey Fairy my love that sounds like shit. Here big hugs to you. Have you been back to the doctors to get them to have a look at you again?

Youngie still thinking of you.

Pants you found that mouse yet?

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Fairygodmother1 · 28/10/2010 14:43

Thats great news Lou. I thought I was back to normal but am bleeding again!!!!! I'm so sick & tired of it!

How you doing Youngie?

Hiw's everyone else?

lia66 · 27/10/2010 14:05

ma ? God I hope not, ME and dh even [hblush]

lia66 · 27/10/2010 14:04

I love you really lou

SFF, whats that? I think ma and dh have had sex 5 times in the last 19 wks. First 14 wks couldn't face it, have atsrted to feel bit more human, then comes where I start showing obviously and dh goes off it in case he pokes baby in the eye or something.

So.. that'll be about 8/9 times in total by the end then. :)

Loujalou · 27/10/2010 13:58

[Hides in the corner]. Ok get the message now.

Right so Pants you need to make your DH feel like you are having SFF and not just cos you might be ovulating.

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lia66 · 27/10/2010 13:45

definately gold star, however the day is young.

Ok, lets put it this way, (back me up people)

You are pregnant, between 6 and 7 wks

You have seen a good heartbeat

You are feeling/being sick

You have other symptoms

YOU HAVE NO REASON TO GOOGLE!!!!!

Do you feel admonished in advance? [hgrin]

x

Loujalou · 27/10/2010 13:35

I hope so Lia. I have avoided dr google today. Do I get a gold star?

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lia66 · 27/10/2010 12:57

I remember that feeling lou, just wanted to sleep to get past the 11wks stage. It'll fly by before you know it.

pants second lou just n case you know, [hgrin]

northern hope you are ok. x

Loujalou · 27/10/2010 12:08

Thanks for all your well wishes. I just want to be put in a coma for the next 6 weeks.

Pants just have a shag just in case!

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harassedinherWITCHYpants · 26/10/2010 20:33

How is everyone this evening??

I'm enjoying an hour of peace now that dd is in bed and dh is at training.....bliss!! I finished work at 5.30, picked up dd and came home. Dd had massive tantrum and then I had an arguement with dh. Glad to have my peace! [hgrin]

I've been having some stabbing ovulating type pains and my tummy is bloated. Strange, because I've already ov'd [hhmm].

NOTHEROLDIE · 26/10/2010 17:22

LOU
You go girl! :)

harassedinherWITCHYpants · 26/10/2010 10:40

Fab news Lou [hgrin] x

lia66 · 26/10/2010 10:26

[hgrin]

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