Our 15 yr old babysitter K sat for DS on Weds. All fine, DS happy etc. This morning DS told me that he met K's friend J who had a motorbike and helped K carry DS's books upstairs when he went to bed. I like K a lot - she is an intelligent, sensible girl. The family lived next doot to me until a few months but now live only a quarter of a mile away and when she sits for me her mum always stays in just in case. Her mum is lovely and wise and I trust her. All I want to do is ask her mum if she thinks this boy J is ok to be in my house when K is babysitting and if shw thinks he's ok I would be happy with that. But am I out of order to do that?! K's parents are quite strict and I don't want her to get into trouble or feel that she can't trust me. Or am I being completely over the top?! We are a forces family, DH is away at the mo and I am miles from family so I really want to keep using K for babysitting. Oh, and DS is a PFB!