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DS8 reading books far too easy - should I bother pushing him?

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AllAboutTheGin · 22/07/2019 14:11

Hi, title says it all really. DS has just finished year 3, only just turned 8, with a 4C for reading. Which I think is pretty good? He can read anything really that is age appropriate, and really does love to read - but he won't read anything at his level. I provide him with so many books that he LOVES me to read to him, we go to the library all the time, sometimes I get him started on a book and he'll take over, but more often than not I find him reading and re reading the same old easy, dare I say rubbishy, books. He read the captain underpants series about 8 times over the last two years and has only recently tired of it. He is now re reading a load of Tom Gates books. He has read and enjoyed most if not all David Walliams, Roald Dahl, the Pamela Butchart series, How to train your dragon, Spiderwick Chronicles, Electrigirl, various 'novels' based on lego and spiderman movies. But when it comes to anything a little more challenging, or really anything without pictures, he gives up after two or three chapters, even if its really his cup of tea. Things I have read to him that he has loved but wouldn't read himself are - Bear Grylls series (the slightly older ones, not the early readers), Enid Blyton Adventure series, Harry Potter (actually he wanted to read enjoy this so much that he did read large chunks to himself), the Matt Haig Christmas books...
His teacher says he works so hard at school he deserves to chill out and read whatever nonsense he wants, but I find it SO frustrating! I have a bookshelf full of books waiting to be read and if I'm going to have to read them all to him its going to take forever while he stays up late in bed re-reading bloody Tom Gates!
Basically should I be bothered or try encouraging him a bit more to read out of his comfort zone? He's currently infuratingly in the middle of Hamish and the worldstoppers and taking his time over every chapter when I know he would devour a David Walliams in a couple of days!

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AllAboutTheGin · 22/07/2019 14:27

Also, I should probably point out I don't ever tell him he's reading rubbish. I know I probably sound pushy but I'm not!

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PinkFlowerFairy · 22/07/2019 14:27

But you're still looking for him. I'd honestly step back and let him choose at the library for himself. Or let him choose if in a charity shop/supermarket but stop buying them for him. He will fknd what he likes.

Where hes older now and able to read he'll find what he likes.
(I may be bitter neither of mine liked Enid Blyton stories that I did! But I think I was like you are now and had to learn to step back!)

AllAboutTheGin · 22/07/2019 14:24

Thank you. I know there is no rush. I'm not in a rush for him to 'improve' as I think he's a great reader, more of a rush I guess for him to enjoy some great stories. It just seems a shame to be reading tom gates over and over when there are so many great books out there. But you're right, he is having fun and enjoys it so thats the main thing. I guess I just wanted reassurance on that!
I still feel like I could be finding some new books for him so any suggestions more than welcome (as for stockpiling - I just grab random things from charity shop when I see them - 3DC and all love books so I'm sure one of them will read them at some point! I keep them in my room and he doesn't know what I have. I just get a couple out once in a while for him to pick from - so no pressure.)

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Grumpbum123 · 22/07/2019 14:19

Let him be

PinkFlowerFairy · 22/07/2019 14:18

Why the rush?

Id stop stockpiling books uou think he ought to read as that will only pressure him or feel overwhelmkmg and unacheivable.

Just continue ti let him choose what he wants and enjoy it!

notatwork · 22/07/2019 14:16

I think that the independently when he wants to is key here.
Taking his time means that he is working through the language in his own time. That's a good thing.
Most of the 'advanced readers' from the DCs peer groups were pushed by their mums and didn't really get the most out of the books they were reading.
Your DS is reading and loving it (albeit slowly at the moment) then your battle is won.

AllAboutTheGin · 22/07/2019 14:16

I should have added, can anyone reccommend any books to try, preferably with a few illustrations to reassure him! Waiting to be read for eg, I have Percy Jackson, Beetle Boy, Cogheart, more Bear Grylls, some classics, Ronia and the robbers daughter - but I know these will have to wait a while. Also have Lemony Snicket on hold at library as he did get through the first one.

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