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would you be upset to not be thanked properly?

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clankypanky · 04/11/2009 13:47

I have just finished looking after a little girl .She started with me when she was 8 months old and I had her for 9 hours, sometimes 10 hours a day for 4 days of the week. The parents moved house and told me they wanted to get a new childminder in their area as it was adding on to their journey time, I was upset but they reassured me that if they could they would have me carry on for them but that it just wasnt viable because of their journey time...fair enough so I helped them find a new one and gave them details. It then took them 2 months to get round to contacting her. I kept asking whats the situation..Ineed to know so I can look for other work and they kept being apologetic and saying theys not had time to get round to doing anything about but yes she would prob still be leaving by half term. Eventually the Thursday before half term they told me that the following day would be her last! So next day was her last, my children did beautiful cards for her, i did lovely card for her and passed on lovely learning journal that Id worked really hard on. And that was it. No thank you card/gift...nothing. Baby that we've gone through teething, illness, learning to walk, crawl...basically like part of out family for 5 months is gone and Im really upset that the parents never thought to thank me properly...sure, on the door they said a quick thank you but that was it. Am i wrong to expect more? Do any of you get upset when a little one leaves like I have?

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clankypanky · 04/11/2009 14:06

thank you nannyl, Ive been quite upset about it, I can't understand how people can be so ungrateful, yes they paid me but I was looking after the most precious thing in the world for them...I even nursed her when she was sick because they dumped her on me without telling me she was ill and then they scarpered. Is it unproffessional that last night I was thinking about her and worrying that she would be frightened at the new childminders...shes not being settled in or anyhting just thrown straight in with full time...and she was very close to my son too...hes pining for her already so I wonder if she is the same...its left me wondering if Im cut out for this if it upsets me so much.

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nannyl · 04/11/2009 13:57

yes

if you look after a child for most of their waking hours durig the wek for months of course you expect a thank you
for you