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BathJ · 07/06/2010 21:46

Hi, I've never blogged before but I'm so fed up and angry that I have been spurred on to do so! We were recommended a childminder who ofsted rated as 'good' and who had glowing references, she seemed nice and we provisionally signed up when I was pregnant. We agreed that I would call when my baby was born which I did and we signed contracts. At this point my childminder said that she would hold the space for my son for a holding fee, £500, which would go towards the childcare fees that we accrued during the settle in period and over the first few months. We felt that was fair enough and that we were led to believe that this was the done thing? Anyway, all was fine until the settling in period when my son really didn't settle in very well and the childminder really didn't look very happy with the situation either, she was obviously stressed out. She looked after him at home and took him for a drive on the school run

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booyhoo · 07/06/2010 21:56

ok, i get it. if i am understanding right then she has only had him for 2 days before saying she didn't want him anymore?

did she give reasons why she couldn't look after him? how old is he? tbh unless he is majorly difficult to look after and she has other mindees to look after, i dont think she has given it long enough.

BathJ · 07/06/2010 21:56

created half a post by accident - it's been a long day!

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Fruitysunshine · 07/06/2010 21:56

How much money do you think has been unused in childcare fees?

frakkit · 07/06/2010 21:53

Okay, so far retainer fee is normal and nothing seems wrong. I suspect you didn't finish typing before pressing post?

BathJ · 07/06/2010 21:52

and that appeared to be it. He just couldn't settle. I was prepared for this as it taken my friends babies varying amounts of time to settle in and with lots of tears everyday. However, after not very many hours of settling in and into the second day of my return to work my childminder said that she felt that she couldn't look after my son any more and gave me a days notice and said that she would seek advise from the nmca as she felt it was unfair to return the money that we gave her, in good faith towards the childcare fees. Am I being unreasonable to think that this is wholly unfair and that infact the ncma contract only protects the childminders and does not protect the parent in the event that the childminder cancels the place as she 'held open the space'. It does not seem right nor fair to me. I just wanted to warn others, just incase this happened to anyone else.

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booyhoo · 07/06/2010 21:48

was that the end of the post or did you hit create by accident?

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