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Question for childminders, how long would you give it?

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Somewhereovertherainbow · 16/09/2009 21:54

First day back at work for me = very stressful!

Baby left with my childminder. He has had 4 half days with her, no major problems, a few tears, but not much.

Today, he started crying at 10am and apparently, didn't stop all day. Didn't eat his dinner, or his tea, drank a little milk.
Childminder has said if she has one more day like that, she will not have him again.

I am in floods of tears, I need to work, and I feel like the worst mother in the world.

She had her two grand daughters there today, 8 months and 2.5 years and another little mindee 2 years old and a friend round with some mindees and I think that was all too much for my baby.

I don't think that such a houseful helped him to settle, and want to tell that may have contributed to him having such a miserable day, but I do need to be tactful though, especially as she has said ONE MORE day like that and she is quitting!

How long would you persevere minding a miserable baby, how long do they normally take to settle?

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Somewhereovertherainbow · 16/09/2009 22:03

12 months. He is going through that horrible phase when he won't even let me leave the room to go for a pee without crying!

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Julesnobrain · 16/09/2009 22:03

She sounds awful and really heartless. Personally I wouldn't leave my precious baby in the care of someone so uncaring! Its really horrible to leave your baby I really understand and knowing they are miserable is awful but she is not helping matters. Is there an alternative you could investigate? I know I will get shot down by all the CM's here but this is why I choose a lovely quiet small nursery for DS and DD. Is there a nice one locally to you. Have you looked into it

kingfix · 16/09/2009 21:59

not a cm, so will stand back and let the professionals speak next, but am shocked that the cm has threatened you with quitting after one tearful day. How old is your son?