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PixiNanny · 19/04/2009 20:00

Me and my partner are looking at au pair coupling from next March onwards, I was wondering if any of you guys know of some websites where I can find couple work?

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PixiNanny · 23/07/2009 16:19

You haven't offended me lol. We have probably two or three photos of us together, I don't like any of them personally, but it's all we have and that main one is the best we have out of our morbidly small collection. I have photos of each of us (but not together) though they aren't much better, and in our PGL uniform, but we aren't allowed to post those as it's against PGLs policy. Which is a bitch, because a few of those would be better than what we have.

Though I don't know where you got the party idea from, we were in his room playing the playstation Neither of us are hugely social lol I had to be dragged out of the house for my own birthday party, and the only reason I done it was because I was dressed up as supergirl haha

Either way, unfortunately we're not doing it now, as he's decided that au pairing isn't for him at all and isn't swaying

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dreamteamgirl · 23/07/2009 12:18

Hello Pixinanny. I hadnt repleid to this yet as I wasnt sure how to word this and the last thing that I want to do is cause any offence at all.

I think the package you are offering is great and I would be thrilled to have the space and be able to afford you for my DS. HOWEVER ...
I would probably not even pause on your profile.

Its the photos you see, they look like a young couple having a party- which they probably are.

It would be SO much better if you could have a photo of you both in your outdoors gear, like climbing or water sports, not hanging all over each other but just holding hands or pulling a boat out the water or well I dont know, but something that says 'we are professional, sporty people' not 'we really love each other'

They ARE lovely photos of you both, and would be great to send on to people when you are exchangng emails, but I just dont think they give the right first impression
I really hope I havent offended you!!

PixiNanny · 19/07/2009 23:46

two/three weeks time I think, August 7th. A pain though as I got the swine so haven't had a driving lesson for ages

Anyone had any luck with simplyangelic agency? Or any other agencies?

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Millarkie · 19/07/2009 21:32

When's your next driving test booked for ?

PixiNanny · 19/07/2009 00:45

Looking for work from Jan '10 onwards still that is

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PixiNanny · 19/07/2009 00:44

Regurgitating (again)

Does anybody know of agencies that deal with couples? I've contacted two or three and they haven't gotten back to me yet and PGL are going to demand that we sign contracts by September/October at the latest, so I'm stuck for time really and would like to get a job sorted by October preferably!

So yes, agencies? Know of any? I google au pair couple and get loads of sites like Trovit and the usual AP sites, but not much else!

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PixiNanny · 20/06/2009 19:17

Haha, thanks! It's one of those words that I always forget

I'm starting to rue the day I decided to do this, the sites have barely any jobs for couples anyways, let alone those starting in January I really want a job with shared responsibilities rather than each of us having our own separate tasks!

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frAKKINPannikin · 20/06/2009 17:26

Grammar is the correct spelling

PixiNanny · 19/06/2009 21:01

Oh, & a cheeky shameless self promo:

If anyone fancies an AP Couple from Jan '10, send an email my way! It's on page 2

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PixiNanny · 19/06/2009 20:56

Haha, that was the last thing I chucked in as J was calling me about pizzas thanks for the heads up on it!

& my grammar = fail sometimes, I apologise lol

(and have I even spelt grammar right?)

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frAKKINPannikin · 19/06/2009 17:52

Nikki is looking to take the next level.

Kids' camp (pedant....pedant...)

Must dash but those 2 struck me on skim-read!

PixiNanny · 19/06/2009 17:47

We are a couple and are looking for a couple position, so please don't contact us if you are after a single person!

I (Nikki) am currently a live-in nanny who will be fully qualified (NVQ level 3) before I reach you. I'm a nice person and I love working with kids and have done so in a variety of settings (school, home, nursery & kids adventure camp) over the past few years.

Andy is a lovely guy, very chilled out and enjoys having something to do, whether that be building something, playing games with kids, climbing/canoeing or anything outdoorsy really! He is currently working in France for a kids adventure camp as an instructor, though last year he was a favoured 'group leader' for 13-16 year olds with the same company (contact for more details, I'll be happy to chat about it).

