Wasn’t really sure where to put this.. My DD goes to a childminder 2 days a week. I usually collect somewhere between 4-5pm depending when my meetings finish.
Last week when I dropped her off she sprung on me that she wouldn’t be able to take her daughter to work as she would still have the other 2 children and it’s a faff loading them all in the car, so asked when I collected DD could I drop her to work. It’s about a 10 min drive from my house, not a massive diversion. I was a bit taken by surprise but just said yes that’s fine. Her daughter is 19 and works in a restaurant.
She’s just text asking if I can drop her daughter to work both days this week that I collect. I’m worried this is now going to become a ‘thing’. I was actually going to collect DD early tomorrow and take her to the beach.. but I don’t want her to be annoyed at me and therefore take it out on DD. (Though I know that’s probably unlikely).
How would you respond? I thought I was helping her as a one off..