Please or to access all these features

Children's books

Join in for children's book recommendations.

DS hates reading - book recommendations?

37 replies

190190tnt · 05/02/2022 12:16

DS will be 13 soon, hates reading and hoping I can find something he might actually like and want to read. He half heartedly read Diary of a Wimpy Kid. His teacher has said that he needs to be reading more so keen to help him.
Just wondering if anyone else has found a book that hits the spot! Thanks

OP posts:
SirChenjins · 05/02/2022 12:50

Both DSs hated/hate reading at that age and all through their teens - they could sort of be persuaded by ebooks or magazines, but even that was difficult. I’m an avid reader, always have been, but I had to accept that I couldn’t force them to read for pleasure any more than my parents could force me to play rugby or football - both of which my DSs love to do.

If it’s any consolation my eldest DS is now 24 and has returned to reading recently, and really enjoys it. He also went to university, got an excellent Masters and has a graduate position in a large multinational, so his lack of reading didn’t hold him back.

CornflakeMum · 05/02/2022 12:44

How is he with other subjects (not just English/reading)? Can he read OK, or could he be rejecting reading because he finds it difficult?

The reason I ask is because DS2 was a reluctant reader and was diagnosed late at age 11/12 as having dyslexia. He had coped OK with primary level, but it came crashing down at secondary school.
FWIW he later got into reading alongside audiobooks with fantasy books like Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings etc.

SalsaLove · 05/02/2022 12:42

He might like Terry Pratchett?

toomuchlaundry · 05/02/2022 12:42

Magazines are a compromise if he doesn’t like books

BeefSupreme · 05/02/2022 12:41

Or maybe a non-fiction book that doesn't need to be read from cover to cover so he can dip in and out of it. I did this with my various encyclopedias and almanacs when I was a child.

BeefSupreme · 05/02/2022 12:39

What are his interests?
Agree with pp, you should take him to a book shop and let him pick out a book that catches his eye.
Magazines, short story collections, poetry or graphic novels might work better for him.

yikesanotherbooboo · 05/02/2022 12:38

Newspapers
Non fiction about their interests
Eg sport, cookery, history, politics etc.
I've read and strongly believe that it is really important for DC to see their parents reading regularly so if that isn't something that happens now, encourage it.
Two of my three became avid readers in their teens .My youngest, in particular, reads a lot of non fiction about his interest .He is branching out into occasional fiction that related to his interest and more recently with audible to wider topics.

SarahWoodruff · 05/02/2022 12:33

Does he like factual stuff? Maybe a magazine subscription would get him in the habit a bit more. Some news magazines have junior editions, or he might like a science or history one.

sorryiasked · 05/02/2022 12:29

DS liked thrillers/ James bond type stuff and now mainly reads military.
So maybe Charlie Higson or Andy Mcnab (teen titles)
Otherwise try graphic novels?

BookBanter · 05/02/2022 12:28

My daughter is 14 and hasn't enjoyed reading every since she got her first phone at age 12. Won't entertain e-books or audio books. She's only recently started reading some poetry and is becoming quite obsessed!

TBH, i think Diary of a Wimpy Kid is more suited for 8-11 year olds as it is considered middle grade and your son is likely to think he's too old for these.

Take your son to a book shop and let him browse. Browse everything. Fiction and no fiction. Graphic novels, poetry, anime, adult, teen, crime. Talk to him about interesting stories or articles you have read yourself to try and pique his interest.

There's no way anyone here can know what he likes as we don't know his interests. If he likes gaming, does he read gaming magazines?

I think we need to move past thinking that reading must entail reading a physical fiction novel. Stories comes in all types of mediums now. Magazines and newspapers or short stories may be a way to get him interested again in short bursts, as long as they are about something he already has shown an interest in.

languagelover96 · 05/02/2022 12:24

Interests and hobbies, tell us more.

Seeline · 05/02/2022 12:19

What are his interests and hobbies?

Swipe left for the next trending thread