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Find the positive in whatever they have done and praise them for it. Don't over do it as it can be counter-productive and they'll know if you don't mean it!

Praise them when they achieve something and be positive with them

You should focus on a child's effort and not the result. For example "you worked so hard", "wow how did you do that can you show me" etc.

Encouragement, praise and letting them acknowledge they have done well at something and feel good about it. Being positive about them and letting them have their own ideas.

Listen to them, make them feel that what they have to say is important. That their feelings and opinions matter, also plenty of praise, every little pasta picture and portrait goes up on the fridge and the walls! Encourage them to ask questions so they grow curious about the world around them, and last but not least, make them feel they are loved! :)

Lots and lots of prise and encouragement. But be specific, say wow you did so well staying inside the lines or I'm so impressed how straight you cut that. Also asking them to 'teach' you or a younger sibling how they do something really makes them feel good xx

Positivity and praise, interact with them in all social situations and include them in conversations.

I loved to praise my childrens behaviour, if I saw them be kind, well behaved, or if they just did the right thing. Also listen to your child, make them know that you think they are amazing and their confidence will get a big boost!

I think praise for specific achievements and activities, but also let them fail without rushing in to save the day all the time.

Praise is key even for the small things making them feel they've achieved something is very important.

Listen to them and lots of praise. Don't make a big thing of them not being able to do something, praise their efforts don't criticise. Always try to understand where a fear may have come from and think of ways to support them with it and understand its OK to be afraid of things, but some things aren't as scary as they might think. Don't try to force them to not be afraid but support them in learning that some things aren't as scary as they might think. Just support, encourage and lots of praise.

Let them explore let them go outside their comfort zones. I think the trick is it has to be the right time for them, but encourage them as much as possible

Positivity is key. Be confident in them in order to increase their own confidence!
Also be empathetic and help them learn to be patient and calm.

lots of encouragement and praise.

Lots of praise and encouragement! Taking an interest in what interests your child and being supportive! Listen and talk to your child! (Really listen making eye contact, they know when you are not really listening)

It is important no to be too pushy and to always keep encouraging and supporting

I try and boost my sons confidence by being there for him. Being positive. My son thrives on consistency. I tell him that i love him and try and praise him. Also take a lot about the positive things and not the negative ones.

Praise, praise, praise even for the little things

I have two older boys and two girls, and with my youngest two, they were both lacking a little in confidence at school. Due to illness I began homeschooling them, and straightaway they grew more confident, and were happier. Not saying home education is for everyone, but for us, its been absolutely amazing. One thing that has helped my youngest is letting her pay for things in shops, and also, she loves to do the washing. She even shows my 17 year old how to seperate his darks and colours and how to put them on the right wash, and she's only five lol. Home educating is so much fun, we learn what we want to when we want to, and its completely changed my kids into confident bubbly kids that enjoy every single day, including the long lie ins! lol

I have a 3 yr old so haven't been doing this for that long in the scheme of things, but I find that he responds really positively to praise and noticing when he has done something good. It makes him really happy and in turn wants to do more things good to get the same response. For example we started a sticker chart and when he's doing something really well, or being really kind or helpful he'll get a sticker and he's now started asking what he can do to help to earn himself another sticker. I can see that he's really enjoying doing things well and it's boosting his confidence and encouraging him at the same time.

Praise them at every opportunity, get them to read and write with you and make it fun.

Giving praise and letting them know its okay to fail and make mistakes. Also when starting something new that might be difficult let them do the parts that are achievable first - that will build their confidence and then encourage them to continue with the bits that are harder

I make sure they interact with lots of children by having parties and lots of tea's.

Never make them feel small if they make a mistake but rather help them to see for themselves where they went wrong and praise them for putting it right.

Give specific praise, for example instead of simply saying 'good job' say 'I really liked how when things got difficult you didn't give up, that makes me very proud of you'