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Do you cry whilst reading to the children?

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MrsNormanMaine · 20/11/2008 20:52

I just read The Story of Holly and Ivy (Rummer Godden) to my children (5 and 3) and burst into tears. I do get very into the reading and I loved it when I was a child. Maybe due to recent bereavements (parents) or just being older and a parent myself - or being a sentimental nutter - but have you sobbed openly due to being moved by a story you are reading to your children? How did they react? What did you say?

My daughter was concerned and sweet, my son thought it was hilarious but was also very sweet and tried to get me to read the same bit over and over to see if it kept happening. All in all I think it added something!

I did the same thing reading The Diddakoi (when the Does were going to send Joe to the knackers). Must stop with Rummer Godden!

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Blackduck · 23/11/2008 09:14

'Nothing' gets me.
Its worse if you haven't read ahead IMO. My mum bought ds 'Dr White' (about a dog in a hospital - based on a true story) I blithly start reading to ds and end up snivelling (trying not to), and snot filled. I try to avoid it now...
'Beegu' can also do it to me depending on how the hormones are behaving

TurkeyLurkey · 23/11/2008 09:02

I blubbed when Charlotte died in Charlottes Web. It was the bit about her only being able to weakly raise one leg to wave at Wilbur. 'And no one was with her when she died'. FFS I am welling up writing that, get a grip woman!

Pendulum · 23/11/2008 08:59

My MIL bought No Matter What for my DD1.

While I was in hospital having DD2.

I had to stay in hospital for around 5 days because of complications and DD1 wouldn't come and see me as she didn't like the hospital.

When I got home, 5 days postnatal, bent double by the CS scar, smack in baby blues territory, half mad with missing DD1, she thrust No Matter What into my hand and asked me to read it. In front of the assembled family masses.

Bt the time I reached the bit about the stars I was snorting big snotty sobs and clutching my scar. My in-laws didn't quite know what to do.

milkysallgone · 23/11/2008 08:39

Yes Harpomanx yes!!!!!! That's the book I meant - not 'Seven for Silver', 'Seven for a Secret'!

It is so so sad.

mersmam · 23/11/2008 08:38

I'm shocked that The big big Sea is out of print... it's such a beautiful book, gorgeous illustrations. I'm going upstairs now to put it on a higher shelf out of DS's (AKA 'The little shredder') way.

nelliesmum · 22/11/2008 23:05

I surprise myself by finding that I wouldn't be willing to sell it for £35. I would snap up one of the £8.63 copies if I were you.

SmallerClanger · 22/11/2008 23:01

I'd not heard of the Big Big Sea before - but need to read it now. It sounds beautiful. I'll join the campaign!

nelliesmum · 22/11/2008 22:58

Mind you, might remove my daughter's copy from toybox if it is going to be worth money.

nelliesmum · 22/11/2008 22:57

You can pick up a copy for £8.63 as well, must be out of print. Shall we start a campaign to have it reprinted??

Swedes · 22/11/2008 22:22

OMG The Big Big Sea is £33.26 on Amazon.

harpomarx · 22/11/2008 22:14

and totally agree about Peepo, god we are ridiculously over-sensitive, aren't we!

harpomarx · 22/11/2008 22:13

I have posted this before on a similar thread, but this book should be banned!

it has bereavement, redundancy, homelessness, rural idylls, lovable grandads (who die ) and stupid mums read it to their dds without having the least idea where it is going and then end up in a blubbering heap on the floor.

as someone already said. Gah!

nelliesmum · 22/11/2008 22:05

Also "Some Dogs Do"...marvellous.

nelliesmum · 22/11/2008 22:04

Oh, wow...the Big Big Sea, just the saddest book. What do you think has happened to Daddy?

I cried at the "Whale and the Snail"

Swedes · 22/11/2008 22:01

Oh God, I'm always sniffling at the Big Big Sea. Sometimes DD hold my hand, in anticipation of me blubbing.

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MrsNormanMaine · 22/11/2008 21:47

This is a huge relief - thought I was turning into a loon. Will look for some of the books mentioned that I haven't fallen apart over. The children will start worrying if I read a whole story without crying.

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singersgirl · 22/11/2008 21:31

"And a mother with a baby just like him.." Sob. Whimper.

And "Dogger" is heartbreaking.

I'm just reading the boys "The Railway Children" (the sort of old-fashioned book they are far too 21st century and male to read to themselves) and the bit about their mother asking them not to walk on the railway made me sob:

"But, darlings, you don't know how fond I am of you. What should I do if you got hurt?"

"Are you fonder of us than Granny was of you when you were little?" Phyllis asked. Bobbie made signs to her to stop, but Phyllis never
did see signs, no matter how plain they might be.

Mother did not answer for a minute. She got up to put more water in the teapot.

"No one," she said at last, "ever loved anyone more than my mother loved me."

Boo hoo. Sniffle.

Midge25 · 22/11/2008 21:16

Paws..another Dogger crier here. Is it the bit when Bella swaps her bear?

Whizzz · 22/11/2008 21:14

I bought I collection of Mick Inkpen stories ages ago to read to DS - luckily, browsed through it first & found myself howling at Nothing oh its soooooo sad .....never did manage to read the story - its still here in pristine condition

Maria2007 · 22/11/2008 19:37

HollyHobbie: well, I read the pinkle purr poem & I started crying!! Oh my god, this thread has reaaaaally got the tear ducts going...

By the way, not sure who mentioned ? the velveteen rabbit- I've cried when reading that several times too...

The other book that I find really wonderful- and always makes me cry for some strange reason is a little bit of winter by Paul Riddell...

And, oh yes: I too cry when I hear 'Slipping through my fingers!'

bigTillyMint · 22/11/2008 18:32

I cry at all of those. Especially Holly and Ivy, which I read to my two every year and cry almost all the way through - they are used to me now

All Michael Morpurgo's books make me cry, and Adolphus Tips is DD's all-time favourite, so if I am reading it to her, she has the hankies ready!

hollyhobbie · 22/11/2008 18:22

me too SmallerClanger - it's so obvious Christopher Robin is going to school and that it's the end of his childhood: "They won't let me do nothing any more" ...sob!

It's the first time I've ever cried reading a book to DD. She was surprised and a bit dismayed, I think. I had to just stop and read something jolly instead.

Haven't quite cried to this AA Milne poem (damn that man) but it does get me in the back of the throat: a sad but true summation of motherhood.

OrmIrian · 22/11/2008 18:22

Only when DS#2 insists I read the 8th book

mersmam · 22/11/2008 18:21

MollyCherry - 'Slipping through my fingers' brings the tears to my eyes every time as well... I am going to have to stop reading this thread as it's costing me a fortune on Amazon and I thought I was finished with the Christmas shopping