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Odd nanny candidate ---- or is it just me? All a bit suss...(long sorry)

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henrys7thwife · 15/01/2009 01:41

We put up an advert for a part-time nanny a few days ago. We interviewed a lovely Australian girl (Nanny A) whom we got along with very well but who hasn't worked for about 18 months and seems to need a job right away - which is fair enough I suppose. We interviewed her on Sunday and asked her to email us details of her references on the following day.

She emailed less than an hour after leaving our home with 2 telephone references and an email address for a much older position, one that she left about 4 years ago saying that she didn't normally give out this person as a reference but they had 2 children close together as we do and so she thought it would be relevant. She included in the email that she was extremely interested in the position and it was exactly what she was looking for, dream job, etc etc. We only are looking for about 10 hours per week and she hasn't said definitively what she's doing the rest of the time.

Before we can even check references, two days later I receive an email from another candidate, Nanny B, a bit of a vague response, but basically along the lines of 'I am very interested in your position please tell me ASAP if you have found someone or if I can come for interview, maybe you have someone already...' Odd bit? This is from the EXACT email address Nanny A provided us as the 4-year-old reference contact.

I emailed Nanny A asking about this and she quickly replied back 'Oh sorry, it wasn't xxx.xxxx123@yahoo it was xxx.xxxx1234@yahoo'. Also another spiel about how she really wanted job and could we get back to her ASAP.

Am I right in being suspicious of this? Otherwise we got along with her very well and probably would have offered her the job but her extreme exuberance and seeming need to start literally tomorrow. I am scared to even email the reference...thinking it may all be a sham and her mate or something on the other end.

Where are all the good part-time nannies

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littlestarschildminding · 15/01/2009 07:30

I personally would run a mile....

Sounds really suss...no nanny should be out of work for 18mnths without a valid reason...or need to give you a 4 year old reference!

References should only be acceptable if they have an address and phone number AND can be verified as a genuine person not some vauge email address!!

I would be very cautious... BUT references aren't everything..If I were considering her I would have her round for a stern chat about how lying is the worst thing a nanny can do and that if she wants the job she needs to tell you the truth about past jobs and experience rather than providing dodgy references!

Good luck

Blondeshavemorefun · 15/01/2009 07:22

def sounds suss to me

this excellent part time nnany is employed

it makes me wonder why she hasnt worked for 18mths - even if not in a temp position

the email ref sounds dodgy, if she left them 4 years ago, and hasnt worked for 18mth

what did she do in the 2.5years since she left that so called job?

who are the 2 telephone references?

savoycabbage · 15/01/2009 03:56

It is odd. The only 'honest' explanation of what happened is that she did give you the wrong address and then by a coincidence someone else applied for the job and their e-mail is the same as the one that the first girl gave to you in error. That is not very likely.

SuperBunny · 15/01/2009 02:23

Hmm, I'd be a bit wary, I think. I'd ask for another reference, from a different job even - one with a proper work email address that verifies where they work, not just a gmail account or similar that anyone could set up.

And definitely talk to them on the phone.

I think I'd be looking elsewhere as well.

nooka · 15/01/2009 01:50

I wouldn't worry about the exuberance, unless you think it would be wearing. I would be concerned about the e-mail, which sounds a little odd. Could you ring up the two telephone references and see what sort of conversations you have?

henrys7thwife · 15/01/2009 01:41

Also to explain away the odd hour - BF'ing and had an 'aha' moment.

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