We have just started and my 10 mth old DS has been quite upset and the CM has been pretty negative. His first full day, on Monday, went ok but she told me she had been dreading it on Sunday (I didn't really want to hear that). She said it went badly today - intermitent tears and no smiles, eating lunch on her lap and she told my mum that she thought he was used to a lot of attention - which he is but he will play quite happily. There are no positive suggestions - just moans about his behaviour.
Also, the tv is on after lunch and was on at 3.30pm today and on at 4.30pm yesterday... The policy says two hours a day.
My gut instinct is telling me that I need to find another childminder as she doesn't seem to have much positive to say about him.
Also, it has only been three settling in sessions and two days so of course he is unsettled and it will get better but she doesn't say anything like that.
Am I being neurotic?
Thank you!