We're both trained in first aid and have been CRB checked within 2009.

We'd like to truly share the usual responsibilities of au pair couples as we're both keen on childcare/gardening/DIY/etc equally and don't mind straying from usual gender roles to give one another a hand.

Both of us have worked away from home before as watersports instructors (we're BCU/UKCC Level One Paddlesports Coaches and Nikki is looking to tae the next level asap) for the aforementioned kids camp. We both thoroughly enjoyed the experience and we would not like to abandon our outdoor pursuits completely. So we're perfect companions for parents with climbing, paddling and sailing on their minds! (Though we're happy doing this in our own time if this is not your cup of tea).

We love climbing and paddling mainly, though Andy is also a sailor (something I'd like to get into as well) and we're both very keen on watersports in general.
And we will happily encourage (and coach if you'd like) your kids and join them on outdoor adventures whereever possible! We enjoy that sort of thing.

We are both quite healthy people, Andy's very much into keeping trim and active whilst I'm the one who focusses more on a healthy state of being and eating right. I'm a vegetarian, but Andy isn't, he'll eat anything and everything pretty much! However I am perfectly happy to cook meat and do so on a regular basis for my two current charges.

I'm hoping to learn a variety of languages, though ones I've been meaning to focus on first are Farsi, BSL and French; and I'm sure that Andy would love to have a chance to practice his (somewhat lacking :p) German skills!

If we end up staying in the UK, we'd both like colleges nearby where we can study in our free time (though this isn't essential).

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catepilarr · 18/06/2009 21:29

;DD

PixiNanny · 18/06/2009 21:20

I'm an anti-social girl lol, I maybe could beg money off of the shops in our courtyard but then what about the days that they aren't there or after 5? I have no neighbours and don't know any people nearby who I could contact as we live in the middle of town and there aren't many people living in the town itself and we're the only ones in my courtyard, the rest are shops. I'm thinking way too deeply into this now haha, it's got me thinking though because I have never thought so deeply into the driving thing properly before

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catepilarr · 18/06/2009 19:36

same here, i cant afford taxis unless absolutelly necessary either.
my reaction was to 'i worry about ap's social life' side of things. aggree with you that for emergencies is the driving useful but we were not talking about that. when i worked as an ap for 50 guid a week i had a list of friends/neighbours/grandparents numbers for emergencies but would not have a problem paying for a taxi to the hospital if it came to it.

PixiNanny · 18/06/2009 19:07

I don't know about you but I've never been able to afford a taxi unless necessary I have lived in the countryside (3/4 miles from the nearest town, I did often walk it as there was no public transport from it) and now I live away from big towns, I also went to high school in a small town in the country, which has most definately made me appreciate public transport, but in this job, I'd feel safer with a car during the day when I may have to go pick a kid up from school if they're ill, or something similar. I can't afford to wait for a bus to do that and if I went to Cheltenham for the day I'd have to pay £25 for a taxi home, which is why I would prefer a car if I were in a country house in the middle of nowhere, I just couldn' afford it otherwise. Emergencies just cannot be done if you have to rely on public transport and taxi's with limited money. I worry now what I'd do if my two charges were to hurt themselves at home, I'd have to go with a taxi but I don't have that kind of money just lying about often (nearly a tenner to get to the hospital I've been told!) so I'm perfectly happy with parents who want drivers, it's fair enough really!

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catepilarr · 18/06/2009 17:03

millarkie - in my view you have every good public transport with trains every half and hour. /in fact better than i ever had where i lived in the uk apart from london/. trains also tend to run late at night, or should i phrase it run until later then busses. a season ticket i would consider a nice perk but would not dream of expecting it. when i first came to the uk as a 20yo aupair, the busses ran about every 2.5 hours with last bus was leaving the city /50 min on the bus/ at about eightand at ten on a friday. we never found it a problem. perhaps we were different.or had different expectations.

pixi - if you miss a bus, you either wait for the next one, walk, or get a taxi. dont see a problem there. you just need to think differently when you live in the country to when you live in the city where you can hop on a bus every 10 mins, thats all.

