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How to find a mother’s helper

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NeedingAHand · 12/01/2026 00:00

I need an extra pair of hands with my 1 yr old for a few hours here and there on a temporary basis while I catch up with some things. I’m at home so not looking for nursery, a nanny or ongoing childcare, just occasional support so a mother’s helper feels like the right fit.

Facebook mum groups seem to be the obvious route but I’m quite private and have a lot of acquaintances on there. I’m also a bit wary as similar posts often get flooded with self promotion.

For those who have used a mother’s helper, how did you find them without relying on Facebook? Are there other routes people have found work well?

I’d also appreciate a sense check on what a fair hourly rate is in the South East and what qualities or experience are most important to look out for.

Any insight appreciated. Thank you.

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NeedingAHand · 12/01/2026 07:34

CookingFatCat · 12/01/2026 03:55

You could look on the Bumble childcare app?
whereabouts are you? London will have a higher rate.

I’ll have a look for the Bumble app. Not heard of it before. We’re in Hertfordshire.

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Blondeshavemorefun · 12/01/2026 05:22

You are more likely to find a temp /ad hoc /self employed nanny who is happy to do days here and there

ask about local fb groups or on childcare site

CookingFatCat · 12/01/2026 03:55

You could look on the Bumble childcare app?
whereabouts are you? London will have a higher rate.

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