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Is it me,or the competition is really tight for nannies in London?nannies&even parents please help

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NannyNorthLlondon · 14/01/2010 17:10

I am looking for a nanny position since november,I tried agencies aswell,I have been for a few interviews,but no answer..
I have 3 years exp as live-in nanny+some volunteer in Eu,Icp and first aid...the crb is in progress.I am starting to get worried little bit,maybe I am doing something wrong at the interviews or my qualifications are not enough,I really dont know,because I have excellent references,and the 2 families I worked for have been really pleased with me,and we still keep in contact,but they dont need me anymore.
Nannies who have more experience and parents..what should I do?some advice please.
Thank you

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NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 16:53

Just received a reply from a job I applied for,does it matter your tax status in any way for your future employer?The lady was asking me what is my tax status and if I am self-employer

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NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 16:10

tiggergirl,I applied for the ones that suit me.Trust me,I have my eyes on gumtree all day .
Frankkina I know,thats what I said,I dont even know if is gonna be someone accepting that kind of job.You have been a real help for me,I owe you

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frakkinaround · 15/01/2010 15:22

Avoid like the plague! You deserve a proper contract, proper pay and a declared salary.

When you say 8/hour are you quoting net? If so, start talking gross and employers will be able to work out exactly what it's costing per week. If they ask what you charge say 'x gross which is y net' and if they quitenet at you confirm the gross wage.

tiggergirl · 15/01/2010 15:04

there are jobs in highgate and lsington n1 on gumtree saw them earlier today and paying well.

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 13:49

storm storm..but the sun will shine on my road one day
I just cant be bother,waisting people`s time.
It is better to wait for the right family,in past i didnt had any problem,so i dont rush...but my balance is near to 0 and I cant stand the tought to stay on my parteners £

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Summersoon · 15/01/2010 13:37

One word: Avoid! They sound exploitative.

Very sorry you are having such a bad experience.

tiggergirl · 15/01/2010 13:22

they should pay taxes and if not you should be on at least 8 per hour

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 13:07

I just came back from interview
i dont even know how to put this.. the family was looking for 10 hours/day 4 days a week,pay 7£/h.Everything quite alright.After that they said they want a contract in wich to say that i am working 25 h/week and they are paying me as au pair ,for taxes reason("We have plenty friends who did the same with thier nannies").The 7£/h will be paid by cash,so no taxes...
In the advert they put they were saying we are looking for a nanny 4 days a week,monday-thursday ,40h/week+ocasional babysitting.We pay competitive depending on experience.
OK,PAY ME 7£/h,but pay my taxes,isnt this how it should be?I am not that desperate,NO NO NO.
What is your opinion in?
Thanks to everyone for the advice and help

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SmileyMylee · 15/01/2010 10:30

Definately put the languages in (and any musical ability) , that was a big selling point to us for our last nanny as she used to play games with the children in French.

Good luck with the interview.

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 09:54

tiggergirl i will try that aswell,i tried before,but without featuring it.I think i will wait until the crb comes,just to be sure
Thank you 4 the advice

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NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 09:50

Just getting ready for interview, hope it goes well

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tiggergirl · 15/01/2010 08:51

i am a nanny who found it hard but never been out of work and never found work through agency i find better families myself. all you need to do is add yourself to gumtree talking about what your like and experience and what you are looking for and upload your cv i had 60 people apply and 6 jobs to chose from if you need help i will help you just contact me at
[email protected]

my name is claire and have been nannying 12 years now

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 07:39

done,i send you the original,i just notice,,i dont have any languages in there .where should i put them?

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frakkinaround · 15/01/2010 07:32

Go for it. english governess at gmail dot com

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 07:29

thank you frakkina,i will try that aswell.i am gonna check my Cv,maybe i will change some things in it ,hopefully make it better,not worst.

anyone volunteer to have an eye on my Cv please?

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frakkinaround · 15/01/2010 07:22

I wasn't doubting your exp or motivation, merely saying that it may explain why you're not getting the jobs rather than it being you as you were worried earlier on in the thread that it was something you were doing wrong. All I was trying to point out was it may not be you it may just be you're up against better qualified on paper candidates with the same experience or candidates with more experience. There's not much you can do about the experience short of temping, working in nurseries as cover staff, babysitting and voluntary work but you can actively seek out what qualification you plan to do and tell parents what that is so they can see they'll be getting someone who has a career plan for working with children. You could also put it on your CV that as you've completed the ICP which is unit 1 you're studying for the DHC. Unless of course you plan to do something different.

As you speak French I suggest looking in Ici Londres for work. I have found it very useful in the past and it's a market which will utilise a skill you can offer but many others can't.

NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 07:16

Boffinmum, I am a reliable person,and I am serios when it comes to my job,I commit to it,no matter what!I only go to see my parents when I have holidays,even in case of emergency i didnt took a day off.My mum had surgery,and i just didnt ask for day off.I look after myself,even if i have flu,in 2 days is gone,my past employer was because in winter time all of them had terrible flu,and they had days off,just me didnt.With all my past employers I keep in touch,because they respected me,and I respected them.
Conclusion,if an advert says looking for a swimmer driver skiier with full qualification and 20 years exp,i will not apply,but if it says we are looking for a honest hard working bla bla bla i will.I even considered moving if i find a job in different area.

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NannyNorthLlondon · 15/01/2010 07:06

Laquitar,I did check nanny job,I have subscription and every day I recieve a resume of the jobs that are for me.I advertised on simplychildcare aswell,i check gumtree daily,bt I dont apply for every job thats in there,just for the ones that suits me,because I cannot afford to loose my time,and the parents time aswell.I am from Romania,I dont have any restriction to work in Uk,before I came in Uk my french was better then my english,so with a little exercise I can say I am fluent in french aswell,I can understand spanish and italian,i am not the lazy type,I like to learn and etc.,but I dont have the £ to finish my studies unless I find a job.
Frankkina I understand what you are saying,i am sure they are plenty nannies with more qualifications and more experience,but the experience you can have only if you work,not staying at home .And the only thing I wear are jeans ,always trying to be confortable and presentable aswell.

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frakkinaround · 15/01/2010 06:36

Weird predictive text! I aim for presentable but able to sit on the floor!

frakkinaround · 15/01/2010 06:33

I see the agency's point about a CRB. Ofsted also takes a while to come through because they do their own CRB and if you've lived outside the Uk it bumps up the waiting time, frustratingly.

I would get someone else to check your CV through for you. Sometimes they will spot things you don't. I find I'm having to put more extra info on my CV such as additional languages, my hobbies and interests, etc. I do ask parents why they picked my CV out of the many and 50% of the time it's down to something I didn't mention a couple of years ago.

The bilingual suggestion is an excellent one. Do you have your nationality and right to work stated on your CV? I found that made getting jobs overseas easier because I was stating that I was EU and automatically had the right to work and they didn't have to worry about visas.

Clotheswise I wear either smart jeans and a shirt or black trousers and a nice top with boots or ballet flats. I aim gir presentable but able to dig on the floor comfortably and run after a toddler.

Being brutally honest you are up against much better qualified nannies, either with full childcare qualifications or with something else on top of the icp. Actively showing parents which diploma you plan to do (assuming you'll complete the dhc) may help.

Good luck and try out for temp jobs as well!

BoffinMum · 14/01/2010 23:29

I would agree with K75. We get people saying at the end 'By the way I have booked 3/4/5 weeks' holiday in school term over the next 3/4/5 months so I would need to take them'. We then show them the door. As the job description specifies that no holidays can be taken in school term time, we wonder why they have applied. One week might be acommodated, but being absent 25% of the time we needed them in the first few months ... duh?

I have also had people announce they only want a part-time job and can't I go part time myself to fit in with them; demand 25% more money than we are offering in the advert and then telling us everyone else is getting that (er - they're not, you know) and fail to answer basic questions such as what they might do to entertain a one-year-old.

Laquitar · 14/01/2010 22:55
  • Have you checked nannyjob.co.uk?
  • I don't know which country you are from and what is your first language but perhaps you could target bi-lingual families with the same background as yours?
NannyNorthLlondon · 14/01/2010 21:05

about being registered,i dont think its any point registering before you the job,if the family want me to register i will do it,but otherwise i didnt considered doing that

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NannyNorthLlondon · 14/01/2010 21:04

I registered with agencies,but most of them said that they cant put me forward for any job until i dont have my CRB.So the interviews i went at were thanks to me searching and advertising..but I tought its not ok to call the parents,unless they call you and let you know they want you or not.All the agencies said that they like my Cv and my references,so Its no problem about that.It should be the CRB,i cant wait to sort it out . I came in Uk for better opportunities,for a better life.I am still studying from distance accountancy,that what I was doing even before I left.I want to stay a long time,atleast 5 more years,I have a partener here aswell,so its not like i will live uk soon.I could`ave stayed more with the last family,but we agreed,and I moved in london.I am looking for a live-out position,and i dont expect anyone to pay me more than 8£/h,I understand I am a beginner,but all of us have to start somewhere,dont we?
I will study to get a diploma in childcare and everything,i am really pasionate about it,but I need to save some money to do that.
Thank you for your responses,maybe its just the police check at the end of the day..

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SmileyMylee · 14/01/2010 20:28

It may just be bad luck. My old nanny (who has 14 years experience as a nanny) has been looking now for about 8 months. She was an exellent nanny.

I have heard that it seems that some jobs are going to people with less experience as they are cheaper. There also seems to be a lot of very good nannies chasing fewer jobs at the moment.

The best thing you can do is get your agency to get feedback from the employers. Nothing in your answers strikes any alarm bells.