PixiNanny · 18/06/2009 13:35

I personally would find not being able to drive when living in the country side a massive problem for a job, especially if you do something like miss the bus, what happens then? You're screwed really! I'm a huge advocator of public transport, but at the same time I'd worry about things like that :/ I haven't visited Cheltenham yet because I don't know my way around it and if I miss a bus home I'm in trouble!

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Millarkie · 17/06/2009 20:41

catepilarr- I'll try to explain the driving thing. The village we live in has a train station which has trains every 30 mins to a big city (20 mins) and in opposite direction to a nice town (cinema, good shops etc, also 20 mins). It has hourly buses Mon-Sat to the local market town (where the kids go to school, library, small independent shops, gym/pool). There are no buses on Sunday. I can only go from the experience of the APs we have had and number 1 AP would've been happy using bus/train during the day but needed the car to meet up with friends to go to cinema etc in the evening (didn't want to use public transport in the dark). AP number 2 was horrified when she found out that the buses were hourly ('OMG you'ld have to know when you wanted to go somewhere' was her comment) and uses the car rather than the train to visit the city. And there are often clashes at weekends when she wants to use the car at the same time as me (our agreement is that she has the car 8-4 weekdays and has to negotiate for it in evenings/weekends although I have never said No so far). I haven't had the impression that anyone would be happy living here without access to a car. Although thinking about it, if the car wasn't an option I would guess we could provide a season ticket for travel between village and town so they could get to library, gym, etc using train. Our APs tend to work about 17 hours a week at the moment so have plenty of time to go out and about during the day.
As I said, the kids go to and from school by bus but it has been handy having the AP able to drive the car the couple of times ds has left his swim kit/lunch bag behind and it needed dropping at school, and the week I had a important meeting outside my normal working hours and AP was able to take ds to Karate..so it does increase flexibility.
Costs me a fortune though (insurance,fuel and at least 1 new tyre per au pair so far), so do you think you would be happy with public transport in that situation? If so maybe I'll take 'driver' off my requirements!

PixiNanny · 17/06/2009 18:58

Can't get a visa for Aus as you can only work 3 months with one family. And I'd like to visit Ireland, but not live there :/ And also, lack of couple jobs going, it seems that England and Scotland are keen on couples, but I've rarely seen them advertised elsewhere.

I understand the driving thing, as though it isn't important to me either, theres also the case of if something happens to the child whilst they are in your care in the midde of the countryside, if your AP can't drive how the hell are they going to get help? And what if you need to run a quick errand, you needto wait for busses and things. So though I'm not keen on being a driver myself, I understand the need for it and the families wanting it, which is why I'm trying to get my test over and done with and will make damn sure lightly encourage my other half to do so when he returns from France

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catepilarr · 17/06/2009 18:55

forgot to say if the driving is needed for the job that a competely different story.

after reading about some aps i guess you cant believe everyone when say they dont mind using the bus.

catepilarr · 17/06/2009 18:48

millarkie,i cant get my head around this i-worry-about-my-ap-not-driving thing . i was told this by many families. i guess it might be a problem for some people, but i personally am happy to get around on bike and public transport. i even lived in places without public transport. well, i am thinking about getting a licence anyway, before i am too old to learn to drive ;)
pixi, have you had any replies from ireland? i had families in the past wanted someone keen on watersports. and waht about australia? i would have thought there would be lots of sporty people?

PixiNanny · 17/06/2009 16:49

The better drivers are those who take longer to pass :p

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Millarkie · 17/06/2009 16:26

I meant ' we are not mean enough' by the way!!

Good luck with the next driving test (took me 3 attempts!)

PixiNanny · 17/06/2009 15:38

I hate being a non-driver sometimes I'll be glad to get it finished/over-and-done-with though, need to book a test before summer really (I have the kids full time then!) but I haven't been lucky enough to have found one yet!

Aw, that sucks then lol IYes I remember your thread about the AP woe-ness, I didn't reply I don't think but I was following it, I sincerely hope your new AP is better for you and isn't a terror like the current(?) one lol

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