My nanny works for me 2 days a week - Thurs and Friday and for my friend Mon and Tues. On Mon she texted my friend to say she wasn't coming in because she had to sort out a "personal problem". On Tues she texted again to say she wouldn't be in that week or next because of the "personal problem".
I was concerned and also wanted to confirm that she wouldn't be coming to me this week either so I texted her and called her several times and left a message without any response.
I was becoming quite worried as she has no family in the UK and is single and has had health problems in the past - I thought something dreaful might have happened to her or her family.
Today she texted me and said she is fine - just "confused" and she needs to be on her own. Shel will let me know at 8pm tonight whether she will be in tomorrow.
I am fuming. I've been so worried and 8pm the night before is too late to arrange alternative childcare.
What would you do if you were me?