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Too much of harry potter, percy jackson, Artemis fowl making DS aggresive

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mom17 · 12/08/2016 11:24

DS 10, is really crazy about above mentioned books along with other books which I aminly found it to be aggressive. I really need to try hard to make him read classicals( has read few but doesn't interest him much). He really becomes crazy till the time he finishes the books, nothing matters to him then ( exams, assessment, any other routine studies). If I say something in line that I will discontinue library membership or will not order those kind of books, he really gets so angry and starts screaming and talks badly like "lets see who will study then?". If I don't order those kind, he brings it from school library. I have read Harry potter/percy jackson little to understand what does he like there and I really feel it to be crappy/useless and feel that up to certain extent it is ok to read these to keep up with peer group but reading it again and again and ignoring other genre is not appropriate.
I feel it is general problem with boys, so would like to know how other parents have dealt with it or any suggestion ?

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mom17 · 12/08/2016 12:00

I am really thankful to all your post which have made me realize I was wrong. I just thought it is a parent's duty to develop interest in all genre so that they are not left out. I often see that initial phase for any new thing is not interesting hence I was trying to force him to try classical thinking he soon will like those. He liked Oliver twist, black beauty, white fang, thief lord etc. but kidnapped, lord of flies etc were left after half or so.

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DoctorDonnaNoble · 12/08/2016 11:54

I teach English at a highly successful secondary, I'm currently re-reading Harry Potter. Again. Nothing wrong with Harry Potter.
'Classics' can be difficult to get into due to changes in language use. Being forced to read things kills the enjoyment. I hated Dickens until university and didn't really like Shakespeare until my PGCE.

fruityb · 12/08/2016 11:50

Classics at ten? Let him enjoy this stuff instead! My mum tried to get me readin Black Beauty and Pride and Prejudice when I was too young and I couldn't tell you a thing about them and I hated reading them. I teach English and still haven't read a lot of them as I don't see the need to even now.

I'd be more excited about feeding this love of reading and looking to expand his range there.

TheOptimisticPessimist · 12/08/2016 11:48

Please tell me you're joking? You want to restrict your son's passion for reading by taking away the incredibly imaginative, detailed and entertaining books that he adores and forcing him to read 'classicals' instead?

He's 10! All you'll end up doing is make reading feel like a chore to him. You can't force someone to enjoy certain genres and not should you try.

Reading these books isn't making him aggressive. The fact you're threatening to take away something he loves is making him act up, and I'm not surprised. If his studies are suffering then he needs a lesson on time management, not a total ban on his books.

Give your head a wobble, quit being such an interfering book snob, and realise that parents all over the world would LOVE for their child to have such a passion for reading, regardless of what genre it is. It's a trait that should be encouraged and nurtured, not eradicated because you don't think the (perfectly age appropriate and wonderful) books are worthy enough.

WhirlwindHugs · 12/08/2016 11:43

Don't be daft. It's not children's books to blame here. Stop restricting them and start talking with him about whatever is actually on his mind.

At 10 he might be worried about puberty? friends? family issues? He probably finds rereading the same books reassuring.

JudyCoolibar · 12/08/2016 11:40

I'd be delighted if my son loved reading this much. I suspect the only reason he appears aggressive is because you make such a big issue of it. I'd suggest you leave it strictly alone at the moment: if he gets in trouble because he's reading instead of doing homework he will probably work out quickly enough that he needs to strike a balance.

Chinks123 · 12/08/2016 11:40

Also there is zero chance it is Harry Potter that is making him aggressive..

LilacSpunkMonkey · 12/08/2016 11:40

Oh, so much nonsense in your OP that I'd be here all day with it!

I shall sum up instead with - don't be a pillock, mate.

QuestionableMouse · 12/08/2016 11:40

Many of the classics have more violence in them than the books you've listed!

Chinks123 · 12/08/2016 11:38

I think most people would be very proud of their 10 year old wanting to read long books like that and actually enjoying them! Why should he have to read classicals if fantasy or whatever is the genre he enjoys? I have personally re read the Harry Potter books about 20+ times over the years. Why is ignoring another genre 'not appropriate?' Just because you think it's crappy/useless doesn't mean they are Hmm

FurkinA · 12/08/2016 11:37

Grinat Harry Potter making children aggressive. Has he put a spell on classmates?

pieceofpurplesky · 12/08/2016 11:37

Hmmmm. I'll bite. Just met him read what he wants - it is not the books making him aggressive it is you. For a ten year old boy the classics have no appeal or anything he can connect with.

QueenZelda · 12/08/2016 11:33

Are you for real?

Reading (any book) is a wonderful thing and should be encouraged.

If your son is acting up then I rather suspect it's because of you rather than because of his favourite books.

TormundGiantsbabe · 12/08/2016 11:33

I'm female and have always obsessively read and re-read the books I love. When I find a good book then I have to immerse myself, I literally can't put it down.

And I would be angry too if someone tried to force me to read something I'm not interested in or threatened to restrict my access to books! Shock

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